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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: abhiya_12

Well I would have understood his view, even felt he is right in his POV if his words aren't contradicting.

He is sulking about he wasn't given chance to heal, if I remember he was given time, Mauli hasn't jumped on him and started behaving like old time going jaana jaana etc:; she understood his state even though it's not her responsibility because he was the cheater still he was given. But he used that time to check for possibilities to go back to Nandini over trying to get healed. If he really wanted to get healed or wanted a second chance he would have sit with Mauli asked her about how it happened, how she be careful now, how she shouldn't take stress and would have cried alone for his kheer love but he only did the latter so on what basis anyone would have given chance to heal if the other person is making you feel he did ehsaan on her by coming back in reality it's Mauli who kept her self respect aside gave him second chance.

And another contradicting thing till yesterday he wasn't one bit guilty for choosing Nandini , for cheating Mauli but next moment he was saying he would have been over Nandini by time. So what he had Nandini wasn't strong enough to survive? Didn't he called their relationship the end game Mauli is just padaav something. Like he said "shayad" , agar Nandini zinda hothi tho yahi bholtha kya? I

I just want to say even Mauli has her bad days/decisions where we actually get her emotions it comes across as human nature but in Kunal's case it comes across as he is highly selfish, opportunistic who cares about himself and his tone always ready to blame Mauli don't make me feel anything for him

Well said. Apart from first few episodes post-Kunandini affaire exposure kunal is just trying to find excuses to blame mauli for one thing or the other and that guy was never guilty for breaking his marriage, for breaking mauli's trust and heart. He doesn't deserve any sympathy.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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@nainomesapna - i think kunal isnt regretting his decision of marrying nandini.. actually he can not as she isnt alive and regretting his love for her will be demeaning for nandini and pari and also it will make him irredeemable for ever..
but whatever u stated is true.. in real life it happens.. we regret our choices, decisions when the circumstances are not favourable.

mauli regret that she isnt moved on yet.. she boldly accepted that kunal has a family and after seeing his happy family she also wants to start her own family. she is a positive character.. people didnt take those dialogues negatively and didnt say that she was jealous. they said she was hurt.
if kunal is unhappy for himself or pair seeing mauli living a happy life then people will say he is jealous..
both are human and will behave as per human nature but they wont get similar reactions from audience..

by "right " i meant that both are according to themselves.. not like they are actually right ..



@sailuja --- give kunal some time. he will regret his behaviour with mauli when he will realise the depth of his words to mauli.. till now he knows that he is wrong but he doesnt know the depth of his words to mauli. one day he will regret and ask for apology..
Edited by prettywomaniya - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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@reemz --- yeah his reaction was normal..
and i am not saying who is right who is wrong. obviously mauli has all my sympathies and she is far more right in the whole argument.
but i am only talking about his assumptions..
what he thinks is justified.. often in life we tend to think like i would have done this if i were at his place or i were in that situation.. thats another thing that reality can be different..
he was lost as he had a breakup.. so i understand that behaviour too. but mauli or the unborn had no place in his thoughts was something i can never forgive or forget..


@jazz --- yeah . he needs to be more candid to himself.. which he isnt right now.. and a self introspection is needed.. but he will not realise it until a shocking thing happens to him.. i dont know what it could be.
he was wrong and nobody can deny it.. he only made mauli to deny that she isnt pregnant. he was literally shouting at her. she had no choice. but this time he needs to calm down and think about the whole scenario..
regardging kunal thinking that ishaan can be eyeing on his kid is something will not come into picture as this is not the theme of this show and also people get married twice.. mauli isnt doing anything new. so her ex husband has to respect and trust her choice..

Edited by prettywomaniya - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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guys i am yet to read ur replies..
will respond soon..
i am glad u find this topic worth discussing .
will be back soon..

Edited by prettywomaniya - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

i think that we people are hyper active when it comes to him and are judging him for his past actions. obviously he will be and he should be judged for what he had done to mauli and his family. but still i feel he didnt do anything wrong or was mean when he said all that to mauli..

he isnt telling a lie.. i mean he thinks that if he had stayed back then, then he would have accepted his fate wholeheartedly.. he was right when he said that he had a break up and was depressed because of that.. if mauli had given him more time he would have gone back to normal , thats what he thinks right now.. it happens when u havent faced a certain situation u tend to assume things and make opinioms about it.. aisa hota toh waise hota.. yeh hota to woh hota..

i doubt he has accpeted his fate happily or would have loved mauli like the way he used to do. but then its my opinion. i dont know how he could hve behaved.. even he doesnt know how he had behaved if he had to stay back. but he THINKS that he deserved a chance to know. a
i dont agree that he deserved that chance but his dialogues about him are not fake .. this is what he thinks about him being in that situation..




From whatever we've seen of him, I'm a 100% sure that he wouldn't ever have made peace with his present without Nandini back then! Ab kuch bhi keh le, waqt to guzar gaya na!
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: anmirza


From whatever we've seen of him, I'm a 100% sure that he wouldn't ever have made peace with his present without Nandini back then! Ab kuch bhi keh le, waqt to guzar gaya na!


Yes. I agree that we are only assuming (and kunal also) but things would never be the same for him and mauli if kunal chose to stay back and mauli didnt lie . Well i wont say this is an assumption . Kunal himself said that mauli will never get"her kunal", he is now nandini ka kunal. So he must man upto his mistakes and admit that whatever happened was for everybodys good. Mishti grew up in a safe secure and loving environment with dida, radhika, mauli and ishan and kunal in his world. Kunal will not get the best of everything , not everytime !
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sabhayata

No we aren't harsh on him at all because this guy has no regret or remorse.

The point is its hard to feel empathy or sympathy for him because he doesn't feel guilty for his past actions. Hence we keep blaming him for his past actions .

Regarding the pregnancy thing yes Kunal did return to Mauli but he treated her so horribly during that time. He was unhappy ok but the way he doubted her and the way he treated her then is unforgivable .It was clear he didn't want the child. So I am glad that Mauli didn't tell him about it.


Sadly the character of Kunal is not a nice one...He is a selfish person and whatever the situation it all comes to that...it's always about what he wants at that moment. 6 years ago all he wanted was nandini and he could only think of that ...he didn't even think about what Mauli was going through..and now he decided he would like to be in his daughters life so it's all About him. He hasn't even thought once about how his appearance will affect mishty and Mauli and Ishaan. Mishty has accepted Ishaan as her father ,..Kunal knows that ...even he though he is a paediatrician he's not thinking about confused and lost mishty will feel when she knows that he's her father who left her mom and her before she was born. Children have very delicate emotional balance ..it's hard for them to handle complex situations...like we are seeing now with mishty ...it's bothering her that Kunal is her father ..she's thinking about Paris words ...about not sharing Kunal . She was happy and carefree before Kunal came along. But Kunal never considers what is best for other people ...it's all about him
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Indira1211

Sadly the character of Kunal is not a nice one...He is a selfish person and whatever the situation it all comes to that...it's always about what he wants at that moment. 6 years ago all he wanted was nandini and he could only think of that ...he didn't even think about what Mauli was going through..and now he decided he would like to be in his daughters life so it's all About him. He hasn't even thought once about how his appearance will affect mishty and Mauli and Ishaan. Mishty has accepted Ishaan as her father ,..Kunal knows that ...even he though he is a paediatrician he's not thinking about confused and lost mishty will feel when she knows that he's her father who left her mom and her before she was born. Children have very delicate emotional balance ..it's hard for them to handle complex situations...like we are seeing now with mishty ...it's bothering her that Kunal is her father ..she's thinking about Paris words ...about not sharing Kunal . She was happy and carefree before Kunal came along. But Kunal never considers what is best for other people ...it's all about him

I just saw the precap about Kunal calling Mauli...looks like the writers are deciding to change Kunal...he is thinking about mishtys emotional state now. I got a feeling that the writers are going to completely white wash Kunal now..going to show him to be good And possibly even regret the EMA and then unite Mauli and Kunal . His dialogues are starting to show that he's regretting his past actions. It's quite stupid because if nandini was alive this would not have happened. Also it's almost impossible that it happens in real life where the other woman conveniently dies and then the cheating husband repents and the wife takes him back..it's just too much intervention to unite the cheating husband with his wife. I really would prefer that Mauli gets over Kunal , let's him visit mishty at weekends and she And Ishaan Marry and give mishty a regular happy family.. But doesn't look like that is going to happen.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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@raaya @sabhyata @ianoconic -- i think u guys misinterpreted that its a mauli vs kunal post. no it is not.. mauli was right when she didnt tell him about the baby.. and she is right even today. but what i am saying is if kunal thinks that if he had stayed back then he would have changed is just what he feels.
its not a fact. its an opinion.. he may be wrong if reality had hit upon him. but neither he nore mauli and nor even we can be sure of what could have happened if he had stayed back..

@raaya @sabhyata @ianoconic @charu @anmirza -- i also feel he would have cried buckets for long and had not loved mauli the way he used to be. but thats again an opinion..

i am just saying his defense wasnt bad or fake but yes his accusations had no base..


@abhiya --- i have also complained about this that he didnt spare a single thought about mauli and her pregnancy, about their future together .
but the entire thing happened in one day.. he came back they had karvachauth pooja just the very next day and rest is history..
we dont know what he could have done if given more time. although in my personal opinion it seems impossible to imagine that he would have accepted his fate happily but its just an assumption..
i am just saying his defense wasnt bad or fake but yes his accusations had no base.. his defense seemed very natural to me ..
if i were kunal i would have said the same things..

to everyone -- lets not forget that what we think we could have done in a certain situation can be totally different in reality.. but that doesnt mean our thoughts/emotions about that situation are fake..
kunal said nandini is his destiny and mauli was just a padaav is the best example here.. he thought that nandini is his destiny but he had to surrender when reality hit upon him.. it doesnt mean that his words about nandini were fake..



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Posted: 6 years ago
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@Indira -- on one hand everybody wants him to repent and then calling it white washing.. its not that he is regretting his decision of marrying nandini or his love for her.. but yes he admits that he was wrong indirectly..
u have watched today's episode u have seen him correcting himself when he said "hamari beti" and corrected immediately it to "tumhari beti". he isnt claiming any rights on mishti.. he knows he was wrong and probably has no custody rights on mishti.. (not legally but morally)
whether nandini was alive or not. he would have behaved the same as far as mishti is concerned.. as it has nothing to do with his getting back to mauli..



@noumi - co-parenting isnt easy when u have such toxic experience with ur ex husband.. lets see what kunal wants..i dont think he is thinking about co-parenting ( if u have seen today's episode)


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