is it really tough to understand pari?? - Page 4

We have to think about both the kids. Pari and Mishti.

Pari who has just a father and no one else in her life. This is the first time she is seeing her grandmother. Although strangely she is not asking for her. When she should demand her too. She knew she is loved and she knew she was loved. Now suddenly she heard her mom appointed a mom for her .Mauli Aunty who was suppose to be her mom is not working as her mom. She is feeling possessive just like any single parent's child. Although in reality single parent's children are more realistic and usually loves to stay with their single parent. In fact in most of the real world cases single parent's child doesn't want a mother or father as a replacement. No matter what the condition is. As I have some professional experience on this issue ...she is acting strange.. 😕 Usually they don't do this...sp if it's is a father and a daughter or a mother and a son relationship. No girl wants a sauteli mom or no boy wants a sauteli papa. Opposite may happen.

Mishti- for her everything was OK. She is also a child of a single parent, but got a family. Ishan was always there as a father figure for her. She had no Kunal ...but she never missed a father. Now that Mauli is showing her love for Kunal's daughter she is suffering from insecurity problem..

In this case in reality there can be some solutions ---
1. Marriage of Ishan and Mauli and Marriage of Kunal and some other lady.
2. Separation for both the kids. Stay away Kunal and stay away Mauli. Pari will cry 2-3 days then she will forget. Mauli coming home pretending mother , showing the girl that every time she will get sick or sad Mauli aunty will come...is a wrong way. She is encouraging the child and deceiving both Pari and Mishti. Very soon both will start hating her or start a riot between each other for Mauli's love.


Pari and Mishti both are child. Kunal is a father now. Single father is not a matter of joke. Single mother is also not a joke. May be Mauli too suffered this. Remember Mishti called Ishan "Popsi" in front of her friends. She is alsready suffering from the same problem Pari is suffering now. With that ...she always suffered a bit of shame too that she has no father like other kids. As she didn't know where her father was. Her father was not dead. For Pari mom is dead was much more relief ...but now her pereshani will start.

3. Mauli and Kunal get married. Which will happen very soon I guess or after pakawing her head. 🤢 Chalo Pari Didi ko pappi do...chalo Mishti choti to pappi do...aab moma papa de do. That's it. End of serial. After all the CVs forgot what shit they were writing???? EMA...broken marriage chhod ke aab Child right pe aa gaya...soon it may turn in to Mishti/Pari Kumari Bajewala. 😆😆😆

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

no!! dont skip episodes.. skipping episodes will result in confusion..

see, i think pari should live with kunal and radhika dida..

i dont want him to die or stay away from pari..

mauli can be cordial with pari and can keep coming to see her whenever pari wants to meet mauli.. but for that mauli has to say tata byr bye to her ugly past..

lets see how it goes.. after seeing mature episodes i feel writers wont ditch us..

Originally posted by: jhalak7

We have to think about both the kids. Pari and Mishti.

Pari who has just a father and no one else in her life. This is the first time she is seeing her grandmother. Although strangely she is not asking for her. When she should demand her too. She knew she is loved and she knew she was loved. Now suddenly she heard her mom appointed a mom for her .Mauli Aunty who was suppose to be her mom is not working as her mom. She is feeling possessive just like any single parent's child. Although in reality single parent's children are more realistic and usually loves to stay with their single parent. In fact in most of the real world cases single parent's child doesn't want a mother or father as a replacement. No matter what the condition is. As I have some professional experience on this issue ...she is acting strange.. 😕 Usually they don't do this...sp if is a father and a daughter or a mother and a son relationship.

Mishti- for her everything was OK. She is also a child of a single parent, but got a family. Ishan was always there as a father figure for her. She had no Kunal ...but she never missed a father. Now that Mauli is showing her love for Kunal's daughter she is suffering from insecurity problem..

In this case in reality there can be some solutions ---
1. Marriage of Ishan and Mauli and Marriage of Kunal and some other lady.
2. Separation for both the kids. Stay away Kunal and stay away Mauli. Pari will cry 2-3 days then she will forget. Mauli coming home pretending mother , showing the girl that every time she will get sick or sad Mauli aunty will come...is a wrong way. She is encouraging the child and deceiving both Pari and Mishti. Very soon both will start hating her or start a riot between each other for Mauli's love.


Pari and Mishti both are child. Kunal is a father now. Single father is not a matter of joke. Single mother is also not a joke. May be Mauli too suffered this. Remember Mishti called Ishan "Popsi" in front of her friends. She is alsready suffering from the same problem Pari is suffering now. With that ...she always suffered a bit of shame too that she has no father like other kids. As she didn't know where her father was. Her father was not dead. For Pari mom is dead was much more relief ...but now her pereshani will start.

3. Mauli and Kunal get married. Which will happen very soon I guess or after pakawing her head. 🤢 Chalo Pari Didi ko pappi do...chalo Mishti choti to pappi do...aab moma papa de do. That's it. End of serial. After all the CVs forgot what shit they were writing???? EMA...broken marriage chhod ke aab Child right pe aa gaya...soon it may turn in to Mishti/Pari Kumari Bajewala. 😆😆😆

It is not difficult to understand pari's actions but how can we understand the actions of the adults? So what if pari wants a mother? Does it have to be mauli? She has 2 grandmothers. Why cant they be mothers and make soup?

Originally posted by: kiransgirl

It is not difficult to understand pari's actions but how can we understand the actions of the adults? So what if pari wants a mother? Does it have to be mauli? She has 2 grandmothers. Why cant they be mothers and make soup?

I am no fan of kunal but this is one regressive story. He can be a single parent. She is not an orphan. Later on he can find another rain dancer.

Who is teaching this child boundaries and to not selfishly want what isnt yours? Clearly no one. Its life. U dont get everything u want and children have to learn this. A child who gets everything she demands is bound to be miserable ehen she grows up to realize the world isnt like that.

And whats this nonsense about female care taking instincts. All our hearts bleed to take care of children? Such stereotypes. Pari is not an orphan nor is she abused. Its high time she stop making demands or at leadt the adults teach there are limits

Nopes not wrong of her for yearning for motherly love but the dialogues are not good. Children can say things but they are made to understand as well.

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

Nopes not wrong of her for yearning for motherly love but the dialogues are not good. Children can say things but they are made to understand as well.

I have seen children whose either parents are no more and they live with their grand parents or older siblings. They don't go on saying such heavy duty dialogues. They are possessive about their parents for sure but they don't go on to ask for other's parents as Pari is shown to be doing here.

Even if they say such thing, they are made to understand. Pari can ask for her grandparents and her grandarents should consider that if they can but not rant about sharing a mother. Children of that age are not that dumb to not understand certain things. They can if peope around them do it.

Here everyone is so busy in trying to not be real to her. Children are made to understand even when they ask for forcibly sharing a toy that belongs to someone else. No children should be taught to force demand anything from their fellow and it is important that they learn to take a NO. Here, Pari is so adamant on Mishti sharing her mumma. More than Pari, Mauli is wrong here. She is getting her hopes high only to crush them. It's a completely different story if Mauli eventually decides to settle down with Kunal again for her own twisted reason. Otherwise, the damage will be greater.

It's not a mother Pari wants in literal sense, a child wants motherly love and it can come from grandparents as well.

Child of that age is not so conditioned to demand a mother or a father but the form of love parents provide in every sense.

All it took Pari was just 2 meetings to demand Mishti to share her mother. That's not even a joke.

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

although i have cleared all the points u have raised in ur post in my previous answers to others. but i will repeat for u..

@bold1 -- i agree. dialogues are ott and heavy. they are using pari for sympathy..

@blue(s) -- i mentioned in my reply to @kiran above that we shouldnt generalise this case.. it not that every child who is motherless will behave mature and real and would not want a mother.. and pari is not that adamant , today kunal made her understand and she understood.

@red -- kunal made her understand in his way.. i dont know why u guys think that kids of pari's age or even mishti's age will understand things if they are made to.. although writers keep flipping when it comes to kids . as in sometimes they show them understanding and sometimes stubborn.. but dont u think kids in general are highly unpredictable.

u tell them something, they will promise u and then in the very next moment they forget the thing and again do what they arr not supposed to.. people want mauli to make mishti understand the situation.. but i am clueless about it.. will this "making kids understand" things work??

i dont know..

kids are lured , blackmailed and this is the language they understand. i am glad kunal tricked pari today. lets see for how long it works..

@magenta -- mauli was oblivion of pari's ulterior motives. lol.

mauli went for one day. now she has promised not to go there again.. she isnt giving her hopes.. pls watch today's episode..

@bold+ italic -- this is what i want to convey through my post.. what pari says shouldnt be taken literally.. she thinks sharing parents is as simple as tiffin sharing in school.. 😆

i agree radhika can be a mother figure to her..

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

I have been surrounded by enough kids around me till now and observed them very closely.

Kids are not dumb and this I can say with complete conviction. They are smart enough to leave you flabbergasted. Children definitely don't behave the way they show on TV, especially like Pari at this moment. They have innocent questions, weird things to say, but not something this big to go ahead and ask your supposed friend to share your mom with me jist because she feels my mom was best friend with her.

It has been some 4 times, Pari has insisted on such a thing. Children don't go around and say these dialogues even to their own maasi and Bua, here is her mother's BF we are talking about. They are showing as if the word best friendship mean so much to them. They don't even understand the bonds of siblings properly and here they wanna put so much weight on friendship.

And yes, when it comes to certain things, children do understand. They listen just like how Pari listened today to Kunal.

The thing is the writers r all adults n they're forcing their agenda n story through Pari cz they know audience won't be harsh with a kid. But we HV to realize her dialouges r written by adults trying to Slowly make audience like Maunal.