Is nimmi perfect as mom - Page 2

Originally posted by: Hybrid_Freak

Agreed

Originally posted by: Reenatyzed

you are totally right

nimmi is ignoring surbhi due to soumya

but she loves both of them thats why she realized her mistake and she was behaving very sweetly with surbhi when she was convincing her to go to school with her

no body is perfect nor nimmi is

this makes her character more realistic

Originally posted by: Ruthless.Slayer

Totally agree, she is failing as a mother

Originally posted by: iPerfection

Indeed. She is not equally treating her children.

But I can't blame her either. She is extremely completely and emotionally attached to Soumya. It's very hard for a mom to treat both children equally since one of them has shit life and needs sympathy all the time. Surbhi needs love attention and care just like Soumya. In this tough time her bloody husband need to take care of them especially Surbhi..instead he is seperating them (lakheer shit) trying to poison her mind. Obviously Nimmi is all alone in this situation it's not easy for her to pay attention to both equally. There come situations where she has to choose between Surbhi and Soumya all the time... since she is emotionally attached to Soumya she will pick her unintentionally.

When they become adults Surbhi is gonna hate her mom and will be jealous of Soumya. I wish Nimmi and the kids left the bloody house only then she would have been able to take care of both children equally.

Originally posted by: Sweet_Desires

Agreed to some extent but if you see that soumya had a kind of disability and mothers tend to give more attention to children who are not normal. Happens in real life also..you can see cases where other is neglected because of sibling's disability. It was a normal for Nimmi too.

Originally posted by: Katori

Nimmi is not a perfect mom but she is more human than other characters on the show.

In general I hate the idea of "perfect mom" or "perfect dad". No parent or person is ever perfect. Most parents do their best for their kids in their given circumstances. Similarly Nimmi is doing her best. She loves both her daughter but one requires not just love but protection as well. She only has so much capacity to simultaneously fighting her husband/MIL, protecting Soumya, and taking care of the kids.

I don't blame her for not being able to pay enough attention to Surbhi. I blame for her continuing to stay in the house with these callous people and continuously putting her daughter at risk. Soumya did not want to leave, but it was in her best interest. Nimmi, as a mother, needed to take the tough decision of giving tears and pain to Soumya temporarily for a peaceful life in long term.

Originally posted by: zubeada

shesnt perfect mother but loving her children

shes wrong with surbhi but i can understand her

Originally posted by: ashna26

No one is perfect! She made some mistakes but i understand her actions. She loves both of her childeren a lot!