Is Mauli right in making decisions for Kunal?

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@pamk06

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Posted: 7 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: ..silverlotus..

I said that she may inform him about it in order to give a surprise. She is not yet pregnant. Why is there a limitation in showing love when it is not harming the person. Unless he is egoistic and thinks himself beyond a woman there is no problem in accepting a financial or any kind of help in his dream. And the dream is serving poor right. Every person can share such a dream of doing good to people. What is wrong in helping a good cause.

I do not think the point is of accepting finanacial help or something. If that was the case, he would not have allowed her to work. I think its a partnership and it should have been a mutual process. This was their dream and walking the path is as important as realizing it. She should have informed him as soon as she found the place. Anyways as i said, the clinic would be a turning point. Either Kunal would be so overwhelmed with emotions but it would be our of guilt or love, that we have to see.

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@pamk06

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Posted: 7 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: IDO20
I do not know about others but I do save money for my hubbys wish last year I build fund for his new car and gifted him I never asked him and he said you are the best wife here problem is Kunal has fallen for other woman bcz his integrity had a problem but people to justify him finding fault with the wife

Did you gift the fund or actually bought the car as a surprise? There is a big difference in those two things.

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1148967

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Posted: 7 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: pamk06

Did you gift the fund or actually bought the car as a surprise? There is a big difference in those two things.

nope whenever we buy something it is always both of us but I never told him I am building th money but even if I just get the keys it would have been fine bcz in marriage it is I or you it is us and we are a team kids also in so cases wife gets preggy n then tell hubby

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Anmol Jain

@intruderfast

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Posted: 7 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: IDO20
I do not know about others but I do save money for my hubbys wish last year I build fund for his new car and gifted him I never asked him and he said you are the best wife here problem is Kunal has fallen for other woman bcz his integrity had a problem but people to justify him finding fault with the wife

I applaud u dear. Ur husband is very lucky to have u. 😊👏

I would love to have a wife like Mauli. Kunal bevkoof hai. If I was at Kunal's place, would never think abt leaving her 4 a second. Mauli might have flaws but her gr8 positive things outweigh all the negative ones.

And if having extra concern and going extra mile for ur loved on nes is a negative trait😆, then srsly I have nothing to say..

Lagta hai maine positive or negative cheezon ki koi aur definitions paid hai🤣

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1148967

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Posted: 7 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: intruderfast

I applaud u dear. Ur husband is very lucky to have u.😊👏
I would love to have a wife like Mauli. Kunal bevkoof hai. If I was at Kunal's place, would never think abt leaving her 4 a second. Mauli might have flaws but her gr8 positive things outweigh all the negative ones.
And if having extra concern and going extra mile for ur loved on nes is a negative trait😆, then srsly I have nothing to say..
Lagta hai maine positive or negative cheezon ki koi aur definitions paid hai🤣

There is nothing new in it every spouse give surprises in different forms my cousin s husband wanted to go to Cardiff for study they did not have money she took a project and they went she did not disclose till she got the approval often I receive parcels as surprise gifts from husband and the feeling of doing the extra is a bliss and the joy of seeing the smile is priceless there is no ego in it what I feel

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Anmol Jain

@intruderfast

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Posted: 7 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: IDO20

There is nothing new in it every spouse give surprises in different forms my cousin s husband wanted to go to Cardiff for study they did not have money she took a project and they went she did not disclose till she got the approval often I receive parcels as surprise gifts from husband and the feeling of doing the extra is a bliss and the joy of seeing the smile is priceless there is no ego in it what I feel

Exactly and if men feel that their wives while going extra mile and giving surprises, they r kind of becoming dominating, then sorry it is a male chauvanist attitude to me.

Even men do it who really love their wife. Go to extra mile, support them in their career. We applaud these kind of men right. So I don't understand the problem if a wife does it too.

Edited by intruderfast - 7 years ago

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714873

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Posted: 7 years ago

#67

I saw the episode and even mauli admitted that she is bit dominating to kunal.

Edited by Pari117 - 7 years ago

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RM14

@RM14

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Posted: 7 years ago

#68

You raised valid points..👍🏼

Mauli is flawed too like Rajdeep ..Kunal and Nandini ..

but yes even without any third person in their life ..sooner or later even lil issues would have become big deals if she is keep doing this ..hiding things from Kunal ..ya she should have tell Kunal or giving hint about surgery and his clinic too..she should keep in mind Kunal's choice too..yeah..considering the kind of equation they share.

just my POV.

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Mishfan

@Mishfan

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Posted: 7 years ago

#69

I don't think there's one right / wrong answer to the question posed by TM

It all depends on the understanding & closeness between the couple

Infact I feel Mauli's not making making a decision for her husband.

She is laying the groundwork for his dream project. That's all.

It's up to Kunal to embrace it in a positive way & not out of guilt

And So far Kunal's not been shown as egoistic, so I don't see him getting

Angry or refusing to accept. I can visualize him being overwhelmed & guilt ridden

But I personally wholeheartedly applaud Mauli for going this extra mile, all because she

totally loves her husband. 👏

On the other issue , I understand it's a couple's joint decision

& preferred Mauli to discuss the surgery with Kunal.

At some point she did feel guilty of keeping it a secret, but went ahead with her MILs support.

Again, I feel the question of right / wrong in this matter is upto the couple in question.

If Kunal loves ??????? & understands his wife, this might not be that big of a deal.

& can understand if he's a little upset initially.

And, no Mauli is not perfect. I would say her biggest flaw is her " Complete Trust " in

the people that she loves & cares the most.

Although I love her for who she is. She is quite the ' Today's Woman ' in many aspects.

Edited by Mishfan - 7 years ago

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Rosh4rose

@Rosh4rose

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Posted: 7 years ago

#70

Now that "perfection " shifted to Mauli right or wrong let me think
...
There is no direct answer ...
See Mauli is wrong in her actions ...
She had blind trust in her husband , she thinks whatever she does will please him
Where as he wants her to cook and entertain him by dancing & beauty
She thinks her surprise gift ( his mom knows according to what i read ) will make him happy , in reality he has a bigger shock instore for her in different shapes ( hugs with her best friend in the form of true love )
Mauli actually digged grave for her marriage with Kunal by bringing her best buddy to the her home
Loving her husband unconditionally , showering him with gifts he doesn't deserve or want because it will called controlling .
So Kunal has all the freedom to cheat, lust and lash out at her .

But Mauli is right in my mind
There is no point in telling that so let it be

" poor man suffering under a lady
Who loves him beyond her life
Who trust him with her might
Fight through thin and thin
Brightens his house with her smile
Loving his brood as her own
Leaving her trust on him blindly "

Yaa poor fellow struggling to cover up his intention

Edited by Rosh4rose - 7 years ago

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