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sancheeta

@sancheeta

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Posted: 6 years ago

#31

Prettywomaniya - May I tell you that you have penned down your thoughts in such a beautiful and thought provoking manner. Couldn't have said it any better! Agree to each and every reasoning of your's. Speaking strictly for myself, Trust' for me is one of the strongest pillar of any marriage. Like the saying goes - Breaking someone's trust is like crumpling a perfect piece of paper. You can smooth it over but it's never going to be the same again! So hypothetically, if I were in Mauli's place, I wouldn't have ever been able to take that man back in my life again, no matter even if he repents his entire life! Maybe I am wired that way, maybe I might never be able to love someone else ever again, but the fact that I was so easily replaceable in my husband's life' - that one thought would have never let me live in peace with that arse of a man!

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prettywomaniya

@prettywomaniya

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: sancheeta
Prettywomaniya - May I tell you that you have penned down your thoughts in such a beautiful and thought provoking manner. Couldn't have said it any better! Agree to each and every reasoning of your's. Speaking strictly for myself, Trust' for me is one of the strongest pillar of any marriage. Like the saying goes - Breaking someone's trust is like crumpling a perfect piece of paper. You can smooth it over but it's never going to be the same again! So hypothetically, if I were in Mauli's place, I wouldn't have ever been able to take that man back in my life again, no matter even if he repents his entire life! Maybe I am wired that way, maybe I might never be able to love someone else ever again, but the fact that I was so easily replaceable in my husband's life' - that one thought would have never let me live in peace with that arse of a man!

i am glad u find it thought provoking.. :)

@bold -- this thought gives me jitters.. its scary..!! i dont know if people have forgotten or what , that kunal had no reasons for leaving her.. he was plain selfish. he was thinking about his own self and not about mauli. the same mauli whose tears used to affect him a lot.. when the same mauli was crying in front of him to get back to her , he didnt even cried at his and her helplessness..all he did was giving her explanation that he doesnt love her anymore.. he never looked back to see if she is dead or alive..

if u have seen "zindagi gulzaar hai" , u must have seen sara (zaroon's sister) saying this dialogue in @,bold.. she says "wo kaise muje replace kr skta hai" i can forget any scene of zgh but not that..

kunal has replaced her but he has replaced her so easily.. he didnt fight for them.. he is a loser when it comes to love.. mauli doesnt deserve a loser.. also i hope they dont screw him up for the sake of romance.. 😕 they always make joke of kunal..

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Charu

@Krinya

Trailblazer

+ 8

Posted: 6 years ago

#33

human emotions are very strange...When the mind is conditioned to one relationship as good and perfect , we keep giving chances , we continue to hope... .Nandini was giving chance pe chance t o her abusive husband thinking that her life will change for good...

Mauli finds her attracted towards kunal. He still affects her . He is the same kunal who loved her once and at the back of her mind she may be getting exited at the idea of them getting back together didn't she forgive him that time as if nothing happened and ready to move on with him? She can do it now when nandini is dead..But where does this leave kunal? You're very right dear , he will again be butchered if they show maunal as the end game.

A very nice and thought provoking post.

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Indira

@Indira1211

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 6 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

i am glad u find it thought provoking.. :)

@bold -- this thought gives me jitters.. its scary..!! i dont know if people have forgotten or what , that kunal had no reasons for leaving her.. he was plain selfish. he was thinking about his own self and not about mauli. the same mauli whose tears used to affect him a lot.. when the same mauli was crying in front of him to get back to her , he didnt even cried at his and her helplessness..all he did was giving her explanation that he doesnt love her anymore.. he never looked back to see if she is dead or alive..

if u have seen "zindagi gulzaar hai" , u must have seen sara (zaroon's sister) saying this dialogue in @,bold.. she says "wo kaise muje replace kr skta hai" i can forget any scene of zgh but not that..

kunal has replaced her but he has replaced her so easily.. he didnt fight for them.. he is a loser when it comes to love.. mauli doesnt deserve a loser.. also i hope they dont screw him up for the sake of romance.. 😕 they always make joke of kunal..

exactly ...Mauli was a great wife ...she and Kunal had a great emotional and physical relationship..there really was no major problems in their relationship..so what reason did Kunal have for leaving her...the only reason he gave was thst he fell in love with nandini...so that means that he never loved msuli..because you can't be madly in love with your wife and happy with her one minute and then the next minute fall for her friend ...it's not logical ...the only only logical explanation is that he may have thought he loved Mauli but he really didn't and nandu was his big love ..or another explanation could be lust ...he lusted for nandu and had to have her...but then again that makes him a creep ..husbands should not go lusting after their wives friends ...sadly no matter what happens ...Kunal is going to be shown in a bad light. Therefore the best bet would be to say yes nandu was his great love ...and show him still in love with her ,.and msuli to resolve her feelings for Kunal, get closure and accept thst Kunal never loved her and move on...

Edited by Indira1211 - 6 years ago

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gurti227

@gurti227

Explorer

Posted: 6 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

i am glad u find it thought provoking.. :)

@bold -- this thought gives me jitters.. its scary..!! i dont know if people have forgotten or what , that kunal had no reasons for leaving her.. he was plain selfish. he was thinking about his own self and not about mauli. the same mauli whose tears used to affect him a lot.. when the same mauli was crying in front of him to get back to her , he didnt even cried at his and her helplessness..all he did was giving her explanation that he doesnt love her anymore.. he never looked back to see if she is dead or alive..

if u have seen "zindagi gulzaar hai" , u must have seen sara (zaroon's sister) saying this dialogue in @,bold.. she says "wo kaise muje replace kr skta hai" i can forget any scene of zgh but not that..

kunal has replaced her but he has replaced her so easily.. he didnt fight for them.. he is a loser when it comes to love.. mauli doesnt deserve a loser.. also i hope they dont screw him up for the sake of romance.. 😕 they always make joke of kunal..

Still waiting for the day when Kunal will finally tell mauli why he left her ..Will that day come ??? lol😆

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poiu123

@poiu123

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 6 years ago

#36

Divine child has again wished for Mauli becoming her mumma and the next scene was Mauli meeting Kunal at the camp, by TV show std it means Maunal as end game

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chirpyhapibird

@chirpyhapibird

Inactive

+ 3

Posted: 6 years ago

#37

i can't tolerate mauli at all.

Before i couldn't tolerate that kheer madam.

Even if mauli ends will ishaan,i will hate mauli forever.

I have no respect for mauli,even with all the excuses.

Any woman who loves that lover of rain dances

is not worthy of respect for me.

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prettywomaniya

@prettywomaniya

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: _charu_
human emotions are very strange...When the mind is conditioned to one relationship as good and perfect , we keep giving chances , we continue to hope... .Nandini was giving chance pe chance t o her abusive husband thinking that her life will change for good...

Mauli finds her attracted towards kunal. He still affects her . He is the same kunal who loved her once and at the back of her mind she may be getting exited at the idea of them getting back together didn't she forgive him that time as if nothing happened and ready to move on with him? She can do it now when nandini is dead..But where does this leave kunal? You're very right dear , he will again be butchered if they show maunal as the end game.

A very nice and thought provoking post.

nandini and mauli are poles apart.. nandini used to treat rajdeep as her "dharm" and "bhagwaan".. that too when he was treating her like trash.. although it is reality that women are still beaten up by their husbands even in the so called modern houses but nandini was beyond my understanding. she didnt even complaint that he doesnt love her or she never tried to communicate with him. i am not saying its her fault that he treated her like that. but she wasnt real.. women are docile but upto this limit?? no!

on the other hand mauli literally mocked kunal for his ema.. do u remember her dialogues? i still get goosebumps.. mauli was weak in love. that was a phase..
mauli is a fighter while nandini was a weak person.. this is the main difference between them..

and i have already mentioned that there is a difference between granting forgiveness that time and this time..
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quoting it again " there is a difference between forgiveness at that time when he came for the baby and this time.. she forgave him for his ema.. wanted him back. begged him to come back.. why?? she loved him deeply and had faith in her love that she will make him love her again.
once again, she welcomed him with open arms when he came back . why?? she had trust on him and on their relationship that they will TOGETHER make things right..
EMA WAS FORGIVEN..
then he accused her and left her when she was pregnant. (not blaming him entirely, but no blame to mauli , have already made a post in his favour)
she lived with this pain for 6 years that he left her when she needed her the most. he didnt think once that what if mauli wasnt lying.. that shows that he was so unwilling to stay back.. mauli raised a daughter without him..probably in these 6 years she had always dreamt of a happy family with him.. (her lantren lightening scene)
now when he told her that he wants to love mishti, wants to hug her she is overwhelmed with emotions.. she cried!! why?? she always knew (subconsciously though) that he can never hate his child and would have stayed back willingly or unwillingly for the kid sake. but that time it was not only about the child.. so she cried when she heard those words from his mouth. she was overwhelmed and sad at the same time. she was happy hearing all that but knew that the timing was wrong. now nothing can be changed.. she might be thinking "kaash yeh sab pehle feel kia hota usne, ab kya fayda"

I THINK/ASSUME that day she forgave him to some extent for leaving them alone.. FORGIVENESS GRANTED AGAIN..
but can she really forgive him for his not looking back ever??? he never cared to know if she is fine.. she could have gone into depression.. i guess he thinks she is very strong and can deal with her emotions too. i guess he never remembered her devastated look when she was begging him to come back. and never noticed her tears of happiness when he came back..

forgiveness can be granted again but accepting him again is... i dont know what to say.
why?? why she should accept him back this time?? i have stated all reasons for the times she wanted him back.. pls tell me why she would want him back this time??
dont tell me LOVE is the reason.. and her KID is the reason.. mishti has a father whom mauli trusts very much.. doubting ishaan will be doubting mauli.. so i dont want go there..
definition of love can be different for everyone. but i feel we love (romantic love here) a person for many things that he possess.. a person is a package of his looks, habits, traits, nature, behaviour and many other things.. the intensity of loving someone changes as that "someone" changes..
kunal can never be that kunal again. he is tainted..this relationship is tainted.. he can not undo what he has done.. so definitely that intensity has mellowed..
i will be disappointed if mauli still loves him to the extent of wanting him back.. she probably can never hate him but loving him romantically is a disappointment.. """""""
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kunal is going to butcher again but mauli will also get butchered if she isnt handled well.
as of now i dont have issues with the story. loving it ! but if they really want maunal to reconcile showing us that mauli is again a weak person in love then i am disappointed..

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prettywomaniya

@prettywomaniya

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: Indira1211
exactly ...Mauli was a great wife ...she and Kunal had a great emotional and physical relationship..there really was no major problems in their relationship..so what reason did Kunal have for leaving her...the only reason he gave was thst he fell in love with nandini...so that means that he never loved msuli..because you can't be madly in love with your wife and happy with her one minute and then the next minute fall for her friend ...it's not logical ...the only only logical explanation is that he may have thought he loved Mauli but he really didn't and nandu was his big love ..or another explanation could be lust ...he lusted for nandu and had to have her...but then again that makes him a creep ..husbands should not go lusting after their wives friends ...sadly no matter what happens ...Kunal is going to be shown in a bad light. Therefore the best bet would be to say yes nandu was his great love ...and show him still in love with her ,.and msuli to resolve her feelings for Kunal, get closure and accept thst Kunal never loved her and move on...

after living with her for so manh years and wanting to have babies with her and supporting her in every decision and most impotantly living a happy married life with her was enough to prove that he has loved her once..

i dont know if he will be forgiven by people if he says what u are suggesting @indira..

i dont know !!

kunal is na ghar ka na ghat ka ... i pity this character!

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prettywomaniya

@prettywomaniya

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: poiu123
Divine child has again wished for Mauli becoming her mumma and the next scene was Mauli meeting Kunal at the camp, by TV show std it means Maunal as end game

see i dont want to fell for these things..

they have shown many divine things but some worked some didnt..

maunal as end game is a verrry tough thing to execute..

not only execution but characters will also doom if they will take this thing as a joke..

lets wait to see how it goes..