tuesday episode - Page 9

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

this is what i am saying that she isnt a brat in general.. but she is rude sometimes.. and i guess probably they want to show that mishti lacked certain things bcz she hasnt gotten proper attention from mauli and also bcz she has no father to look after her every day and night.. as in mauli never gave full rights of father to ishaan and kunal wasnt there..

Originally posted by: nushy1995

You have written everything I wanted to write. Couldn't agree more.

I am not overlooking Mishti's trauma. But what she is becoming in this process is a serious issue.

Today I honestly didn't like Ishaan's handling of Mishti.

Being the youngest one, I have always been pampered by my parents, my elder brother & other cousins. But whenever I did anything wrong, both my parents corrected that together. I must add my mother is very open minded & my best friend while my father comes from a orthodox family. But I have always noticed a harmony in their way of dealing with me & my brother. My mother says & even I believe when one parent is scolding you & another comes to back you up, those kids never really learn their lessons.

I felt the same seeing today's episode. Mummy dategi to main unko datunga - this approach of Ishaan has actually made Mishti overconfident that she will get anything she wants.

Even before all these, once when Mauli had told her about going to clinic on Diwali, Mishti called her a bad mother.

More than a troubled child, she seems like a stubborn child who has been overly pampered & doesn't own up to her mistakes.

Another thing which struck me was how calm Ishaan was. He is a calm person & I like him for that but if you find your 6 years old coming to your office alone, you are sure to have a mild heart attack.

Even Mahek shows more concern & outbursts whenever she finds Pari in trouble. Ok, I get that mothers/mother figures in general panic more when something happens to kids but Ishaan's reaction was way too casual.

And then again when he listened to Mauli & left the place. It's one thing to be a hubby/BF but another to be a parent. He was the only one who had understood what trauma Mishti had gone through. God forbid, if I was ever in that position with my fiance, I would request him to keep our personal matter aside & have a conversation with me regarding our kid, He just left Mishti there.

When Kunal tried to avoid scolding Mishti, Mahek still blasted at her because she was concerned for Pari & wanted to let MauNal know the gravity of the issue. lshaan simply leaving the place - it just didn't seem very fatherly to me.

I am not against Ishaan. But today I just didn't find him right.

Originally posted by: Mages

even pari has no mother...how she is a well-mannered kid being with a single parent n loneliness...

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

okay then u are saying a father's absence has no role in his misbehaviour??

pls make it sure if u say yes..

why cant two children behave differently?

Originally posted by: Mages

the main thing mauli needs to do is being a friend to mishti...not being a friend but best friend to mishti and gain her trust and confidence than only mauli can shape her n give her the guidance

my mom is my best friend...i share my entire life with her...she advises the right n wrong to me...

mauli is just a mother...she is not mishti's best friend...she needs to be her best friend to bring her fro. the dark tunnel she is in...

why mishti is close and attached to ishaan its becos more than a father...he is a friend to her and she shares everything to him...i have never seen her doing that to mauli...

even kunu is a friend to pari first than a father...thats why she call him buddy...

mauli needs to be mishti buddy

Originally posted by: Mages

even pari has no mother...how she is a well-mannered kid being with a single parent n loneliness...

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

Pari is yet to know about her father's past life and Mishti being her half sister

Pari is not exactly well behaved, she has misbehaved with Kunal many times but she has none to turn to if Kunal isn't there so she forgives him easily... That's why I found Ishaan wrong today, because even if Mishti is wrong and Mauli is scolding her, she turns to Ishaan, now it depends on Ishaan whether he encourages her wrongdoings or not -

Mishti did wrong, by wrong I don't mean pushing Pari or locking her, I am talking about leaving school and going to the restaurant, it's extremely dangerous thing to do when there are kidnappers and rapists, who don't spare even 9 month old girl...

When Mishti was afraid that Mauli will scold her, Ishaan told her that he will scold Mauli in return...

And you see an unapologetic Mishti, who knows even if none supports her wrong deeds her Popsie will support her, here she is going near Ishaan definitely but not for the right reasons...

Imagine a kid is in a room with 2 doors -. Door 1 = Right

Door 2 = Wrong

What should a parent do in this condition?

1 - Lock the door - This is being strict, Mishti would want to go there but can't not because it's wrong but because they have locked it

2 Tell her it's wrong - This is discipline, tell Mishti that wrong is wrong and it will hurt her in future, she has to make the right decision herself

Ishaan is letting Mishti go to the wrong door saying if Mauli does anything he will take care of her, don't leave the wrong door as a choice for Mishti, if both parents tell her that it's wrong, she will understand it, wrongdoings are tempting, she gets her way, yes, Ishaan will be the best father for her because he is helping her in her wrongdoings, but is he really a good father?

Note : I am not saying he is a bad father, just that Ishaan should have told Mishti that wrong is wrong and galti ki hai to thodi daat bhi sun lena