is it really tough to understand pari?? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Mumoos

Yes its a little bit difficult to understand pari.. but its not entirely her fault.. her moms cd was played in front of her.. and her father is refusing to explain to her.. parenting does not work that way.. although he can explain so many thing.. him keeping quiet looks like he wants mauli to do all the work .. even though he clearly does not have any feelings for her..

and mauli is adding to our irritation by ignoring mishti... can't she see her daughter is hurt..and she needs reassurance.

Originally posted by: Squadmishali

Ditto ,I completely agree to your post .Finally someone spoke.

Enough of name-calling to Pari and Mauli, just because she is product of EMA..Pari loves Mauli truly and Mauli getting attached to Pari is natural as somewhere thankfully she reminds her of her best friend and not the woman who cheated on her.I'm proud of Mauli as it takes guts to love your ex husband's daughter who cheated on you..Ppl who are name-calling her and calling her doormat and a woman without self respect. Really ?I would rather be a woman of compassion and love then the fake ott self respect and ego.

Also the other thing is ppl are praising Ishan so blindly, I mean just wow. .how much do we know of him? What if this is just his facade to be good and he is actually not? I always find Ishan's expression different from his dialogues .For instance I would had been happy if he had made his displeasure known to Mauli for meeting Pari. Because he clearly didn't liked it and it was clear from his expression. If you love someone you have to be transparent and honest to that person, which Ishan lacks.

Now does this makes me a Maunal shipper ?No I'm a neutral viewer currently who is seeing show differently after the leap.

I have seen shows like Astitva and Hasratein both were realistic and dealt with EMA.

Originally posted by: looseseal

I agree. Pari isn't wrong but she is OTT. And that is a big problem for me personally. I think many of us who are having problem with this show because the show keep flip-flopping the tone.

I think many of us, if not all, wanted a dhamakedaar, full voltage drama after Kunal's return. And after their OTT divine love, increadible white washing of KuNan and later humiliation of Mauli, I think we deserved it. But we didn't get that. Mauli has been made mellow. Is it because the show wants us to be realistic and wants to portray reality? But chalo, wo bhi fine. And I do think Kunal has been fairly okay since his return. Other than him not regretting doubting Mouli's pregnancy, he has done nth good or bad (but seriously, are makers not even going to address that angle?)

But how about rest of the show? The rest is utter non-sense. Either portray the whole story and each character with realism and dignity or go to the full on drama part. Don't trick viewers into believing a characters bahaviour (Mauli in this case) is real.

So, coming to your point of Pari: no she isn't wrong. But she is hella OTT and thats annoying. Specially when rest of the show is so mellow. And unlike Mishty (who just witnessed her mother telling her father that he didn't want her even before her birth), Pari has no reason to be so OTT.

This track should have been about Kunal and Mishti and NOT Mouli and Pari. And later, they could have had Kunal-Pari track regarding how to Pari feels about Mishti as a real sister. Mouli and Pari don't need to be a thing, ever for me personally, but if the makers really wanted Mouli to mother KuNan's child they could've incorporated Mouli in that story.

But now, when Kunal is fairly chill about Mishti, and to see Mouli get so upset about a kid getting fever is beyond ridiculous. (For crying out loud, they could've made Kunal go away for a conference for few days and Radhika and co agreeing to babysit her in that periode, but no they had to play the poor motherless Pari card). They are using Pari the same way they used domestic violence: just a plotpoint to justify KuNan. And just like how people stopped sympathizing with Nandini when it got too much, people have had little too much of OTT cuteness.

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

first of all , i am really sorry i cpuldnt like ur post as it had ishaan's part too which i think is a debatable topic and i am all hearts for him. i will explain below.. but i really loved ur lines for mauli . ❤️

@bold -- exactly!! yesterday mauli went to that house thinking that she is going to meet her friends daughter. thats a different thing she will be coming out of her ex husband's house tomorrow..

@red -- this is lovely.. mauli has guts.. kunal said she has a big heart but i really wanted to tell him that she has less ego and much more guts than him and anyone he has known ever..

it takes a lot to love your enemy's daughter. but mauli is mauli. she has forgiven nandini (not kunal ) so she went there to see her daughter..

coming to ishaan.. i will make somr other post on him dont know when . but today i would just say.. we dont require his background to know him better.. mauli has known him for 3 years. she trusts a man with her daughter. allows her to call him popsie. allows him to take her daughter anywhere.. i think no other reasons are required to trust ishaan. if i doubt him unnecessary then i will be doubting mauli..

i will make another post on him ..

thanx for ur valuable post.

@squadmishali -- hehe its not about majority..

I thought skip the episode after reading ur episode..I would like to see today episode..but anyway let see actually pari who is a small kid ..this time she is yearning a mother love ..first she liked to make friendship with misfit...but her moms CD was played in front of her..she is starting to like maul I actually she doesn't know decide that what she want..she is a little girl...so she is telling ..she needs mauli's love as mother nothing else..but Kunal I have no explain about him..iam so tired ..iam more diffuicult to understand kunal more than pari.what a selfish &cunning man.. 🤔

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

@squadmishali -- hehe its not about majority..

if nobody had liked him then also i wont have hesitated putting up my thoughts on him and i am glad u did that.. its always nice to hear different POVs.. will make a post on him too. then we can discuss hi there.. 😊

@jacknill --- thanx yaar.. 😊 itni si baat k lie itna pyaar hehe.

@naran -- i will just say keep calm. u will get ur mauli back..

@sab -- i was the one who complained about her ott dialogues when i used to give LUs.. makers are stupid for using her for this emotional blackmailing. they can tell her to say whatever that doesnt make sense and still can get sympathy for us.. why to make her so intelligent..

@rimjhim --- arrree !! muje abhi yaad aaya... CD!! oh yes. how can i forget that man!! i mean , pari has heard all that. oh shit.. !!

thats why she is said " ab to mishti share kregi""

lol i made an entire post and forgot the most important point..

actually she knows that mishti wont allow mauli to be shared. lol.. (as if mauli is some halwa) 😆

i said na pari has no idea about all this..

and dont say thanx! i wanted to make this post for so long but time issues..

now i have to sit back and reply to all.. my punishment..

Idoubt I will get mauli back...The way show is moving i do not like it one bit. I did not like how Mauli spent so much time with Pari...I can even understand the concern for pari...but your normally well mannered daughter is acting out ...where are her priorities?She is hurt by one parents dismissal ..I do not know how she will react to the other parent sidelining her.It is like Mauli is doing to Mishti what Kunal did to Mauli.

Originally posted by: sailuja

I thought skip the episode after reading ur episode..I would like to see today episode..but anyway let see actually pari who is a small kid ..this time she is yearning a mother love ..first she liked to make friendship with misfit...but her moms CD was played in front of her..she is starting to like maul I actually she doesn't know decide that what she want..she is a little girl...so she is telling ..she needs mauli's love as mother nothing else..but Kunal I have no explain about him..iam so tired ..iam more diffuicult to understand kunal more than pari.what a selfish &cunning man.. 🤔

But hope pari will get mauli's love but she should not stay with her buddy. 😆 better ishan mauli mishti &pari will be together as good family.and better kunal is leaves abroad for work.If pari needs mauli's love

Originally posted by: naran1986

Idoubt I will get mauli back...The way show is moving i do not like it one bit. I did not like how Mauli spent so much time with Pari...I can even understand the concern for pari...but your normally well mannered daughter is acting out ...where are her priorities?She is hurt by one parents dismissal ..I do not know how she will react to the other parent sidelining her.It is like Mauli is doing to Mishti what Kunal did to Mauli.

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

yesterday only i was talking about this.. we guys are generalising mauli's behaviour like some did when mishti was angry and was misbehaving.. neither mishti do that on daily basis nor mauli pays heeds to pari on daily basis..

i very well know why maunal seems impossible to me.. but i cant be 100% sure as i am not writing the show .. but still i am not hyper at all seeing them together bcz i feel mauli needs to let her inner feelings come out.. and the encounter with past(kunal) can make her do so..

she needs to let it go now.. its high time..

i feel kunal is back in her life to give her mukti 😆😆😆

i am sorry if i sound irritating to u..

but i am serious when i am saying all this..

lets hope for the best

Not irritating but optimistic