Is Mauli right in making decisions for Kunal? - Page 9

As far food is concerned I dont know what type of food kunal likes.

Originally posted by: sarah-99

Before analysing whether Mauli has the right to make a decision on behalf of Kunal or not. We need to illustrate that Mauli has been the one who wears the trousers in this relationship, Kunal was always passive and never made a decision in his relationship even if he is not happy with it. So why would we say that mauli is not giving any thought about Kunal's opinion since he never had one?

I know Mauli's fans will challenging me on this so let me list for you. 😉

(1) Kunal loves junk foods but Mauli does not allow him to eat it, (2) he yearns for alone time with her but she prioritise her career over his alone time. (3) Recently we learned that he wanted to be a father but Mauli wanted to secure her job and his job before moving on making family and have kids. (4) she scheduled Saturdays to be her alone time with her husband and Sunday time with family than she took weekend shifts to help him to open his clinic without discussing the matter with him. If this demonstrates something it shows that Mauli treats Kunal like a part of her property. There is a fine line that distinguishes between Rajdeep and Mauli which means that both sees their partners as part of their property.

The difference between Rajdeep and Mauli that she loves her husband and care for him but she forgetting that marriage does not only build with trust and respect but also its builds by understanding your partners and allow them to take full control in their personal matter where Mauli seem not to fully understand it.😆

Mauli is a control freak who married a passive person who never had a firm decision and impressionable so Mauli never had a problem with Kunal but now the table turned around which means Kunal personality will change due to his current situation.

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Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

Common you didn't get it
Mauli is actually worse than Rajdeep it aeems
She is a control freek, who contorls him with gifts
She is a "women handled " him by not cooking for him
She doesn't understand a woman must entertain hubby first , even if she is a doc , pilot or CEO
EMA will be officially considered as EMA when people end up on the bed
For me having thought of person other than life patner , and continuously staring , hugging all are EMA
But it was not so !
Mauli is a horrible , terrible lady and poor Kunal suffering and crushing under her power ...
Longing fot wife , life , love & food .. That is Kunal
Actually it was fun to read that Mauli and Rajdeep are same it seems
What to say !
So let it be !!!!!!

I think this jazbaat ki jalwa is not getting into the stomach so air keya Maro paththar kiwi air pe
Onida TVs had an ad throwing stones at neighbors television

In a married relationship one person has to take control by default if the other person is laidback and passive otherwise nothing will ever get done. Mauli is that person in the relationship because Kunal is shown to be a little immature . If Kunal was so oppressed and felt like Mauli was controlling everything and making all his life decisions then it didn't come across as such. Before Nandini came into the picture their life was portrayed as perfect and loving husband and wife who were happily married and were great friends and used to laugh and joke around all the time.

It is actually wrong to blame one partner in kunal maulis case for the trouble they facing right now, from the day serial started I observed her bossy nature it's not only for kunal but she is bossy by nature with everyone around her but don't like when someone try to disobey her decisions..We human born with some flaws and no one is perfect so is mauli but married life need adjustment from both sides.If both partner understand each other they will adjust for each other or it become burden when one person only adjust for other person.Here from day one I feel kunal need to sit and discuss with Mauli what he feel and want from her so is mauli.I didn't liked the part when kunal left the job mauli was not happy but instead of saying it to him she silently choosed to take another job which hurt kunals ego badly later. Kunal also habe so many small small problem with her job timings and bossy nature but instead of saying it to her he silently hide it with a fake smile..All you have to do sit and discuss till now what I observe in there relation they only share lovely dovy bonding with each other never try to sit and discuss about their problems together which lacks emotional bond between them..both of them are good human beings and respect each other a lot but they never communicate with each other about real problems and try to stay in a dream marriage facede which isn't possible in real word without facing reality..Now this 6yrs store up small small problem between them come up as big when you see what u exactly want to see in your life partner into someone else you start feeling attraction towards them even if you know it's wrong but it's hard to resist..but yes when you are in a healthy marriage you should understand what is right and what is wrong do according to it which kunal isn't doing..still it's not EMA bcs kunal is not cheating mauli in real and nandini also not ready to accept kunal in her life...my pov people can agree to disagree

What's wrong in helping your partner in fulfilling his dream? Whatever Mauli is doing...it's not so wrong that Kunal should cheat on her.

Originally posted by: Snow_Angel

It is actually wrong to blame one partner in kunal maulis case for the trouble they facing right now, from the day serial started I observed her bossy nature it's not only for kunal but she is bossy by nature with everyone around her but don't like when someone try to disobey her decisions..We human born with some flaws and no one is perfect so is mauli but married life need adjustment from both sides.If both partner understand each other they will adjust for each other or it become burden when one person only adjust for other person.Here from day one I feel kunal need to sit and discuss with Mauli what he feel and want from her so is mauli.I didn't liked the part when kunal left the job mauli was not happy but instead of saying it to him she silently choosed to take another job which hurt kunals ego badly later. Kunal also habe so many small small problem with her job timings and bossy nature but instead of saying it to her he silently hide it with a fake smile..All you have to do sit and discuss till now what I observe in there relation they only share lovely dovy bonding with each other never try to sit and discuss about their problems together which lacks emotional bond between them..both of them are good human beings and respect each other a lot but they never communicate with each other about real problems and try to stay in a dream marriage facede which isn't possible in real word without facing reality..Now this 6yrs store up small small problem between them come up as big when you see what u exactly want to see in your life partner into someone else you start feeling attraction towards them even if you know it's wrong but it's hard to resist..but yes when you are in a healthy marriage you should understand what is right and what is wrong do according to it which kunal isn't doing..still it's not EMA bcs kunal is not cheating mauli in real and nandini also not ready to accept kunal in her life...my pov people can agree to disagree

Either the wife will take decisions or the husband , and whoever takes the decision will be judged . So whether or not mauli took the right decision is subjective ..I am of the opinion that there is nothing wrong in it, she is doing it out of love and we do cross our boundaries when in love , what else does " union of two souls mean?"parents take decisions for their children, husband does it for his family and wife takes it for her family... maulis mom criticised her a lot of times in the past for her decisions, she may be wrong a lot of times...She was never shown as a perfect wife or daughter . This is not one of those life changing decisions which she is taking on behalf of kunal with a bad intention . About the child, they planned their life and careers that way "mutually", what's the problem in having a baby anyways? Will it shake the foundation of their marriage? If kunal doesn't want the baby, when mauli surprises him with the news, she can get the baby aborted ?

Originally posted by: _charu_

Either the wife will take decisions or the husband , and whoever takes the decision will be judged . So whether or not mauli took the right decision is subjective ..I am of the opinion that there is nothing wrong in it, she is doing it out of love and we do cross our boundaries when in love , what else does " union of two souls mean?"parents take decisions for their children, husband does it for his family and wife takes it for her family... maulis mom criticised her a lot of times in the past for her decisions, she may be wrong a lot of times...She was never shown as a perfect wife or daughter . This is not one of those life changing decisions which she is taking on behalf of kunal with a bad intention . About the child, they planned their life and careers that way "mutually", what's the problem in having a baby anyways? Will it shake the foundation of their marriage? If kunal doesn't want the baby, when mauli surprises him with the news, she can get the baby aborted ?

Everyone works by their own conditioning and judgement of things. Now if kunal had a problem with it, we can say that mauli faultered. And if kunal has a problem with it "now" that he is falling out of love with mauli, it's something very different .

They are married couple , Kunal wanted children
It was Mauli who wanted to wait because of professional ambitions
It is not like she is cheating Kunal!!!!
Little do she know that Kunal's love for her is changed or he is lost in her best buddy

Mauli shouldn't have taken other lady home
Shouldn't have asked hubby to help her !
One must give total dedication to marriage, if so no beauty , dance or cooking will infactuate that person

I am not talking about Indian case
See Princess Diana still rules people's heart because she was a victim of her husband & soul mate
Have to face it ,
It is what they get ...
Other woman always get that title
Want to justfy is another reason

When we point one finger at Mauli other four fingers turn opposite