Trauma of infidelity & Why Mauli deserves a future with Ishan - Page 4

Very nicely written. Do make more posts. Mauli and Kunal should not get back together just because Shakti and Aditi have chemistry and they are the leads.
It's natural for Mauli to have feelings for Kunal but not realistic to marry him again.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

ok. Kunal is better than Rajdeep ..happy ...Rajdeep physically abused his wife and could have killed her...but Kunal only destroyed his wife's self esteem, degraded and humiliated her , resented his unborn child and eventually deserted his pregnant wife for his mistress. Yes Kunal is a much better man than Rajdeep,sorry for comparing .. and if you look at the wives,,nandu was able to move on with another man within a month while Mauli six years on is still hurting . So The scars of Rajdeeps physical,abuse was very short lived but the scars of kunals verbal abuse are everlasting...

Lol.

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Clearly you have no idea about physical abuse and rape. The mental scars they can cause can destabilise any human being.

Nandini moving on with Kunal was unrealistic.

Cheating is devastating, but can you honestly say that Kunal cheating on Mauli and insulting her is on the same level as raping someone repeatedly, trying to sell her off to his friends and brutally killing her unborn child?

Think before you post something. Rajdeep was pure evil.

lol.. yes this programme is unrealistic and the characters are fictional and my comments are about these fictional characters and their weird beahviours and what the show is giving us ,.its not about real life rape and trauma. And have some respect and manners when you reply to posts.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

Lol. lol..😆yes this programme is unrealistic and the characters are fictional and my comments are about these fictional characters and their weird beahviours and what the show is giving us ,.its not about real life rape and trauma. 😆

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

You said that 'physical scars can heal esaily but mental scars do not'.

Physical abuse is a crime. Cheating is horrible but it cannot be called abuse.

You also compared the actions of Rajdeep and Kunal, which means you're saying that rape and flesh trade are better than cheating.

That's why I told you to think before typing.

You also said, "Rajdeep only beat Nandini, Kunal destoryed Mauli" or something like that.

Beating someone will always be a crime compared to cheating, no matter how badly one is affected by the latter. Also Rajdeep raped and tried to sell his wife.

Cheating can destroy someone's self-confidence and hurt them badly, but it will NEVER be comparable to intentional abuse such as physical torture and rape.

Thid is only about Kunal and Rajdeep and the physical scars that nandu suffered vs Maulis scars. This is not about the general population.we all know that women in general take years if ever to recover from abuse and it affects every aspect of their lives... my comments here is about an itv show thst is often very illogical and unrealistic.anyway let's leave it here.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

Thid is only about Kunal and Rajdeep and the physical scars that nandu suffered vs Maulis scars. This is not about the general population.we all know that women in general take years if ever to recover from abuse and it affects every aspect of their lives... my comments here is about an itv show thst is often very illogical and unrealistic.anyway let's leave it here.

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Your comment about physical and mental scars was general, right?

When we talk about fictional characters, we judge them like we judge real people. So when you say that Rajdeep was better than Kunal, you're saying that Rape and torture are still better than cheating.

In this show, Rajdeep was shown to rape his wife and sell her off, and kill her unborn baby. But you're ignoring all that and focusing only on the beating part.

I was intentionally aggressive when replying to you, since I don't take kindly to people making light of serious issues like abuse and rape.

Anyway, let's leave it if you so wish. But it's a request, bash Kunal as much as you like, but don't say Rajdeep was better than him or something like that.

no it was not a general comment, it was only about Rajdeep and Kunal. Check the post ..I said Rajdeep physical scars vs kunals emotional scars ..that these two fictional characters. And lastly it's an open forum ..people here can compare whichever character they want .

Originally posted by: Indira1211

no it was not a general comment, it was only about Rajdeep and Kunal. Check the post ..I said Rajdeep physical scars vs kunals emotional scars ..that these two fictional characters. And lastly it's an open forum ..people here can compare whichever character they want .

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

I know what you said in that post. You clearly said that physical scars are less important than emotional scars. It was a general comment. I think you should check what you said. Fictional characters' actions are not different from real life actions. Rajdeep's rape and torture does not become small just because its a fictional character.

The actions of rape and cheating are the same in real as well as fictional life. If a fictional character commits rape, then he should be judged in the same way as a real-life rapist would. Crimes committed by fictional characters exist in real life, so you cannot say that a rape committed in fiction is different from a real life rape.

No, you cannot compare rape to cheating, I'm sorry. That's factually incorrect and insulting to victims of rape and physical abuse.

. No my comments were restricted to Kunal and Rajdeep ..u go look again. Someone else did make a general comment about physical scars vs emotional scars..but that was not my post it was someone else's .look at the names of the people posts . Anyway I'm done talking to you.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

. No my comments were restricted to Kunal and Rajdeep ..u go look again. Someone else did make a general comment about physical scars vs emotional scars..but that was not my post it was someone else's .look at the names of the people posts . Anyway I'm done talking to you.