Maunal can never be the end game - Page 5

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

She knows how to hide her feelings, they didn't really shoot anything for these festivals but they did shoot for the infamous kheer...

Mauli was uncomfortable cooking kheer when Pari visited them for the first time, it's just a food, why would anyone be uncomfortable cooking something like kheer unless she attaches memory of betrayal to it...

I didn't speak about any endgame in my post, I stated that she has to let go of the past in any case, she can't be mad at kheer for rest of her life or to anything which reminds her of the betrayal, she has to let go and then she will live a happy life..

Trauma or nostalgia...she has to move on, right?

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

That's one way to look at things. .

From what I am seeing is that with or without Kunal, Mauli has to forgive him, if she is in love with Ishaan, she can't loathe Kunal for loving someone else, what I am trying to say is that if Mauli has found the love of her life in ishaan, she will understand that it is exactly what happened with KuNan. They cheated Mauli which was absolutely wrong, but now that Mauli has Ishaan, she will see herself happier in a relationship with him than she was ever with Kunal and in that condition she can't hate Kunal for leaving her because she is very happy in her new life...

She has to forgive him and move on, not let what happened years ago affect her future, keeping this pain of betrayal is too much work, it's easier to let go..

She herself told Kunal in camp track that she is falling in love with him, she told this to dida on phone, it was after Kunal's drama of Mehek and asking Mauli to leave Malhotra house that she started hating him... I am taking the whole story into consideration here.. That's what they have shown, right?

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

She was not doing any affair when kunal was loving other woman so she has all rights to loathe kunal for loving someone else .

If she found love of her life in ishaan than also she has all rights to loathe kunal because he destroyed her life and made her lifeless by his cruel behavior.

If mauli found love of her life in ishaan than also no one can expect from her to understand kunan's divine love because sleeping with bestie's husband can't be justified in any law. Mauli found second time because she was betrayed first time and kunan found second time love by betraying some one. kunan's relationship can't be compare with mauhaan's relationship.

Mauli is happy in her new relationship so she can't hate kunal ????!!!! i mean wowww 👏 we can expect forgive and forget but we can't expect everyone MUST do it to prove that they are truly moved on in life. Even after moving on in life so many exes still doesn't want to face each other . look at salman-aishwarya ,aishwarya is happy wife and pround mother but can't stand salman around her . Look at karishma -abhishek still can't stand each other even after moving on in life , Look at priyanka - akshay kumar who can't stand each other even after these many years. Exes should not hate each other after moving on in life can't be rule.

It's not mandatory in life that if you have found second time love than you can't hate your ex.

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

That's what I have written, Mauli has to forgive Kunal to move on with anyone, she can't live in her past, so women are women's worst well wishers and women are women's enemies kaha se aya?

Originally posted by: looseseal

Agreed she needs to move on and I just happened to believe that she has.

And regarding Kheer, why cant be she be upset about it all her life tho? its not like she wont touch it. She isnt stuck on it nor is she stopped by it in anyway. Didnt she make kheer for Pari just after one request? What else is she upset about? You brought up Ganesh Cha. As far as I remeber Mouli had no issues celebrating diwali even tho thats the day her biggest humiliatiation came. She was happily celebating it with her mothers and later with Ishaan added. She was enjoying her haldi and mehendi which would fall together with the last time's haldi/mehendi and not once think about it. Okay they had no footage,but how about a thought. I am sure Aditi as an actor could have made it work.

Lets not forget that Mouli stayed happily in the same appartment for years. Did she then freak out everytime she saw her bed or kitchen or the threshold thinking back to when she brought Nandini home? No. Does that mean she doesnt remember it when sth reminds it of the past? No.

It means, at least for me, she remembers what happened, she knows what happened to her was wrong and so were the people who did it. She learnt that she had to make her life happy herself. And she did. Moving on for me is letting go of hope or wish to go back to the past or rekindle with the past. She might not have move on in love, but Mouli moved on in her life without Kunal much earlier. Now with Ishaan, its the hope that she finds love too. And even if she doesnt, she can happily live her life as she has been living last 6 years...and maybe in future there might be someone else who will sweep her off her feet.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Look at mauli's mother who was asking her to accept kunal again and ignore his cheating.

Look at mauli's best friend nandini ,sympathy lete lete or mauli ke uss time ke pati ko kheer pasta khila khila kar mauli ki shaddi kunal ke sath mil kar tod di .

Look at sandhya , being woman she fails to understand mauli's pain and her circumstances .

Look at sweety , She is also wife and knows mauli's ugly past very well still she used to call mauli divorcee and all.

So yes there are women in minority who can take a stand for other woman like dida/radhika . Sadly these are rare women to find so yes women is women's biggest enemy .

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

I am sorry I did not understand your point.. Because I feel we are essentially saying the same thing that Mauli has to move on yet there's so much if and but...

The basic difference here is that you don't see Kunal as an option for Mauli, agreed? I do see him as a partner or as a friend to Mauli, for me Maunal will have their happy ending, Kunal will repent through this track and he will understand what Mauli went through, I am not discarding the possibilities of Maunal being friends, even Ishaan is friendly with Kunal, Mishti is warming up to him, Pari is attached to Mauli so Mauli doesn't have to marry him buf but they can be friends, no?

If you don't see that it's okay, let's end it here because I don't really understand what we are discussing anymore to be honest

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

I didn't say that it's a rule... I said it's my point of view and an opinion is not a fact, it's just an opinion and it's what I think about current situation... I don't see the point in hating other people when you can spend the time in loving people around you... Hatred is also a strong emotion like love, I don't believe in giving this kind of power or attention to someone who does not matter to me...

When we say move on, we mean moving on, if your past is affecting you it means you are stuck where you were before and as I said it's my opinion...

Like many people here put a rule that Mauli will have self respect ONLY IF she moves on with Ishaan, it's not a rule its an opinion, I don't agree to this opinion but it's not for me to validate it or reject it because it's not mine...

Originally posted by: looseseal

We are discussing whether or not Mouli has moved on. You think she hasnt simply because she doesnt like Kheer anymore. I am saying just because she hasnt forgotten tje past doesnt mean she hasnt moved on. In fact I believe she has moved on BECAUSE she remembers the past and know that she deserves better than what her past gave her.

Again, she only remembers them. She doesnt miss it. And thats the difference.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Opinion can be anything but to prove something or to judge something one need solid ground of set of rules. moving on process is different for person to person. Some people moved on without hating ex partner , some people moved on with bitter memories of previous relations and some moved on and live in happy space by avoiding face off with Ex . So person is moved on or not can't be judged on the basis of relationship with ex .