looking at the CVs - Page 20

Originally posted by: mango_pudding1

in a weird way, such low expectations is a best of both worlds for some -- they still get to have their own independent lives and figure out what they want but at the same time, they have some companionship. perhaps, thats why nandini doesn't want more as long as she has that assurance he will call...

think she was trying to assure mouli as well as share her stress at the same time. hahahaha... so basically mouli was going on something on lines of "you have won!" and what nandini was in essence saying "no I haven't won at all. I don't even know where he is or why he hasn't called. I don't even know if I have a future with him." -- so weirdly, it was kind of a shocker as well as reassuring in a rather stranger manner to mouli because she then gets over her anger and starts calling friends to try find out where he is as she lets herself worry.

I agree there are people who would be happy in such relationships as long as they are getting the desired attention.

Originally posted by: SummerRain7

I agree there are people who would be happy in such relationships as long as they are getting the desired attention.

In Nandini's case, initially it made sense because she just got out of an abusive relationship and from an almost prison like life, jumped into this relationship headlong without much thought. She wasnt really thinking about the future. But when she sensed Mauli's suspicion she no longer wanted to hide. When the revelation happened, she did not want to step back, but she also did not want to claim Kunal for herself and quite shockingly did not also want to lose Mauli's friendship. So then what was she thinking , rather expecting? That it was okay for Kunal to stay married to Mauli, but he should continue seeing her and Mauli should also continue to be her friend? This can only mean that, either she is completely delusional or that apart from her feelings for Kunal, anything that she says or does, has no value. She is just merely reacting to situations. The only thing that goes on in her mind is Kunal and her love for him.

Originally posted by: pamk06

No he was treating poor people as a side job or as a good deed. He wanted a clinic so he do both as well as not charge more for the treatments. The project that was approved was a huge deal for both of them as it was going to open a lot of doors for him careerwise.

Yes, Nandini does love sarees. Way before they even had feelings for each other, M and K has asked her to write her a list of dreams. She could not so Kunal was helping her and he came up with this stupid logic of shop whrere you can buy anything. She had asked Kunal, does this shop have sarees, can I buy it? Kunal answer was, why you want to buy sarees, you already have more than enough sarees for a lifetime. So, I guess even if she wants sarees, she is not going to get them.🤣. It was very sweet interaction before it all went down the drain.

I think money is not important to Kunal, his bitterness will come from the fact that he will have to boycott his family which is way more important for him.

It's not that easy, is it? I am thinking about a scenario where Kunal and Nandini are together in the future, when Kunal's friend cheated on his wife, I remember Kunal said something about his wife working to give him a lifestyle, it's not about the money but expecting that Kunal will eat Nandini's love is too much, no?
What I am trying to say is not about money but about the fact that Kunal's dream is a clinic where he can treat people for free, which means his income will be zero and even if he earns that'll go in the clinic for medicine and instruments, considering he refused Rajdeep's offer of sending his patients to his laboratory, so I am guessing he would conduct free tests as well, with Mauli by his side, it was easy because she is an extremely successful doctor, someone who can gift him the clinic, but with Nandini he has to start working and he would have to abandon his dream and that will make him bitter that's what happened with SRK's character in KANK...

With Nandini, now you raised a point that she won't be getting Sarees, so would she be happy with this?



BTW I have a question with new turn in the story, apparently they are going with the narrative that Nandini loves kunal more than Mauli loves him, do you think Nandini loves him more than Mauli loves him?


I know I am asking question, but I wanna reply too, hehehehe

So the whole thing is based on how Nandini is worrying over Kunal and Mauli sees her condition and conclusion is that Nandini loves Kunal more, I dreaded that CVs will go with a route where Kunal is the trophy and they will show that Nandini's love wins over Mauli's love..
What I am trying to understand here, shouldn't it be Kunal loves Nandini more, since he strayed in his marriage with Mauli? The woman gave him 7 years of her life, she worked day and night to fulfill his dreams, Nandini is crying for a man who left his wife to be with her but Mauli was worried over a man who left her for Nandini, even when he has betrayed her, she's worried about him but in the end, she's just a loser.. What is this?

Originally posted by: pamk06

I do not know what she would have chosen if it had come to a point where she had to choose between love and friendship but Mauli made that decision for her. So now the only thing left with her is his love but it seems like she did not want him to break with Mauli.

So, may be she wanted Kunal to make that call and choose whether he wanted Mauli or her and she would have accepted it either ways. Like in the garden, she was ready walk away as soon as, she thought he was regretting it, without putting up a fight. Hence, the line because at that point, she didnt know what Kunal was going to do, what his decision was going to be and she was just waiting for his decision.

Unfortunately, circumstances are taking them on a different path and circumstance are making a choice for them.

Bold - I am not sure whether I should applaud the makers for making it appear that way. In a way, it is clever of them, but at the same time it is frustrating me and I am sure a lot of viewers. Its like Kunal and Nandini are drifting along with whatever is happening and at no point can we say with conviction that they would have made this choice or that choice. Now as per the spoilers, it is again Mauli who is filing for divorce. So what exactly is Kunal thinking? How long are they going to keep this suspense? It is kinda frustrating, because now the truth is already out in the open, they can see for themselves the hurt and pain they caused to the people around them. When will they start taking ownership and stop acting like victims?

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

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BTW I have a question with new turn in the story, apparently they are going with the narrative that Nandini loves kunal more than Mauli loves him, do you think Nandini loves him more than Mauli loves him?


I know I am asking question, but I wanna reply too, hehehehe

So the whole thing is based on how Nandini is worrying over Kunal and Mauli sees her condition and conclusion is that Nandini loves Kunal more, I dreaded that CVs will go with a route where Kunal is the trophy and they will show that Nandini's love wins over Mauli's love..

What I am trying to understand here, shouldn't it be Kunal loves Nandini more, since he strayed in his marriage with Mauli? The woman gave him 7 years of her life, she worked day and night to fulfill his dreams, Nandini is crying for a man who left his wife to be with her but Mauli was worried over a man who left her for Nandini, even when he has betrayed her, she's worried about him but in the end, she's just a loser.. What is this?

Originally posted by: SummerRain7

Bold - I am not sure whether I should applaud the makers for making it appear that way. In a way, it is clever of them, but at the same time it is frustrating me and I am sure a lot of viewers. Its like Kunal and Nandini are drifting along with whatever is happening and at no point can we say with conviction that they would have made this choice or that choice. Now as per the spoilers, it is again Mauli who is filing for divorce. So what exactly is Kunal thinking? How long are they going to keep this suspense? It is kinda frustrating, because now the truth is already out in the open, they can see for themselves the hurt and pain they caused to the people around them. When will they start taking ownership and stop acting like victims?

Mango_pudding1- You make me laugh ! He sure gets his head bumped a lot.😆

Originally posted by: mango_pudding1

for some reason, read it differently -- thought mouli was shocked because she has been seeing this whole affair as a physical fling, some sort of infatuation or mid life crisis. but seeing nandini's worry made her realize that it was far more serious than she had imagined. that there were actual emotions involved.

as for mouli worrying -- it is not easy to switch off a heart like that. give her some time. even with friends who have been through divorce, they still wept even when it was their choice to leave.. her love for him was true. so obviously she would worry no?

Two women are here, apparently makers are saying Mauli didn't love Kunal as much as Nandini loves him, Kunal is a trophy so the trophy won't take a stand, he won't choose one but they are putting down Mauli here, Mauli could have asked for divorce because kunal cheated on her but no, she is asking for a divorce because she realized that Nandini loves Kunal more than she loves him and since people won't accept Nandini, Mauli is being made a scapegoat to promote KuNan's love, Why would a wife think that some girl loves her husband more than she loves him and that is the reason she's filing divorce, not because he cheated on her?

The thing is that they could have shown KuNan falling for each other without a devine angle but they thought KuNan won't be accepted without interference of the God, now Mauli could have divorced Kunal like any other wife would but she files for divorce after seeing that Nandini loves Kunal, they are just fishing for acceptance from audience and who better than the wife to give them a green signal?


Anyway, the point about Mauli crying for Kunal, I didn't say why Mauli is crying? I meant that Nandini is crying for a man who left his family for her, isn't it obvious that she'll worry over him? But Mauli is worried about Kunal even after he cheated on her, it's just sad that they are belittling her feelings to justify KuNan

Originally posted by: mango_pudding1

well, isn't that how we would define fate in a way? that circumstances make our choices? since they have been doing this whole fate/divinity angle, maybe, it is just in line with that kind of writing. that things are happening beyond these two control...

but like you said, at some point, they need to take ownership. all we know of kunal is that he gets his head bumped a lot! :D

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

Two women are here, apparently makers are saying Mauli didn't love Kunal as much as Nandini loves him, Kunal is a trophy so the trophy won't take a stand, he won't choose one but they are putting down Mauli here, Mauli could have asked for divorce because kunal cheated on her but no, she is asking for a divorce because she realized that Nandini loves Kunal more than she loves him and since people won't accept Nandini, Mauli is being made a scapegoat to promote KuNan's love, Why would a wife think that some girl loves her husband more than she loves him and that is the reason she's filing divorce, not because he cheated on her?

The thing is that they could have shown KuNan falling for each other without a devine angle but they thought KuNan won't be accepted without interference of the God, now Mauli could have divorced Kunal like any other wife would but she files for divorce after seeing that Nandini loves Kunal, they are just fishing for acceptance from audience and who better than the wife to give them a green signal?


Anyway, the point about Mauli crying for Kunal, I didn't say why Mauli is crying? I meant that Nandini is crying for a man who left his family for her, isn't it obvious that she'll worry over him? But Mauli is worried about Kunal even after he cheated on her, it's just sad that they are belittling her feelings to justify KuNan