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Posted: 11 years ago
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Jes, let me give an example. When Kumud married Pramad, did her or Saras ever show any signs of physical attraction? Did they ever cross that line? Never! Because they respected the sanctity of marriage even if Pramad wasn't worth it.

On the other hand, Kusum who has seen the pain & pining of both Saras and Kumud, let's Saras tie that kamarbandh around her and gives expressions of ecstasy. How pure is that love? She even turns around to give a smile to suggest that she enjoyed it.

Very very unsettling. Falling in love with your siblings ex can happen but are Saras and Kumud ex-lovers? Can they ever be?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Jes, let me give an example. When Kumud married Pramad, did her or Saras ever show any signs of physical attraction? Did they ever cross that line? Never! Because they respected the sanctity of marriage even if Pramad wasn't worth it.

On the other hand, Kusum who has seen the pain & pining of both Saras and Kumud, let's Saras tie that kamarbandh around her and gives expressions of ecstasy. How pure is that love? She even turns around to give a smile to suggest that she enjoyed it.

Very very unsettling. Falling in love with your siblings ex can happen but are Saras and Kumud ex-lovers? Can they ever be?

P.S I love discussions too :))


i agree they were in limits as she was married..but still there were some hesitation poping in time to time,many time they become unsettled & many hesitating moments occurred too ... at the same time Kumud was happy to have Saras near her,coz she feel protected .. now this is also love na .. she knew she may never enjoy any moment with Saras still she felt secured with him .. ! the feeling of Saras & his touch too was with her always! 😊

well i do not know why u people say that this is something cheap .. coz honestly if any guy wld touch me,even if my brother i will feel something .. this is how nature goes .. if i m a woman any man wld effect me(like many fathers rape their child???) .. so why this feeling being bashed here ?? .. of course she enjoyed it! coz she loves him & kwnoing all about his realtion with her sis,she still wld look for a reply in terms of emotions & actions .. like the way Kumd wanted to feel secure having him even if being married to another man .. both r admirers & lovers of Saras??? .. if this is not fair,then how come SaMud consummation was pure before marriage .. AS we r not thinking about emotions here .. we r thinking about sheer rules & customs made by us that a girl can't fall for a man who has been involved with her sis & maybe still is.. like there always have been criterias for woman,how to fall,for whom to fall & so on! ..

If we can love someone knowing he is not in love with us then why not this case??? haven't we seen many ppl loving someone who would never love them back???& why they wld never love them back,let me tell u bcoz those person have other love interest & can't love the particular ones .. so why it is all bad for Kusum???

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Before we even go divulging in kusum and saras being a Jodi lets just keep one thing in mind and remember this...this show is called saraswatichandra only by name. It bears no resemblence at all to the book or the film.

If it had done so, kumud would not be back at her parents house.

So keeping this in mind it is totally justifiable for fans to not accept saras and kusum. This show is about saras and kumud.period.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Jes, but Saras and Kumud only had an emotional pull. Maybe it's the way the scenes were written. They were very pure from what I saw.

I can't view Kusum's feelings as pure anymore because if I put the scenario in real life terms, I feel disgusted and nothing else.

I don't find sexual attraction impure, it's only natural but my problem is that she should not call herself Meera and put herself on that high a pedestal. I didn't see any regret on her face as Kumud's sister.

You know when you just feel it's wrong in your heart. I think that's how most of us feel about it.

Happy Diwali everyone :)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Jes, but Saras and Kumud only had an emotional pull. Maybe it's the way the scenes were written. They were very pure from what I saw.

I can't view Kusum's feelings as pure anymore because if I put the scenario in real life terms, I feel disgusted and nothing else.

I don't find sexual attraction impure, it's only natural but my problem is that she should not call herself Meera and put herself on that high a pedestal. I didn't see any regret on her face as Kumud's sister.

You know when you just feel it's wrong in your heart. I think that's how most of us feel about it.

Happy Diwali everyone :)


exactly what i thought bcoz u have accepted SaMud as the ultimate mates .. which i honestly respect! 😊

yep she is not feeling guilty or disgusted .. i mean why she??? coz she has done nothing bad ... loving someone is never impure or disgusting ... she is not running after him or trying to seduce him , then why she wld feel guilty??? And,Meera also was ntohing but a devotee .. she just worshiped an idol kwnoing how high bars were set by Radha-Krishna!!!! ..then Meera herself didn't deserve the respect she got .. ??? it is about POVs actually .. Kusum in real sense did nothing exccpt admiring him silently .. & even if anyone says this is not bad at all & she would not feel guilty for this in any case .. like her sis only has emotions & she doesn't??? Kumud herself wanted to start a life with Pramad & now she is again up for Saras .. but Kusum just wanting to admire Saras is disgusting? i do not feel the same way .. she also has emotions & they are justified in their places .. 😊

yep most of us here feeling only for Kumud is coz they never wanted to relate with Kusum & that doesn't make Kusum bad 😊

Happy Diwali to you too & to everyone 🤗
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Vee<3.
1st of all samud named something has no meaning to me frm when "Mud" intentionally butchered her character matured to despo..therefore, how much she tries to show herself as goody goody as like as prior now but she wl remain always to me despo..n samud's chemistry became decaying after that so called pms's fiasco..n now this is quite void..hence, i apprehend saras's chemistry wl b hundred times better with anyone gal except kumud in show..if it is kusum/kumari/ some one else.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: veera25




Even the film was made to send a message across to SOCIETY. Although Gandharva Vivah had heavy significance even in the show, it isn't considered socially acceptable, which in the end of the film, stayed true because socially speaking, SaMud could never unite. What does that mean? Society doesn't care about whatever these two may share, it only, realistically, cares about what is socially acceptable. I'm not saying I agree with what society says, because I also believe in love. But whatever Kusum feels, she feels. And I can't weigh that as insignificant for the SaMud jodi. That's like saying Chandramukhi should stay out of Paaro and Devdas' saga... uh no, She was the one who was there for Deva when Paaro couldn't be.

In other shows, there's this concept called shipping. That even if there's a suggestion that two people could get together, you can "ship" them together, or want them together.
Just like some people wanted Kalika and Pramad together, others would like to see Saras and Kusum together... I could ask the same question for Kalika and Pramad, too. What really suggested that what Pramad felt for Kalika was love? Was it one sided? Was it give and take? What was it? People still loved the concept of them coming together, too. So why is this any different?

Infatuation or not, as a character with heavy importance in the novels, it'd be so awesome if there wasn't so much hate for her as there was for Pramad. She's a grey character. Let's stop making this a black and white situation because it's not.

Thanks for your input! 😊


i totlally agree with you , and even i like kusum - and definately don't hate her, she is sweet and love is a mistake which happens with every one it is just not her fault ! kusum saras do look good but samud is the best !!!! in todays day widow remarriage is supported right !?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: lakhy

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Feels so good to be back to forum after a long break and I am glad ur a rockerz Vee..Congo..👏

I haven't watched a few episodes (just for 2 months) 😃 but I can see to what extent the story line has reached and what is going on in the forum..

SAMUD: Of course, was my fav jodi...but now since Kumud is married, it shud be PRAMUD ...rite ? or EX-SAMUD ?

If it was a temporary breakup between kumud and saras...agreed...there can be a chance of them together...but now that Kumud is married and is now making all attempts to settle down 😆I am not interested in SAMUD anymore...

Ex-boyfriend, Ex-saali, Ex-jiju...and as long as Prammy is not Kumud's ex-husband ***officially****...I think we can go for SASUM...

Kusum has all rights to fall in love with Saras...and viceversa..

Kumud should move on with Prammy...and let Saras also to move on...


kumud divorced pramad, and she is right in her decision, so yes samud have a chance.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Jes...


i agree they were in limits as she was married..but still there were some hesitation poping in time to time,many time they become unsettled & many hesitating moments occurred too ... at the same time Kumud was happy to have Saras near her,coz she feel protected .. now this is also love na .. she knew she may never enjoy any moment with Saras still she felt secured with him .. ! the feeling of Saras & his touch too was with her always! 😊

well i do not know why u people say that this is something cheap .. coz honestly if any guy wld touch me,even if my brother i will feel something .. this is how nature goes .. if i m a woman any man wld effect me(like many fathers rape their child???) .. so why this feeling being bashed here ?? .. of course she enjoyed it! coz she loves him & kwnoing all about his realtion with her sis,she still wld look for a reply in terms of emotions & actions .. like the way Kumd wanted to feel secure having him even if being married to another man .. both r admirers & lovers of Saras??? .. if this is not fair,then how come SaMud consummation was pure before marriage .. AS we r not thinking about emotions here .. we r thinking about sheer rules & customs made by us that a girl can't fall for a man who has been involved with her sis & maybe still is.. like there always have been criterias for woman,how to fall,for whom to fall & so on! ..

If we can love someone knowing he is not in love with us then why not this case??? haven't we seen many ppl loving someone who would never love them back???& why they wld never love them back,let me tell u bcoz those person have other love interest & can't love the particular ones .. so why it is all bad for Kusum???



So are you saying that a father raping their daughter means that the daughter enjoyed it cos she was touched? Seriously I am shocked if that is what you are implying. Not evryone's mind works in an incest way. That's pure sin n nothing else.

If my brother or even if My brother in law hugs me it doesn't mean I start feeling lust towards h. That is twisted no matter how you look at it.

It's how animals think n behave not humans.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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all i want to say is we r ready to support sasum if only we all give equal respect to samud ...which many of us dont do

samud is soul of the show and sasum is new track top support it.just the way it was pramud

as for film.well film never did well in theaters bcoz of its end .coz of its end..it got critical acclaim coz of Nootan the Kumud for her acting ofcource the song and direction

if u really want all to love kusum first learn to love kumud and respect her


we all r here for SC and SC is nothing without Saras and Kumud

as for novel , its no more on the novel...coz if it were .kusum would have had come in end only , just to marry ...and not be butchered the wat she is being by cvs

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