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Posted: 6 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: FruitToasty



Their statement is "Women are enemies of women"

When you say this and try to prove it, you are including 3.5 billion women of world. Do you realize that more than 90% crimes in the world are committed by men? So are men enemies of men? This is a very bizarre picture, just because some women are difficult doesn't mean all women are the worst well wishers or enemies of women. .. Being enemy of same sex is not embedded in the DNA of women.

I am sorry, this is not debatable not for something as frivolous as a tv show



I am sure I didn't mention all. I have mentioned many times they are. This is off topic , but many cases of dowry/domestic abuse are often triggered by women. We do hear in newspapers. I will not continue further , this is not relevant to the show.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I'm just putting this general comment out there, from what I have read in this thread, to clear two common misconceptions.
Before I begin though, let me add a disclaimer: I have read so many threads and comments right now that every thing is mushing together and I don't know exactly where I read what comment. I am 99% sure the comments came up in this thread, but if they were in another one as well as this one, my intention is not to bring another thread's topic into this topic as I am aware that is against MF rules.


1.) Regarding memory loss. As per the show, Kunal has lacunar memory loss. This is when a traumatic brain injury causes a person to lose memory about one specific event. In this case the specific event is the whole EMA and subsequent divorce with Mauli. That being said, the patient does not lose the ability to form new memories. I.e. He is still able to form memories of what is going on at that time in the present, in this case, Mauli acting as his wife. When the patient does recover and gains back memory of the specific event (in this case when Kunal does get back memory of the EMA/divorce) that does not mean he will forget Mauli acting as his wife and what has transpired since he got shot. He will remember Mauli acting as his wife (his present) along with the past.

2.) Another misconception is about what is going on with Mauli. Her anxiety, flashbacks, being startled (and sometimes fear) are definitely all symptoms of PTSD. The whole scene where Kunal put his arm around her in bed and she can be visibly seen to be breathing faster, has flashbacks and almost curled up - all those are tell tale signs of post-traumatic stress disorder. So she is going through trauma from the looks of it.

However, even if I am just overanalyzing the situation by calling it trauma and it could be more uncomfortableness, hurt, whatever one may call it - the point is, Mauli doesn't like, neither is she enjoying what is happening to her, we can all agree to that, no?

Now, I will add a few more things:

1.) I didn't just google this information, acting like a "Google MD", so please assume from my post - what field of study I am in. Yup, 3rd year MS (medical student). I've been quietly reading the comments about these two misconceptions the past two days, without worrying about dropping my knowledge, but I felt that today since the forum has been really actively talking about these two things, I should add my facts to the table.

2.) The writers may not be as medically accurate as I am assuming them to be, and all the above medical knowledge might be lost on them. I may be giving them too much credit in assuming that they did their medical research before presenting the above two medical phenomenon's in their storyline.

And in conclusion:

I hope this clears the air about any misconceptions on Mauli's behavior/reactions towards Kunal's advances as well as Kunal's amnesia track. I can understand members having the POV that they don't agree with the current track or they don't accept the current track or that they think the outcome of the current track/end game will be their preferred couple because we all want it to be our ship that sails.

But saying that one doesn't understand the current track and why it's happening - well it is very evident and has been repeated many a times by many other members apart from myself. There isn't much to understand, in my opinion.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Indira1211

When people move on ..they don't forget their past...rather they accept that It had happened and decide to give life another chance. Also even if you move on it doesn't mean that you will forgive the wrong that people have done to you,,rather you will decide that it's not going to control your life and you get on with the rest of your life . That is what Mauli has been doing. She will never forget what Kunal did to her. His hurt and betrayal was too much..his rejection of her and their unborn child was too much. So she will never forget it ..that's why she will still have images of it ..but she has decided to move on in her life and get another chance of happiness ...and that's why Ishaan is there .. Her remembering Kunal and what he did to her does not mean she still wants him,..rather it means that she will always remember how he hurt her and she will never let him back into her life again..😊


Nothing can be more accurate than this.šŸ‘šŸ¼ Moving on and forgetting are two totally different things. Not to change anybody's thoughts or opinions, but just to give clarity to this statement, I am going to share our family's experience here.

About 3 years ago, one of my teenage nieces was almost sexually assaulted at a school party. Her very close friend had the presence of mind and alertness to avert the situation, raise a huge hue and cry and call my sister, BLESS HER HEARTā¤ļø, wherever she is now. My niece in the mean time, needed some help working through the situation, she is a beautiful, thriving, confident college student now. She continues to interact with her fellow students and is well adjusted. This is moving on... šŸ‘šŸ¼

But would she ever forget the situation? If she ever comes across that same guy supposed " friend" or if placed in a similar situation, I don't think she would interact normally with that guy or the situation. In fact, she would react violently if she even gets a inkling that she is being pushed into that situation again. If she forgets and acts being naive again, then she is stupid, didn't learn anything from her experience in the first place. THAT IS THE POWER OF BAD MEMORY... 🤢

If she is unable to function in her life, go to college, have meaningful relationships with her fellow students, is generally hypervigilant in life, that is PTSD... 😭

This is my opinion based on my experiences. What about those of us who can't forget anything ( read me), especially bad experiences and hold major grudges? Yes, agree it is an individual thing on how we deal with situations, moving on vs forgetting.

And remember, the betrayal Mauli faced is HUGE, there is simply no way to normalize this🤢

Not sure if this discussion is still relevant or not...
Edited by mili9 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: ritzbitz786

I'm just putting this general comment out there, from what I have read in this thread, to clear two common misconceptions.

Before I begin though, let me add a disclaimer: I have read so many threads and comments right now that every thing is mushing together and I don't know exactly where I read what comment. I am 99% sure the comments came up in this thread, but if they were in another one as well as this one, my intention is not to bring another thread's topic into this topic as I am aware that is against MF rules.


1.) Regarding memory loss. As per the show, Kunal has lacunar memory loss. This is when a traumatic brain injury causes a person to lose memory about one specific event. In this case the specific event is the whole EMA and subsequent divorce with Mauli. That being said, the patient does not lose the ability to form new memories. I.e. He is still able to form memories of what is going on at that time in the present, in this case, Mauli acting as his wife. When the patient does recover and gains back memory of the specific event (in this case when Kunal does get back memory of the EMA/divorce) that does not mean he will forget Mauli acting as his wife and what has transpired since he got shot. He will remember Mauli acting as his wife (his present) along with the past.

2.) Another misconception is about what is going on with Mauli. Her anxiety, flashbacks, being startled (and sometimes fear) are definitely all symptoms of PTSD. The whole scene where Kunal put his arm around her in bed and she can be visibly seen to be breathing faster, has flashbacks and almost curled up - all those are tell tale signs of post-traumatic stress disorder. So she is going through trauma from the looks of it.

However, even if I am just overanalyzing the situation by calling it trauma and it could be more uncomfortableness, hurt, whatever one may call it - the point is, Mauli doesn't like, neither is she enjoying what is happening to her, we can all agree to that, no?

Now, I will add a few more things:

1.) I didn't just google this information, acting like a "Google MD", so please assume from my post - what field of study I am in. Yup, 3rd year MS (medical student). I've been quietly reading the comments about these two misconceptions the past two days, without worrying about dropping my knowledge, but I felt that today since the forum has been really actively talking about these two things, I should add my facts to the table.

2.) The writers may not be as medically accurate as I am assuming them to be, and all the above medical knowledge might be lost on them. I may be giving them too much credit in assuming that they did their medical research before presenting the above two medical phenomenon's in their storyline.

And in conclusion:

I hope this clears the air about any misconceptions on Mauli's behavior/reactions towards Kunal's advances as well as Kunal's amnesia track. I can understand members having the POV that they don't agree with the current track or they don't accept the current track or that they think the outcome of the current track/end game will be their preferred couple because we all want it to be our ship that sails.

But saying that one doesn't understand the current track and why it's happening - well it is very evident and has been repeated many a times by many other members apart from myself. There isn't much to understand, in my opinion.


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Thank you!! Very well put. And its so good to see that you still have grasp of what sgoing on. Somewhere between the forum discussions and unnecessarily sadistic scenes I have lost sense of whats really going on šŸ˜†


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Posted: 6 years ago
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well if kunal and mauli end up together...it will be really sad .
Thats depressing msg sending to society.
In reality people like kunal dont lose anything.
At least in show i want a justified good ending.
This show is epitome of all bad things .
Kunal mauli ending together is not right.
The maker of the show is really bad.
Gajra said bad will not win.
She was lying at that time.
Lets see ...i want to see the perspective of the channel.
They were and will be sending strong messages .



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