are we being too harsh on kunal?? - Page 2

Cheat he is n whatever he justify remain one. Even he said u have to give him time

I completely agree...neither mauli was wrong nor kunal...both were right in their pov...if mauli would have given him time he would have forgot nandini and rebuild his family again

Originally posted by: White..Magic

From my perspective- Mauli never tried to hide anything. It's kunal who never looked back. When you are frustrate, you end up saying things you don't mean it... Mauli was clearly disgusted when she realised that kunal was desperate to prove that pregnancy was fake... she just said it out of frustration... Did Mauli stop him to check any report or get proper confirmation from doctor? Did Mauli try to hide anything when kunal asked him 'Mishty ka asli papa kaun hain' after 6 years? Radhika tried to cook some cock and bull story that Mishty is an adopted kid, but Mauli didn't try to hide it. Yes, she never wanted Radhika and Dida to go and tell him about child and bring him like he was back on some gun point. If he had looked back in those 6 years, If not for Mauli, just for his own mother and granny, he would have known about Mishty's existance long back. Mauli's intention was never to keep a father away from child, her intetion was to keep a father away from unwanted child. Didn't she accept him back after his raas leela and bang leela just for child? What to do when he never wanted that child?

No... we are too lenient with him. He is talking base on hypothesis situation and there are many 'shayad'... shayad me Nandini ko bhul jata, shayad sab normal ho jata... shayad this, shayad that... there is no guarantee or warrantee. If we look at current situation, he'll be making things complicated for both girls.. he's so desperate to be father of Mishty, but he's not thinking that how would he introduce both girls as sisters?

Originally posted by: Mages

I completely agree...neither mauli was wrong nor kunal...both were right in their pov...if mauli would have given him time he would have forgot nandini and rebuild his family again

I feel that totally wrong kunal gave justified his opinion..absolutely we should agree that he was looking for each and every opportunity to get back to nandini..more than mauli pregnancy. as well as he didn't show any interested about his child and mauli that time he was blindly with nandini lust/love...I can never ever accept that fact kunal is giving his pov..how could he expect that he can get justify what he did to mauli.?? really very bad..kunal still not try to understand mauli's feelings.. I feel that he want to prove as divine father of his daughter mishti..but actually he has no any humanity ..but god will look everything what kunal did to mauli..he spoiled and butchered one woman life..but now he is taking about responsibility of child...really waste fellow this kunal character 😛

Originally posted by: ketty84

Cheat he is n whatever he justify remain one. Even he said u have to give him time

Why mouli do that he was unfaithful n selfish n sleeping with ... . Having all fun . Mouli did right how can he be idealistic father

Originally posted by: sailuja

I feel that totally wrong kunal gave justified his opinion..absolutely we should agree that he was looking for each and every opportunity to get back to nandini..more than mauli pregnancy. as well as he didn't show any interested about his child and mauli that time he was blindly with nandini lust/love...I can never ever accept that fact kunal is giving his pov..how could he expect that he can get justify what he did to mauli.?? really very bad..kunal still not try to understand mauli's feelings.. I feel that he want to prove as divine father of his daughter mishti..but actually he has no any humanity ..but god will look everything what kunal did to mauli..he spoiled and butchered one woman life..but now he is taking about responsibility of child...really waste fellow this kunal character 😛

I agree with you. It's human nature to regret the choices we make. For example when I am faced with two choices, no matter what I choose, I usually regret it. This is because after I've lived and experienced that choice, I feel maybe the other one would've been better because I'll never know what the second choice would've offered me. Same with Kunal, he had two choices, Nandini or Mauli. He chose what he felt would be best but after living and experiencing it, he has learned that maybe his choice wasn't as great as he'd thought. He hadn't anticipated Nandini dying and him becoming a single father. He hadn't anticipated having a daughter with Mauli who has found a father elsewhere. Therefore, he regrets that Mauli lied to him. However if he had chosen Mauli over Nandini, even then he would've regretted that decision. Because he would never know what his life would've been like had he chose Nandini.

And I guess even then he would've blamed Mauli.

So I think it's fair to say that Kunal is reacting naturally to this situation that he's in. But that does not mean he is right. Same with Mauli.

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

he is a cheat. but i dont believe in once a cheat always a cheat theory.

but that is not even the point of discussion.

what mauli did was right.. i didnt say she was wrong.

but his defense was not wrong.. the post is about him defending himself not about who is wrong and who is right..

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

sailuja -- u guys are taking this post to a different tangent.. i didnt say mauli was wrong. read all my replies..

the post isnt about who was right that time..

it is about kunal's thinking..

he thinks if he had stayed back everything would have been back to normal.

i dont agree to it myself. but how can i tell kunal that No! u would not have changed ever.. it was a future prediction.. nobody can predict future..

we always think "main uski jagah hoti to yeh nahi karti .. main uski jagah hoti to aisa hi karti" and most of the times we are too sure about things.. (take example from forum only)

so i dont find kunal wrong for thinking that he would have accepted his fate wholeheartedly..

its just an assumption by kunal and he strongly feels about it.. just like we people make assumptions about ourselves .