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Posted: 9 years ago
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Just for character discussion no offence to reena ji she's superb in her characterisation
Don't you think nimmi is doing a lil Injustice with our cute lil survi mai janti hoon ki she is under lots of stress for Soumya bt still survi vi uski beti hai iss Samu ki problem ki chakkar mein wo survi ko thoda sa ignore to kar rahi hai I felt really sad for survi when she was coming down the stairs with her trophy looking at her mother nimmi ka dhyaan hi nahi tha wo sirf aur sirf Soumya ko hi dekh rahi thi bechari survi akeli khadi dekhti rahi aur isi baat ki galat fayda uthaya Bebe ne aur ghar me vi bachchi kab se roti roti chilla rahi thi par nimmi ka Pura concentration darwaza pe tha ab manindar to tha hi partial nimmi vi dono bachchion ke saath barabar payr nehi baant saki even wo kheer vi Soumya ko hi khilaya jab ki survi vi kafi der se bhookhi thi khana mang rahi thi aaj jo vi incident hoga usske lie kahi na kahi nimmi vi jimmedar hai Bebe aur manindar ke saath agar survi negative hui to iss, ke lie halat manindar aur Bebe ke saath nimmi ka vi galti hai
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Posted: 9 years ago
#2
you are totally right
nimmi is ignoring surbhi due to soumya
but she loves both of them thats why she realized her mistake and she was behaving very sweetly with surbhi when she was convincing her to go to school with her
no body is perfect nor nimmi is
this makes her character more realistic
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Totally agree, she is failing as a mother
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Indeed. She is not equally treating her children.
But I can't blame her either. She is extremely completely and emotionally attached to Soumya. It's very hard for a mom to treat both children equally since one of them has shit life and needs sympathy all the time. Surbhi needs love attention and care just like Soumya. In this tough time her bloody husband need to take care of them especially Surbhi..instead he is seperating them (lakheer shit) trying to poison her mind. Obviously Nimmi is all alone in this situation it's not easy for her to pay attention to both equally. There come situations where she has to choose between Surbhi and Soumya all the time... since she is emotionally attached to Soumya she will pick her unintentionally.
When they become adults Surbhi is gonna hate her mom and will be jealous of Soumya. I wish Nimmi and the kids left the bloody house only then she would have been able to take care of both children equally.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Agreed...she is not good mother to survi
she is treating survi like a step mother
Don't know what's the matter with her...
Ek ko itna pyar aur dusre ki bilkul parvah nhi
Lagta hi nhi survi nimmi ki hi beti hai

Its good that she treats Soumya especially but kal kuch jyada hi ho gya...

Edited by alka2212 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Agreed to some extent but if you see that soumya had a kind of disability and mothers tend to give more attention to children who are not normal. Happens in real life also..you can see cases where other is neglected because of sibling's disability. It was a normal for Nimmi too.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nimmi is not a perfect mom but she is more human than other characters on the show.
In general I hate the idea of "perfect mom" or "perfect dad". No parent or person is ever perfect. Most parents do their best for their kids in their given circumstances. Similarly Nimmi is doing her best. She loves both her daughter but one requires not just love but protection as well. She only has so much capacity to simultaneously fighting her husband/MIL, protecting Soumya, and taking care of the kids.

I don't blame her for not being able to pay enough attention to Surbhi. I blame for her continuing to stay in the house with these callous people and continuously putting her daughter at risk. Soumya did not want to leave, but it was in her best interest. Nimmi, as a mother, needed to take the tough decision of giving tears and pain to Soumya temporarily for a peaceful life in long term.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sweet_Desires

Agreed to some extent but if you see that soumya had a kind of disability and mothers tend to give more attention to children who are not normal. Happens in real life also..you can see cases where other is neglected because of sibling's disability. It was a normal for Nimmi too.

It happens in most families, even when kids don't have disabilities -- unequal love/attention among siblings.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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shesnt perfect mother but loving her children
shes wrong with surbhi but i can understand her
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Posted: 9 years ago
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No one is perfect! She made some mistakes but i understand her actions. She loves both of her childeren a lot!

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