is it really tough to understand pari??

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prettywomaniya

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Posted: 6 years ago

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Originally posted by: Charaiveti
The thing is the writers r all adults n they're forcing their agenda n story through Pari cz they know audience won't be harsh with a kid. But we HV to realize her dialouges r written by adults trying to Slowly make audience like Maunal.

Second,Pari can not just demand someone's mother. As harsh as it may sound but children has to be taught the limits of everything n should not be molycoddled always. Your child demanding something completely impossible,u HV to make her understand its out of bounds whichever way u can.Contrary to popular belief children r not dumb n they do have the ability to understand sensitive situations.

Third, they r propagating a sexist idea that only women can be nurturing n feed the kids n everything. It's time dads r encouraged to enter the kitchen too.kunal is a doctor , pediatrician too. He should be the better one at taking care of a sick Pari. Men can be very nurturing. My dad is a doctor n whenever we got sick as a child n even now ,we just know he'll do everything from making soup to deciding medicine to giving watercloth and taking care of us awake whole night we didnt depend on mom much when we were sick cz dad is the expert one in that area . High time women r not burdened with this idea of being the sole nurturing gender. They gotta show her wanting a mom for better reasons in a better way.

Fourth, we've seen women going back to cheater husband enough on indian tv It's 2018 n one can expect the makers to do it the right way n empower the woman n show r moving on leaving the backstabbers behind

see i agree that cvs are giving her really heavy dialogues and are Using her.. but i dont know they want us to like maunal.. but yes they definitely want us to not hate kunal.

regarding second and third point i have quoted @arshi_asya , and made my points clear.. please if u have time then take a lpok at that post.. 😊woman vs man when a kid needs love , care , attention , time and help is a debatable topic..

fourth point. this post was about pari.. people who are not liking maunal intimacy shouldnt be rude to pari. that was my point..

mauli will go to him or not is a different thing. i personally dont want that.. and honestly, i dont see that happening..

lets wait for the right time to talk about it.

thnx for ur valuable feedback..

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Charaiveti

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Posted: 6 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

see i agree that cvs are giving her really heavy dialogues and are Using her.. but i dont know they want us to like maunal.. but yes they definitely want us to not hate kunal.

regarding second and third point i have quoted @arshi_asya , and made my points clear.. please if u have time then take a lpok at that post.. 😊woman vs man when a kid needs love , care , attention , time and help is a debatable topic..

fourth point. this post was about pari.. people who are not liking maunal intimacy shouldnt be rude to pari. that was my point..
mauli will go to him or not is a different thing. i personally dont want that.. and honestly, i dont see that happening..
lets wait for the right time to talk about it.
thnx for ur valuable feedback..

I understandur point about her being just a kid but at the end of the day it's all fictional n Indian tv is worst when it comes to sensibly writing kid characters.Ifwritten badly the character of Pari can be criticised cz it's fictional it's not a real kid facing this that's being judged. It's a show n the message n ideas it promote through any character can be criticised imo. But yes in a civil way not in a toxic bashing way

It's not a men vs women thing it's the mundane fact that men can be as much nurturing as women n Pari shouldn't be shown needing a mom cz Mauli Cooks good food etc. They can show her yearning for a mom in various other ways yet they chose a sexist way ,so that can be criticised.

When the writers use a character to propagate their not so cool ideas , obviously that character will face heat .Nandini n Kunal did,Mauli does now, so will Pari.

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prettywomaniya

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Posted: 6 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: Charaiveti
I understandur point about her being just a kid but at the end of the day it's all fictional n Indian tv is worst when it comes to sensibly writing kid characters.If written badly the character of Pari can be criticised cz it's fictional it's not a real kid facing this that's being judged. It's a show n the message n ideas it promote can be criticised imo. But yes in a civil way not in a toxic bashing way

@bold -- i agree!! but the only flaw in her character is her ott dialogues and her ott understanding .. i mean we can sum up her flaws in one line but people are making zillions of posts on her.. that i find very weird.. kids are not supposed to be rational, predictable and righteous.. that too a kid of her age. so in short i wanted to say that her flaws are not so big that we keep discussing hrr all the time.. we have major issues like kunal and mauli.. anyway i cant stop people from making posts . its an open forum.

@red -- agree!!! although i am not so touchy for fictional characters, be it a kid but yes namecalling and bashing do not help.. it just leaves a bad taste in our mouth only.

i prefer fun posts.. 😆

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prettywomaniya

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Posted: 6 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: Charaiveti

It's not a men vs women thing it's the mundane fact that men can be as much nurturing as women n Pari shouldn't be shown needing a mom cz Mauli Cooks good food etc. They can show her yearning for a mom in various other ways yet they chose a sexist way ,so that can be criticised..

i will again say that it is a debatable topic.. although in general this idea is sexist but here it is not.. i dont know how to explain.. people want their widower son to get married again for kids sake saying "bache ko maa ka pyaar chahie " and wanting an "aaya" for kid and "kaamwali" for the house is definitely sexist.. 🥱

but here it is not kunal who wants a wife who can cook good food for his kid but its a kid who is giving excuses to get mauli by saying "mauli aunty ne yummy soup bnaya tha". i am sure pari is giving excuses.. she is already smitten by mauli's charm..

also if anybody in kunal's house would want a mother for pari then that will be not bcz women can cook good food but the amount of love, care and attention a woman (mother) can give to a kid , can not be given by anybody else.. i am seeing the emotional aspects of this particular scenario and hence i dont find it sexist..

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Charaiveti

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Posted: 6 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

i will again say that it is a debatable topic.. although in general this idea is sexist but here it is not.. i dont know how to explain.. people want their widower son to get married again for kids sake saying "bache ko maa ka pyaar chahie " and wanting an "aaya" for kid and "kaamwali" for the house is definitely sexist.. 🥱

but here it is not kunal who wants a wife who can cook good food for his kid but its a kid who is giving excuses to get mauli by saying "mauli aunty ne yummy soup bnaya tha". i am sure pari is giving excuses.. she is already smitten by mauli's charm..
also if anybody in kunal's house would want a mother for pari then that will be not bcz women can cook good food but the amount of love, care and attention a woman (mother) can give to a kid , can not be given by anybody else.. i am seeing the emotional aspects of this particular scenario and hence i dont find it sexist..

I understand n respect ur pov🤗