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Posted: 6 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: -JaZ-

word...on top of that people think whatever he had with nandini was not a big thing n mauli should take him back if he just says that was only 'attraction' n not 'divine love' :P


Right? Like how does that make him any better? Thats even worse in a way since if it was only an attractiion, it could happen again. At least with "true love" bullshit they could say jo kiya pyaar ke liye kiya. If it was all attraction what will Kunal say: For lust I mishandled and left you for 6/7 whole years. But now I am back. And since you loved, you should love me again not because I am particulary sorry about everything, but because remember all those sweet lines I told you before I met my divine lust???

Seriously some people are so desperate to find anything to cling on to MouNal that even their own arguments make no sense. Like its fine to like someone just for their chemistry. There is no need to make twist the story. In the story we saw on screen Kunal was D-I-S-G-U-S-T-I-N-G. Don't pretend it wasn't.
Edited by looseseal - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird

Well this show is like some ancient time story.

Husband sleeps around with another woman.
Goes blind and runs and stays with mistress.
Wife takes care of in laws and children ,while husband is with another woman.
Then due to some reason (death here ) husband is back with his family.
First wife takes care of her child plus the child of her husband and his other lady.
Loves her straying husband.
Women is pativtra.
Loves only one man all her life.
Her happiness lies only at the feet of her husband

This is what was happening during mythological era.
This is what happens in since ages.




I needed this, this AM🤣 Chirpy, I am Mili ! How accurate😃 !
Yes, Mauli is the person who should be saying " jaa Kunal, jaa, jeele apne zindagi. Jab bore ho gaye or biwi/mistress mar jayein or mann bhar jaaye, tho, waapis aa jaana, mein tho yahin hun, kahin nahin jaane waali, teri ghar ko and logon ko, bacchi ko and any other baggage tum laoge, usse sambhalne ke liye hamesha teyaar hun, kyun ki tumhare ilava mere life ka koi bhi value nahin. Don't know what would have happened if you never came back. My life would have remained valueless, loveless, loathesome and wasteful😡. Sorry guys, I am so angry at the hypocrisy they are asking us to swallow😡 I am hopeful, they will give Mauli a head above the cloud😳
Edited by mili9 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: looseseal


Right? Like how does that make him any better? Thats even worse in a way since if it was only an attractiion, it could happen again. At least with "true love" bullshit they could say jo kiya pyaar ke liye kiya. If it was all attraction what will Kunal say: For lust I mishandled and left you for 6/7 whole years. But now I am back. And since you loved, you should love me again not because I am particulary sorry about everything, but because remember all those sweet lines I told you before I met my divine lust???

Seriously some people are so desperate to find anything to cling on to MouNal that even their own arguments make no sense. Like its fine to like someone just for their chemistry. There is no need to make twist the story. The story we saw on screen was Kunal was D-I-S-G-U-S-T-I-N-G. Don't pretend it wasn't.

true...finally it all came down to shipping jodis, kunan affair betrayal backstabbing everything became trivial...


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Posted: 6 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: mili9


I needed this, this AM🤣 Chirpy, I am Mili ! How accurate😃 !
Yes, Mauli is the person who should be saying " jaa Kunal, jaa, jeele apne zindagi. Jab bore ho gaye or biwi/mistress mar jayein or mann bhar jaaye, tho, waapis aa jaana, mein tho yahin hun, kahin nahin jaane waali, teri ghar ko and logon ko, bacchi ko and any other baggage tum laoge, usse sambhalne ke liye hamesha teyaar hun, kyun ki tumhare ilava mere life ka koi bhi value nahin. Don't know what would have happened if you never came back. My life would have remained valueless, loveless, loathesome and wasteful😡. Sorry guys, I am so angry at the hypocrisy they are asking us to swallow😡 I am hopeful, they will give Mauli a head above the cloud😳


exactly 😆

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Posted: 6 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: looseseal



Right? Like how does that make him any better? Thats even worse in a way since if it was only an attractiion, it could happen again. At least with "true love" bullshit they could say jo kiya pyaar ke liye kiya. If it was all attraction what will Kunal say: For lust I mishandled and left you for 6/7 whole years. But now I am back. And since you loved, you should love me again not because I am particulary sorry about everything, but because remember all those sweet lines I told you before I met my divine lust???

Seriously some people are so desperate to find anything to cling on to MouNal that even their own arguments make no sense. Like its fine to like someone just for their chemistry. There is no need to make twist the story. The story we saw on screen was Kunal was D-I-S-G-U-S-T-I-N-G. Don't pretend it wasn't.


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Posted: 6 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: mili9


I needed this, this AM🤣 Chirpy, I am Mili ! How accurate😃 !
Yes, Mauli is the person who should be saying " jaa Kunal, jaa, jeele apne zindagi. Jab bore ho gaye or biwi/mistress mar jayein or mann bhar jaaye, tho, waapis aa jaana, mein tho yahin hun, kahin nahin jaane waali, teri ghar ko and logon ko, bacchi ko and any other baggage tum laoge, usse sambhalne ke liye hamesha teyaar hun, kyun ki tumhare ilava mere life ka koi bhi value nahin. Don't know what would have happened if you never came back. My life would have remained valueless, loveless, loathesome and wasteful😡. Sorry guys, I am so angry at the hypocrisy they are asking us to swallow😡 I am hopeful, they will give Mauli a head above the cloud😳


What if he falls another kheer banane wali this time around? remember that "lovely" scene where Kunal said if he had met Nandini first, then he would dump her for Mouli? He always intended on dumping the wife for an other woman. And now we are back to square one, and he has another chance to get bored with his marriage and find another divine love.Now I wish Mehek had stuck around.

Edited by looseseal - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: looseseal


Right? Like how does that make him any better? That's even worse in a way since if it was only an attractiion, it could happen again. At least with "true love" bullshit they could say jo kiya pyaar ke liye kiya. If it was all attraction what will Kunal say: For lust I mishandled and left you for 6/7 whole years. But now I am back. And since you loved, you should love me again not because I am particulary sorry about everything, but because remember all those sweet lines I told you before I met my divine lust???

Seriously some people are so desperate to find anything to cling on to MouNal that even their own arguments make no sense. Like its fine to like someone just for their chemistry. There is no need to make twist the story. The story we saw on screen was Kunal was D-I-S-G-U-S-T-I-N-G. Don't pretend it wasn't.



@BOLD You just read my mind.

I seriously don't get what would be so great if it turned out to be Kunal's attraction or Nandini was shown to be an insecured wife??? Because there would always be a possibility of him cheating on Mauli again.

Now we know the channel has meddled with the story too much but personally I feel the story was unrealistic & undeveloped right from the beginning.

No couple can be as perfect as MauNal were shown to be. I mean seriously, two doctors who have hectic schedule how come they got so much time to arrange for brunch & staying lovey-dovey all the time? It was unrealistic.

Plus, as have been posted by others here, cheating do happen & some people get second chance because they really earned it & actually lead a happy life after the initial mishap - even that can't be applied here because they have never shown anything wrong with Mauli. No one would leave such a perfect life. It could be only possible if we got to see the reason behind their getting distant which is very normal in real life.
But here we had a hormonal Kunal running behind a divine dancer leaving his perfect wife.

At least, if they show Kunal to stay true to Nandini, that would mean he has some integrity left. And after getting a closure, Mauli can do whatever makes her happy.

A forced MauNal reunion isn't gonna make anyone happy.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird

Well this show is like some ancient time story.

Husband sleeps around with another woman.
Goes blind and runs and stays with mistress.
Wife takes care of in laws and children ,while husband is with another woman.
Then due to some reason (death here ) husband is back with his family.
First wife takes care of her child plus the child of her husband and his other lady.
Loves her straying husband.
Women is pativtra.
Loves only one man all her life.
Her happiness lies only at the feet of her husband

This is what was happening during mythological era.
This is what happens in since ages.



So why did they make Mauli a modern educated financially independent professional doctor who is so progressive ..yet she accepts such treatment from a man .modern Women in current times don't accept such treatment from men...that's why the divorce rate is so high ...
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Posted: 6 years ago
#59

Originally posted by: nushy1995



@BOLD You just read my mind.

I seriously don't get what would be so great if it turned out to be Kunal's attraction or Nandini was shown to be an insecured wife??? Because there would always be a possibility of him cheating on Mauli again.

Now we know the channel has meddled with the story too much but personally I feel the story was unrealistic & undeveloped right from the beginning.

No couple can be as perfect as MauNal were shown to be. I mean seriously, two doctors who have hectic schedule how come they got so much time to arrange for brunch & staying lovey-dovey all the time? It was unrealistic.

Plus, as have been posted by others here, cheating do happen & some people get second chance because they really earned it & actually lead a happy life after the initial mishap - even that can't be applied here because they have never shown anything wrong with Mauli. No one would leave such a perfect life. It could be only possible if we got to see the reason behind their getting distant which is very normal in real life.
But here we had a hormonal Kunal running behind a divine dancer leaving his perfect wife.

At least, if they show Kunal to stay true to Nandini, that would mean he has some integrity left. And after getting a closure, Mauli can do whatever makes her happy.

A forced MauNal reunion isn't gonna make anyone happy.


@bold: True, but they do seems to have a significant fan base.
But in general yeah, majority is against MauNal. Whether they be MauHaan fans or not but they certainly are anti-MauNal. on the other hand, even with like 10% (or even less) support from the audience Kunal and Nandini still ended up together. (this again makes me question the "initial intension" of the makers)

@red: Same. Like to some extent I do believe that MauNal were happy and were that "perfect" couple. Because technically they are both successful people, who are married to someone they love and live with two increadibly supporting and loving ladies. They seems to have no reason to worry: financially, familial y, professionally etc. The key word being technically...because despite all that there could have been a problem. Maybe Kunal did get bored, nothing big about that. But we needed to see it. And he and Nandini should have bonded better and maybe he could have confided in her that he wasn't happy in his marriage. Then maybe KuNan could have made sense. And after marrying Nandini and it not working out (maybe a little because he misses Mouli) he realizes that he made a mistake by not working on his relationship with Mouli, and marrying Nandini.

See, if sth like this had happened then redemption/second chance could have happened. But with what we got to witness, no chance in hell any sane person would trust or even like Kunal again.


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Posted: 6 years ago
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A maunal reunion is a sham for all women who go through all this in real life.
Edited by chirpyhapibird - 6 years ago

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