Is Mauli right in making decisions for Kunal? - Page 5

Originally posted by: iota

I will just agree to disagree with you because I don't think Mauli should design her husband's dream or decide to have a baby alone. I am a wife and a mother, so I can confidently say that even the smallest scare within a few seconds is good enough for changing your mind about having a baby, because it is a life-altering decision. As for helping Nandini out, everything happened with her knowledge and cooperation, unlike Mauli designing Kunal's dream clinic for him without him contributing or knowing about it. And the example about the government doing something is not at all relevant in this context. The government is doing exactly what is expected out of it...for example, Kunal is expected to be faithful to his wife. But Mauli isn't expected to fulfil Kunal's dream. It's a different thing to gift your spouse a book they love, but laying the base of something that's linked to their individuality and purpose of existence..something they have dreamt to build from scratch for their own self, is taking it a bit too far, in my opinion.

Originally posted by: DracarysTrio

Dear, you simply didn't read my post

Mauli didn't decide the baby thing, Kunal never had an objection to it, I remember in first few episodes Mauli was against having baby and Kunal was shown very much eager to have kids, then even a few episodes ago Kunal didn't say he doesn't want kids, he said Pahle career then family, so for Mauli the only obstacle in starting a family was Mauli herself, Kunal always wanted kids, Mauli has no idea about Kunal's new found feelings, Mauli is not deceiving Kunal by getting pregnant that would have been wrong, removing contraception is not such a big deal when both partners are ready to be parents, this is standalone observation of Kunal and Mauli's relationship.

Kunal's dream isn't a clinic and as a wife Mauli has the right to gift him a clinic, she's not taking control over his dreams because his dream is treating patients not building a clinic

Originally posted by: Jiggy7

Ithink I can understand what Mauli is doing. Don't we encourage it when ML helps FL achieve her dreams... Like support her financially if she wants to study...Won't we love it if our ML gifts his gf/wife her dream clinic or is it considered as intrusion into one's private space?? Dont know the POV of others but I feel its a well-intentioned and excellent gift that further showcases mauli's dedication to her husband...People gift clothes, shoes, holiday packages that give momentary happiness but Mauli is gifting kunal a base for his dream which would give him happiness throughout his life whether or not they stay together in future... I would really appreciate if my life partner does this for me... ❤️

Coming to the next point u raised, whether mauli should ask her husband before she removes her contraceptive, well kunal till now has never shown any abhorance to have a kid... Rather has always been potrayed as someone who would love to be a father... Even when mauli last time asked him about this, he said kids after clinic...Even when his mother pesters him for kids, no where he says that he doesn't want to have kids... so again I think its a very positive step from mauli's side...

Originally posted by: abhiya_12

But when did she decided to have baby alone, she clearly said Kunal was always ready and she don't have any idea about Kunal's emotions. And Kunal never said he wasn't ready by her words it's almost clear he was always ready for this phase. It would be wrong if both weren't ready and mauli went ahead deciding alone remove Kunal's emotions for Nandini from the picture and see wouldn't Kunal loved this surprise from his wife if he hadn't had a change of heart.

And coming to fulfilling Kunal's dream again Kunal have a idea of Mauli involving in his dream if he had/have problem with that he should have said or even tell it now but Kunal never showed any kind of getting annoyed/suffocated by her care/love anything to call it as a flaw or she dominating Kunal.

For me her biggest flaw is her trying to make Nandini/Kunal comfortable with each other in the same way she is with them which annoys me like hell because one should know you can't make your husband behave in a same comfort he is with you or make your best friend talk with your husband as a close friend.

Originally posted by: TheMockingBird

Does it matter mauli is perfect wife becoz i think nobody is perfect.Here Mauli can't be held responsible 4 kunal's feeling nowhere it's shown that kunal had problem with mauli's nature or her taking control of his life as you are saying(i don't agree with your point that mauli is someway trying to control kunal's life).Problem here is kunal's feelings .He can't control himself and his harmones after he saw nandini dancing in the rain .And it has nothing to do with mauli's nature.I never stopped ppl from shipping kunal and never questioned them becoz it's their life and choice and one can't question them about it.But one should not try to justify the kunal amd nandini by giving illogical reasons.U like them go head praise them and ship them who cares but don't question other if they don't like them.When i see some post supporting mauli it get closed in few hours reason is obvious becoz it's not played by famous name and ppl here are not able to differentiate bw real and reel.Coming to TM post ur debate whether mauli is perfect wife or not is baseless and useless as chalo man lo mauli is not perfect wife but she is good frnd with nandini and hv done so much for nandu still nandu is having feelings for kunal ab isme bhi mauli ka kasoor ha.Come on nandini still has concience but Kunal is jerk who don't need reason to cheat his wife .Ppl like kunal are present in real too but don't make them heroes.These kind of ppl can't love anybody .They are spineless ppl who are never satisfied by one woman in their life.

Originally posted by: TheMockingBird

Does it matter mauli is perfect wife becoz i think nobody is perfect.Here Mauli can't be held responsible 4 kunal's feeling nowhere it's shown that kunal had problem with mauli's nature or her taking control of his life as you are saying(i don't agree with your point that mauli is someway trying to control kunal's life).Problem here is kunal's feelings .He can't control himself and his harmones after he saw nandini dancing in the rain .And it has nothing to do with mauli's nature.I never stopped ppl from shipping kunal and never questioned them becoz it's their life and choice and one can't question them about it.But one should not try to justify the kunal amd nandini by giving illogical reasons.U like them go head praise them and ship them who cares but don't question other if they don't like them.When i see some post supporting mauli it get closed in few hours reason is obvious becoz it's not played by famous name and ppl here are not able to differentiate bw real and reel.Coming to TM post ur debate whether mauli is perfect wife or not is baseless and useless as chalo man lo mauli is not perfect wife but she is good frnd with nandini and hv done so much for nandu still nandu is having feelings for kunal ab isme bhi mauli ka kasoor ha.Come on nandini still has concience but Kunal is jerk who don't need reason to cheat his wife .Ppl like kunal are present in real too but don't make them heroes.These kind of ppl can't love anybody .They are spineless ppl who are never satisfied by one woman in their life.

Originally posted by: Arnav90

Kunal and Nandini both are resisting there feelings, I wont justify it by saying that its not wrong or its not cheating with Mauli

But like u cant blame Mauli for bringing them close u cant blame Nandini and Kunal too , You are saying as if they both come up these feelings intentionally just to hurt Mauli

No theu didnt it just happened to them they realised it later, Kunal already had curiosity abt Mauli Best frnd from start and he had sympathy for Nandini, When he realised Nandini is the frnd he got more involved in sorting out her life credit Mauli

Kunal is very emotional kind of a person he is not pratical unlike Mauli, He gets more involved in emotions, Nandini too is very emotional kind of person thats why he got attracted to her, There nature is pretty much similar