tuesday episode - Page 8

Originally posted by: greeshma014

the problem is everyone is talking about the pool incident which was unintentional. There was another incident which happened one day ago. If it was only pool incident it was not that much a big issue. Previous day she intentionally locked pari in bathroom and didn't feel any regret or said sorry. That made the situation worse. Radhika believed her abt pool incident.but the moment she said unintentionally hi sahi , apne galti Kiya hai beta, sorry toh bolna padega. That's the point when she got mad.

Originally posted by: Cinnamonn

Let me ask a dumb question. Why is this impulsive Mauli separating Ishaan from Mishti? These two have a stronger bond than they have with her. Who gave her the right to snatch Ishaan away from Mishti. You cannot break a father daughter bond overnight. You don't love Ishaan, you did the right thing and called off the engagement but so suddenly she ended her Friendship with him? All that he has done for her, suddenly she doesn't remember and now Mishti can't meet Ishaan..is that the respect Mauli has for Ishaan. See, this is what I don't understand with this woman and it turns me off.

it was a very impulsive and illogical decision by mouli. She just trying to distance ishaan from Mishti. Even though it seems like she separating ishaan -mishti because of her own problems. There is a larger picture in it. Mouli broke up with ishaan. Ishaan's mom also know this. Tomorrow she can accuse that mouli is using Mishti to get back ishaan or use Mishti as a tool to snatch ishaan from her. I think she doesn't want any big voltage drama in her life. She just want peaceful life with her daughter. Butthe way she trying to achieve that by ordering Mishti he is not his papa ,u can't meet him is completely wrong. It made Misti completely turn against her.

@pw...she doesn't need scolding...someone needs to be stern to her...strict to her...for a short while...mauli was not scolding her...her tone sounds like scolding but she was not...she was strict to her...lets keep the ishaan issue aside...she is being stern towards her behaviour...mishti was rightfully misbehaving...its there in her nature...its just that its not being triggered but than from old epis i have been noticing her behaviour...pls don't give trauma a name...her trauma is another issue altogether

Originally posted by: Mages

why is everyone trying to defend mishti...in all stance she is wrong...she is misbehaving and its seen through...yes the same old dialogues she is 6 yrs old...she is in mental trauma due to kunal-pari...but look at her wrong doing too

she is demanding and wants everyone to give into her demand

she has no guilt...regret...she doesn't say sorry...if anyone tries to correct her...she rebels and tries to take help from ishaan whom she thinks will definitely side her..which he does in his own way that gives her assurance that whenever she does something wrong which she feels right...she will tell her popsy and he will help her n side her

she is rude to her folks n mother

she point finger to her mother while talking(pari pool issue)

her stubborness

and her epic dialogue whem mauli question her

she calls her mother...a bad mom...i hate you...you can't be my mom...gandi mom...

you guys feel all this is right n mauli has no rights to question her misconduct and trying to defend her...

what has she become...what is this...it will affect her adulthood...

the girl needs right guidance...noone is giving it to her...everyone is either covering her mistake or siding her requesting mauli not to yell at her...is this how the way to brought up a kid...

I keep my stand firm n clear...kunal-pari-ishaan issue is another issue but overpampering has spoil the kid...its taking baby steps actually

everyone is doing is advising...is she even listening...is she even realising that she is wrong and to tell someone sorry is not an ego or jealousy issue...

to be honest...she is a carbon copy of her father...kunal malhotra...stubborn...no guilt...regret...always thinks what he did was right...no saying sorry...never think abt consequences of action...never think how one get hurt with your action...

these are inherited qualities from her father...her nature is like her father and its needs to be changed otherwise in her adulthood she will do exactly what her father did and will have no regret n guilt for it...neither sorry for it

its not her mental trauma at the moment...its her inherited qualities of her father...mauli has to give the guidance right now itself before her adulthood is also destroyed...

I have put my views firm n clear...the girl needs right guidance...

its now how you shape mishti will give a good life in adulthood

Originally posted by: greeshma014

There is one more thing I want to say , aisa nahi hai ki , till she knew about kunal's truth she was a very well mannered child. I still remember her scene where she blasted mouli and said I hate you for the first time. Then Kunal and pari truth was no where in the picture. She was all good til all her demands were fulfilled. The minute she got to know mouli was going hospital , and she spoke ve ry rudely to mouli.I still remember the way mouli stood there with hurt when she uttered those words. She never tell her anything when Mishti hurt her. She only scold her when someone else is hurt by her daughter.

Originally posted by: Cinnamonn

Let me ask a dumb question. Why is this impulsive Mauli separating Ishaan from Mishti? These two have a stronger bond than they have with her. Who gave her the right to snatch Ishaan away from Mishti. You cannot break a father daughter bond overnight. You don't love Ishaan, you did the right thing and called off the engagement but so suddenly she ended her Friendship with him? All that he has done for her, suddenly she doesn't remember and now Mishti can't meet Ishaan..is that the respect Mauli has for Ishaan. See, this is what I don't understand with this woman and it turns me off.

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

aisa hai to why we forget that she wasnt shown like that in initial episodes.. she was kind , helping others, she touched the feet of ishaan's mom and told her good things..

yes she did say that mauli was a bad mom before also as mauli was busy..

doesnt all this suggest that mishti isnt a brat but there is some "kami" which she feels in her life??why to think like she is good only when people are good to her??

its not mauli vs mishti.!!

mishti is wrong but mauli is also unable to understand mishti..

Mishti is shown as a layered character. Her character traits revealed one by one through the episodes. She is kind it shown, she behaves nicely to people who is nice to her is also shown. Except pari, for that she has her own reasons. But they also shown her another character trait that she goes down right rude and show her high level anger and utter some hurtful things when things don't go according to her way. That's why I want to say .it 's not anything about Mishti vs mouli. At the end of the day they are mother - daughter duo who is going to find their way to each other no matter what.

Originally posted by: Mages

@pw...she doesn't need scolding...someone needs to be stern to her...strict to her...for a short while...mauli was not scolding her...her tone sounds like scolding but she was not...she was strict to her...lets keep the ishaan issue aside...she is being stern towards her behaviour...mishti was rightfully misbehaving...its there in her nature...its just that its not being triggered but than from old epis i have been noticing her behaviour...pls don't give trauma a name...her trauma is another issue altogether

okay i then if mauli is stern and strict then also what she achieved?? nothing!!

where is guidance in all this?

i am not at all using trauma word here. i havent used it to emotionally back up my reply to u..

she doesn't accepts she is wrong...neither she is guilty nor she regrets...she feels she is right...she is rude...demanding...this are her nature not trauma...what she wants...she wants...she will.never listen to a NO...if this doesn't go her way...she will make sure it goes her way

i also say the same.. she will not accept it until somebody helps her.. but todays post was totally about pool incidence.. anyways, its not a mauli vs mishti thing. both have flaws. and its mauli who is a mother and will have to think about her daughter. we can not expect mishti to he that thoughtful.. she is behaving her age.. i dont say that mauli should give in to mishti's demands but the "guidance" u are talking about is certainly not being stern or strict.. bcz mauli is already doing that..

@nushy...you have just nail it right there...thats my exact thoughts of mishti n ishaan...i rest my case

Originally posted by: greeshma014

Mishti is shown as a layered character. Her character traits revealed one by one through the episodes. She is kind it shown, she behaves nicely to people who is nice to her is also shown. Except pari, for that she has her own reasons. But they also shown her another character trait that she goes down right rude and show her high level anger and utter some hurtful things when things don't go according to her way. That's why I want to say .it 's not anything about Mishti vs mouli. At the end of the day they are mother - daughter duo who is going to find the way to each other no matter what.