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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anahi


hey. u voiced my thoughts ...
u actually managed to write a long post. 😆
thnx for this post.. much appreciated..

and kunal is a very dangerous man! he is so unpredictable and one can not rely on him for anything.. in earlier episodes he was husband goals and now i am so scared to imagine a husband like him..

ps: are u the one who was writing a ff on mauli which had an extra charming witty guy with no face???

Hii anahi!!
You still remember the ff?? Thank you...i am pleasantly surprised and a little blushy that you still remember it 😳...yes i am writing that ff but i have shifted it to wattpad... 😊
Scared to imagine a husband like him 😆 true...he is so sly its difficult to even fathom what he is thinking and when...
And he is also incredibly dense because he says to mauli that nandini is almost an angel incarnate for having planned her birthday party... I mean what do i say about such a man 😳
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Posted: 6 years ago
#72
In real life, a lustful person like him,say the same thing to his every ex'es.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: amortentia15

@mango_pudding... You are absolutely right! 😆 weird drama with weird characters...

There's just so much discrepancies everywhere...
Dida and Radhika ( i dont know why i kept on thinking she is Yamini for the longest time 😆)... Even my writeup has her named Yamini...lol...they are a super annoying jodi...
All they are thinking about is tethering Kunaal and Mauli by hook or by crook for their own weird reasons... Phew... I had no hopes from dida ever but Radhika disappointed me big time...😕
The show could have been so much but a bunch of incompetent writers messed up the plot big time...



even I kept thinking her name was yamini for the longest time. hahahaha...
and as for the weird reasons, my impression of dida and radhika is super negative at the moment and see them as batty selfish manipulative ladies who are using mauli. they want mauli to stay with kunal because otherwise they will end up alone. if kunal ends up with nandini, they can't stay with him because of society and if kunal and mauli divorce, they can't stay with her. so there's no wanting for true reconciliation of a marriage or genuine love -- such mind games and dramas only showcases their selfishness to me. if they truly cared, they would have sat down and talked to kunal. they would talked to mauli as well. no lectures. no mind games. no pretending in front of others at festivals. expect them to use the child card to stay with mauli so that they are not alone and have someone to take care of them.

P.S to folks -- yea, super tired with real life stuff. so no energy to argue. so no worries if you disagree. lets just agree to disagree okay?
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Posted: 6 years ago
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@amortentia - hehe . oh of course i remember that ff.. mauli and that guy clicked so well 😆 and u write so so well.
whattapad. okay so i am going to check out that place soonish for mauli ffs..

lol, yes kunal is a gone case.. yesterday was his lowest low.. i didnt feel that bad when he had sex with nandini but i felt extremely bad when he changed his phone password.. he is yukkkyyy..
anyway will reprimand him in some other post..
will catch u on whattapad.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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The very frst thing is an attractive..which he thinks is love..coz nandini is all he expects in a woman..looking after home ..prioritising him before everything..one thing lead to another..and he sees that as love..but as ppl say..time changes ppl.those who overcome what is thrown at them they ll succeed..and I guess kunal is stuck by this fate game.when he feels otherwise in near future it will be too late..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: amortentia15

Your P.S 😆 true...it is sometimes extremely exhausting to debate on such topics...
I think youve made a very valid point... And trust me i would have been glad if they showed Kunaal feel inconsequential in his own home and in his marriage hence the trangression... But cvs did reiterate time and again that there was no glitch in his marriage and that the story is about how a man falls in love with a woman despite having a happy marriage(i feel it was terribly faulty of the cvs to go on saying that, made kunaal all the more a complete nincompoop)... So based on what they have shown there is no clear indication of mauli being bossy or sidelining kunaal's wishes to the extent that he started feeling left out and looked for an alternative...he himself said he was


Sorry cutting your post short but I just wanted to talk on the bold.

Actually, I read all the discussions that have went forward and I am totally board with @mango on how Kunal is not give enough importance or consider a man with feelings. The most recent example would be when he came home after Nandini broke up with him and how no one, not even his mother understood his state. She was more upset about the fact that he left the table in a huff rather than him sitting on the floor with tears in his eyes. Let not even talk about how he was never questioned or asked for clairfication on his affair. I would have accepted that from Dida but his mother is a modern woman and she should have asked her son that why did he feel the need to stray.

@bold: I am totally with you on the fact that CVs did not give clear indication of the issues in their marriage but there were many times where she did overrule him. There were so many times in the past that Mauli used to give Kunal this whole look like he was the sun and the moon and he could not do anything wrong and let him speak his thoughts out. Once done she use to give this sweet smile and say "Par Jaana" and give her logic, decide on the path and also provide the solution. He then used to just grind his teeth and go with it. I was a big fan of these "Par Jaana" scenes just because they were so very sweet (Aditi was awesome during those) but yes, Mauli used to come out with an upper hand in all those situation. Not sure if Kunal used to give up because it was the easier route or it was just their relationship but it happened.

Also, there were many time she used to ask him a question and before he could answer, jump to a conclusion, give an explanation of his actions and decide on what needs to be done. Based on this, on the other thread we used to think that when and if the time came for reconciliation between K and M, Mauli would be the one who would give an explanation, decide what is wrong and also give a solution on what needs to be done without Kunal input. This is exactly what happened on that date. She did not sense his body language, nor his expression, nor realized that he did not hug her back. She went on and on without even once trying to even check if Kunal was on board or not. If ,at that moment, Kunal would not have opened his mouth, Mauli would now have been a happy soul with no inkling on Kunal's inner thoughts which has been the case since the beginning. This definitely cannot be the reason for cheating or the only reason for the increasing distance but just wanted to give you a different perspective.

The only time Kunal has actually retaliated is when he has been scared out of his wits and it used to be full out blast on Mauli, atleast three times if I remember correctly, similar to one we saw yesterday. Rest all the time he used to just give in.

So i do think that CVs did present or gave us hints but did not do it explicitly where it registered with the audience. They went through that phase of his decreasing distance with Nandini and increasing distance with Mauli at such a high speed that viewers did not connect at all. i think even now if they give us some flashbacks it would give all of us some much needed answers but this not knowing/guessing is frustrating.

PS: I am not criticizing Mauli here nor supporting Kunal. For me, its just the story and these are the characters that I am trying very hard to understand.




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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: pamk06


Sorry cutting your post short but I just wanted to talk on the bold.

Actually, I read all the discussions that have went forward and I am totally board with @mango on how Kunal is not give enough importance or consider a man with feelings. The most recent example would be when he came home after Nandini broke up with him and how no one, not even his mother understood his state. She was more upset about the fact that he left the table in a huff rather than him sitting on the floor with tears in his eyes. Let not even talk about how he was never questioned or asked for clairfication on his affair. I would have accepted that from Dida but his mother is a modern woman and she should have asked her son that why did he feel the need to stray.

@bold: I am totally with you on the fact that CVs did not give clear indication of the issues in their marriage but there were many times where she did overrule him. There were so many times in the past that Mauli used to give Kunal this whole look like he was the sun and the moon and he could not do anything wrong and let him speak his thoughts out. Once done she use to give this sweet smile and say "Par Jaana" and give her logic, decide on the path and also provide the solution. He then used to just grind his teeth and go with it. I was a big fan of these "Par Jaana" scenes just because they were so very sweet (Aditi was awesome during those) but yes, Mauli used to come out with an upper hand in all those situation. Not sure if Kunal used to give up because it was the easier route or it was just their relationship but it happened.

Also, there were many time she used to ask him a question and before he could answer, jump to a conclusion, give an explanation of his actions and decide on what needs to be done. Based on this, on the other thread we used to think that when and if the time came for reconciliation between K and M, Mauli would be the one who would give an explanation, decide what is wrong and also give a solution on what needs to be done without Kunal input. This is exactly what happened on that date. She did not sense his body language, nor his expression, nor realized that he did not hug her back. She went on and on without even once trying to even check if Kunal was on board or not. If ,at that moment, Kunal would not have opened his mouth, Mauli would now have been a happy soul with no inkling on Kunal's inner thoughts which has been the case since the beginning. This definitely cannot be the reason for cheating or the only reason for the increasing distance but just wanted to give you a different perspective.

The only time Kunal has actually retaliated is when he has been scared out of his wits and it used to be full out blast on Mauli, atleast three times if I remember correctly, similar to one we saw yesterday. Rest all the time he used to just give in.

So i do think that CVs did present or gave us hints but did not do it explicitly where it registered with the audience. They went through that phase of his decreasing distance with Nandini and increasing distance with Mauli at such a high speed that viewers did not connect at all. i think even now if they give us some flashbacks it would give all of us some much needed answers but this not knowing/guessing is frustrating.

PS: I am not criticizing Mauli here nor supporting Kunal. For me, its just the story and these are the characters that I am trying very hard to understand.





These reasons are very silly to go and have an EMA at a full blown extent and Mauli was always ready to adjust .Even she has said many times that she is ready to take off from her work.Whatever be the reason kunal's EMA can never be justified. Mauli is too good and these subtle reasons cannot justify these divine lovers filthy act. It is pure lust nothing else i can see
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Also pls note when you are married we have certain responsibilities and it is not just romance. Kunal always lacked in that part to shoulder responsibility.When you say that CVs highlighted that kunal always used to be silent when Mauli used to have upper hand don't u think CVs portrayed him more as a lover boy. He never used to pack his things even. Only Mauli used to do it for him. His mind is filled with only romance so it is pure lust and nothing else. Nandhini is jobless .Only dressing up is her main job. He found easy to fulfil his desire with her. He doesn't want to shoulder any responsibility of the family. simply roam around as a lover boy like a teenager.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Nobody is flawless.. Mauli has flaws n if it was so unbearable for him, he shd hv told her.
EMA is not the answer.

CVs jus gave small hints that's not enuff reason to fall out of love n fall in love with someone else... It wasn't like he was unhappy with Mauli's upper hand.

If upper hand is the prob then we all know who has upper hand in most marriages.. so wives go n start EMA?
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Posted: 6 years ago
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@pamk6... Hii! I couldn't quote because somehow its showing a blank from my phone and captcha is anyway making all of us mad here😆
I have to politely disagree with you on the points you mentioned that could be the tenable reasons for the crack in their marriage...

Regarding no one paying any attention to kunaal's supposed despair i doubt, if this happens in a household where a person like mauli is cheated upon and her feelings trampled in the worst way possible anyone will even care to take into consideration the cheat's feelings and perspectives... I have seen a father disown his son and treat his daughter in law as his own daughter after an EMA was exposed... he was driven out of the house...i guess this is where even the cvs are failing... I dont know what all they write in the name of juzzbaat and love and romance but none of it is a realistic representation of events no matter what they say...
I have my grudge against Radhika because i expected better of her... I wanted her to support Mauli after the divorce but again the tracks went downhill after that... Also even MAULI was watered down to some extent...
The subtle things you've mentioned are very innocuos occurences in a normal family and they do not explain the shift in Kunaal's feelings and neither does it explain why he got attracted towards Nandini...thats my reading of the happenings in the show... If we see , Mauli despite being very busy was the one who took care of the things whether it was packing his bags or finding his watch... "The whole Jaana" dialogue was a common banter between a husband and a wife and does not explain Kunaal being somewhat stifled for it...we all do it at some point...assert our rights, try to put forth our points in the way that Mauli did... if that makes my husband fall for another person then the marriage was doomed from the start as was in the case of the Maunal marriage... A marriage is a lot more than these trivial fallouts... That is not a plausible reason for Kunaal to suddenly fall out of love with her... Which is why he and the cvs are confused as to why he fell out of love...because these reasons are very insignificant.
I think as a lot of people have said its just the macho saviour factor and the attraction that is the basis of this ema...not a profound emotional connect which is why the characters and the cvs arfavicing brickbats... I was completely fine with that if they called a spade a spade... But they injected some pretty big dialogues...of roohani aarzoo and all and that was grating to say the least... For all purposes they had a one night stand...
As for Kunaal i just cannot bring myself upto feeling anything for him... Because he comes across as a selfish, shallow human being... But that's totally my views on him...😊



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