are we being too harsh on kunal??

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Posted: 6 years ago
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i think that we people are hyper active when it comes to him and are judging him for his past actions. obviously he will be and he should be judged for what he had done to mauli and his family. but still i feel he didnt do anything wrong or was mean when he said all that to mauli..
he isnt telling a lie.. i mean he thinks that if he had stayed back then, then he would have accepted his fate wholeheartedly.. he was right when he said that he had a break up and was depressed because of that.. if mauli had given him more time he would have gone back to normal , thats what he thinks right now.. it happens when u havent faced a certain situation u tend to assume things and make opinioms about it.. aisa hota toh waise hota.. yeh hota to woh hota..

i doubt he has accpeted his fate happily or would have loved mauli like the way he used to do. but then its my opinion. i dont know how he could hve behaved.. even he doesnt know how he had behaved if he had to stay back. but he THINKS that he deserved a chance to know. a
i dont agree that he deserved that chance but his dialogues about him are not fake .. this is what he thinks about him being in that situation..


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Posted: 6 years ago
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I agree.This time what kunal said is not completely wrong.Mauli did lie about pregnancy.Can't blame Mauli for that.This time I feel both are right in their own place.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Very true..but none can deny that he was looking for each and every opportunity to get back to Nandini..ela this false pregnancy would not have sprouted in his mind.and Thts what Mauli accusing him of now..he just saw what he wanted to back then..and both are right in their POV..and Kunal usually chooses the most favourable
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Silpa91

I agree.This time what kunal said is not completely wrong.Mauli did lie about pregnancy.Can't blame Mauli for that.This time I feel both are right in their own place.


yes.. both are right to some extent..
as of now i didnt find anything which makes kunal wrong about his telling mauli that she could have wait.. as he thinks he would hve survived..
and mauli too is right as it was clear that he was finding ways to prove that the pregnancy news is wrong..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: jacknjill03

Very true..but none can deny that he was looking for each and every opportunity to get back to Nandini..ela this false pregnancy would not have sprouted in his mind.and Thts what Mauli accusing him of now..he just saw what he wanted to back then..and both are right in their POV..and Kunal usually chooses the most favourable


exactly!! i am not at all denying the FACT that he wasnt willing to accept that nandini has no more existence in his life.. but i was fine with that. as he claimed that nandini was his love so it was bound to happen. but what miffed me was that there was no determination to support mauli in her pregnancy, to think about his baby.. not even a single thought about his kid or family or responsibilities. like ke nahi kunal ab yahi teri duniya hai. yahi teri life hai. apne bache ke lie yeh krna hoga. etc..

but at this time he thinks that he would have changed with time which i dont find wrong.. he wasnt in that situation. thats just a thought and he can think that way .
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Posted: 6 years ago
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He never showed interest abt baby back then... never showing concern abt pregnancy.

That whole phase ruined his character.. infact after Mauli's bday, his character got ruined.

Still chances of redemption if he shows little regret n guilt..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ruhi122

He never showed interest abt baby back then... never showing concern abt pregnancy.

That whole phase ruined his character.. infact after Mauli's bday, his character got ruined.

Still chances of redemption if he shows little regret n guilt..


i totally agree that he was wrong. he didnt care. all he thought was nandini and romance.. kunal is far butchered than nandini.. he wasnt like this..
and i am not seeing this situation as his redemption .. to me it feels real and right that what he thinks about him being in a certain situation is just his thinking .. and here he is just telling mauli that if given time it could have worked..
all other dialogues were also great and show their perspective..
both were eqaully right to their positions..

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Well, to be honest, he does have a point here.

But the problem is whenever we think about Mauli's humiliation it's impossible to feel sympathy for him. 🄱

There was a show called Kayamath on SP where the FL's father had an affair & decided to divorce his wife. But once he had taken his daughter in his lap & his mom warned him how his daughter would feel humiliation from everyone or him, he chose his marriage. He continued loving his GF but dedicated his life for his daughter.

Frankly, Dida had already blackmailed him. Nandini had pushed him away & all he wanted was to return. What could have happened after Mishti's birth is unpredictable.

So at this point when he is already a father & knows the value of a child - his yearning may be true.

And Mauli as an independent woman is absolutely justified in her stand.

But right now, as kids have been involved, I would rather want them to co-parent the girls & explain in a way where neither Mishti nor Pari would be hurt. Although I am doubtful about its possibility.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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From my perspective- Mauli never tried to hide anything. It's kunal who never looked back. When you are frustrate, you end up saying things you don't mean it... Mauli was clearly disgusted when she realised that kunal was desperate to prove that pregnancy was fake... she just said it out of frustration... Did Mauli stop him to check any report or get proper confirmation from doctor? Did Mauli try to hide anything when kunal asked him 'Mishty ka asli papa kaun hain' after 6 years? Radhika tried to cook some cock and bull story that Mishty is an adopted kid, but Mauli didn't try to hide it. Yes, she never wanted Radhika and Dida to go and tell him about child and bring him like he was back on some gun point. If he had looked back in those 6 years, If not for Mauli, just for his own mother and granny, he would have known about Mishty's existance long back. Mauli's intention was never to keep a father away from child, her intetion was to keep a father away from unwanted child. Didn't she accept him back after his raas leela and bang leela just for child? What to do when he never wanted that child?

No... we are too lenient with him. He is talking base on hypothesis situation and there are many 'shayad'... shayad me Nandini ko bhul jata, shayad sab normal ho jata... shayad this, shayad that... there is no guarantee or warrantee. If we look at current situation, he'll be making things complicated for both girls.. he's so desperate to be father of Mishty, but he's not thinking that how would he introduce both girls as sisters?
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: nushy1995

Well, to be honest, he does have a point here.

But the problem is whenever we think about Mauli's humiliation it's impossible to feel sympathy for him. 🄱

There was a show called Kayamath on SP where the FL's father had an affair & decided to divorce his wife. But once he had taken his daughter in his lap & his mom warned him how his daughter would feel humiliation from everyone or him, he chose his marriage. He continued loving his GF but dedicated his life for his daughter.

Frankly, Dida had already blackmailed him. Nandini had pushed him away & all he wanted was to return. What could have happened after Mishti's birth is unpredictable.

So at this point when he is already a father & knows the value of a child - his yearning may be true.

And Mauli as an independent woman is absolutely justified in her stand.

But right now, as kids have been involved, I would rather want them to co-parent the girls & explain in a way where neither Mishti nor Pari would be hurt. Although I am doubtful about its possibility.


BOLD -- yes! the future is unpredictable..
although i personally feel that he would hve sulked all his life, would have never loved mauli the way he used to do and it was more like a ehsaan on them (as mauli mentioned)

about co-parenting.. i dont want mauli to go for that.. kunal can come and see mishti whenever he wants but co-parenting both kids.. šŸ˜•
i dont know!! i need to see how mauli feels about pari after nandini's death revelation.. pari will always remind her of that dhoka.. lets see how it goes..

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