Ugly truth of girl/ women / society - Page 2

I have seen these thing with my own eyes. My first cousin hit his wife because she speak with other man. She told this to her mother in law she told her. it's her fault, she shouldn't have done that. He is possessive man. He had past. His girlfriend leave him and marry someone else so he thinks that she will leave him too. I mean like really, Uski girlfriend ne usko choda tho woh apne biwi se yese behave karga? and kitni asani se bol diya ke she got hit because it's her fault. She don't have mother and father. She used to live with her aunt. She can't leave him and went back to her aunt as she choose him over her immediate family. She marry him without the permission. She go admission to the college (She get married to him after 10th only) jaha uske man pasand subject bhi nahi tha. She protest tho usko bola gya she need to be greatful ke shaadi ke baad bhi usko agg studies karne de rahe hai and usko sirf +2 tak padne ke permission hai kyu ki uske husband ki qualification +2 tak hi hai. Woh nahi chalta uski wife use jyaada pade, usko lagta hai yesa hua tho woh usko chod ke chali jayegi🥱She told me Mere ko itna gussa aaya na samne hota tho punch kar deti usko. I am not so close with him and abhi tho bhai bolne ka bhi man nahi karta. I am really scare to became like her yaar. tabhi shaadi ke naam se bhi dar lagta hai. ek galat partner and life ki yesi ki tesi. Bolna ashan hota hai she should have done this and that but kisi support ke bina yeh sab karna muskhil. My little brother told me that agar yesa kuch hua tho sida mere pass aana, uska pair tood dega. Chota bhai hai but uske itna bolne par bhi I felt really glad. Agar mere shaat yesa kuch hua tho meri family hai mere support ke liye.

Originally posted by: Keepdreaming

Somehow Nandini's case is not difficult because she knows that what's happening with her is wrong, she has understanding that marrying Rajveer was a mistake, so there's no difficulty of detachment, if Rajveer files for divorce, Nandini will get alimony and if he doesn't she should get him arrested for domestic violence, these laws are mostly in favor of women and there are various NGOs to help women financially, Nandini is a good cook, she can start her catering business or a restaurant or work in a restaurant so she can secure herself financially...
Again you are all alone for years with beautiful outfit...( gabar) I think when someone keep telling us ' you are nothing ' we start believing it and sadly Nandini believes it
She believes she can't do anything without so called husband support.. because of years torture I guess her rational brain too stop working and it's logical too
this girl doesn't even know how to go to home ( as first episode) how can we expect her to think those way ..
as you said rich people get away with those charges easily I'm sure raj will too so again she has no hope ( she knows it I guess )
and most idiotic sentiment of us .. people will change , this will work she believes those too...
for me yes she is most toughest situation like many in our society

No, please don't take it in a wrong sense...

I clearly mentioned why I think her case is not as difficult in comparison to women who think that their husband is beating them because they love them, Nandini knows that this guy is a monster, she is not a submissive woman, she is not meek, she has made various attempts to protest against Rajveer, like when she protested in hotel when he asked her to leave the room, she has this strength in her, it'll take a push to bring her inner strength out, and I don't think any external factor is required, I feel she'll punish this jerk for her baby...I know the process is gradual, she won't just forget years of torture or get out of the wall this man has built around her, but its a wish from my side to see her taking the first step, it shouldn't be earth shattering, one slap would do wonders for me...

oh poor girl ... its common yaar girls are so emotional and for this sometimes take wrong step , even my close friend faced this

Bolna ashan hota hai she should have done this and that but kisi support ke bina yeh sab karna muskhil. My little brother told me that agar yesa kuch hua tho sida mere pass aana, uska pair tood dega. Chota bhai hai but uske itna bolne par bhi I felt really glad. Agar mere shaat

sahi bolna bohot asan hai but it's hard to do , and it's not sin to take anyone's support. After all we are human , humanity is the biggest job although we use it only in books n movies
wow you are lucky nisha ... all the best for your future In Sha Allah you will get sweetest partner just like you

Originally posted by: Keepdreaming

oh poor girl ... its common yaar girls are so emotional and for this sometimes take wrong step , even my close friend faced this

Bolna ashan hota hai she should have done this and that but kisi support ke bina yeh sab karna muskhil. My little brother told me that agar yesa kuch hua tho sida mere pass aana, uska pair tood dega. Chota bhai hai but uske itna bolne par bhi I felt really glad. Agar mere shaat

sahi bolna bohot asan hai but it's hard to do , and it's not sin to take anyone's support. After all we are human , humanity is the biggest job although we use it only in books n movies
wow you are lucky nisha ... all the best for your future In Sha Allah you will get sweetest partner just like you

I clearly mentioned why I think her case is not as difficult in comparison to women who think that their husband is beating them because they love them, Nandini knows that this guy is a monster, she is not a submissive woman, she is not meek, she has made various attempts to protest against Rajveer, like when she protested in hotel when he asked her to leave the room, she has this strength in her, it'll take a push to bring her inner strength out, and I don't think any external factor is required, I feel she'll punish this jerk for her baby...I know the process is gradual, she won't just forget years of torture or get out of the wall this man has built around her, but its a wish from my side to see her taking the first step, it shouldn't be earth shattering, one slap would do wonders for me...

exactly dear she has every strength in her ...even she pushed him when he tried to get intimate with her but not always that's the sad thing
Her inner self sometime protest but again her scared alone submissive self give in more often
and I believe we learn what we saw our surroundings...she is a beautiful doll she attends so called party with wicked people, nothing to learn to. Her mind gave her answer already - you can't do anything without your patiparmeshwar ... this thing need to change first and I guess her baby will give her this strength and she will speak up

one more thing I think your wish will fulfill May be i saw a article about her slapping rajbeer as he will sell her ( not sure But hope so )

Originally posted by: HeartBeat321

I really hope yaar abhi tho mom dad shaadi ke baat bhi karte hai tho mujhe dar lagta hai, Itne saare adjustment and sacrifices ke baat bhi yesa partner mile tho. Pyaar ho na ho but i want him to respect first. Ek relationship me respect bahut important hota hai and equally treat karna bhi.

+1 don't laugh but tumne phirse meri dil ki baat bol di yaar ... I don't want to think of my situation now 🥱

Originally posted by: Keepdreaming

+1 don't laugh but tumne phirse meri dil ki baat bol di yaar ... I don't want to think of my situation now 🥱

Originally posted by: HeartBeat321

Yeh baat se mostly saari ladkiya relate karegi

sahi mein nisha

Beautiful and much needed post sabi👏.

Originally posted by: _Nightmare_

Beautiful and much needed post sabi👏.

As a spectator it is very easy to judge and make opinions about other ladies, but it is impossible to even imagine the pain that they have to endure.

actually it's easy to say , I don't relate to those things but sadly these things happening ... i ,you ,we are just lucky