Crisp Bytes SC - 30th May - Page 2

Originally posted by: Lotusfan

Thank you. Have not watched the episode yet. i always look forward to reading your analysis of the episode and as always BRILLIANT

Arshiji,

Originally posted by: P020167

ok, Today I am going to be the first one...I am in totally bashing mood after watching this "Paap" episode.

Mardon ko moh ka shrap hai

Aurat ko maryada ka vardan

Seriously...since when...may be since women started thinking this way.

I loved Saras today...he is in love with his soul mate...he didnt do anything wrong...they both have no dooriya now...Loved this.

Kumud, please I am totally disappointed. You are crying like he Ra*** you. If you were so much into "Maryada" why did you remove 4 kadam dooriya. You should have kept it...where did "Maryada" go when he kissed your hands.

I didn't like today's episode...just because the way Kumud reacted. I understand if their love is not known to everyone and they con***, I can understand the guilt. Except marriage functaion...they were already oen for each other...even Dugba said it too...Kumud you shouldn't have called it "paap".

Over all rating 5/10

For Kumud: 2/10 (2 is for emoting "paap" expression very well)

For Saras only: 10/10

I am still mad ):

The overall sense of "ulloo"ness is quite high.

Originally posted by: Jammy-

@arshicritic- what I don't get is that if she upholds the values taught to her so much she wouldn't have given in into those feelings. No matter how much carried away you get.. you always can stop it... you can always say NO.

I understand that for her its a huge deal but there are better ways to deal with it... discuss it with Saras.. let him comfort you rather than acting like he fking raped her! not done... its not fair to Saras.

Arshi loved your shaayari "Nadi ke do kinare hum, hamare beech nirmal jal". How do you write so nicely? Their act was pure if we think from the point of love but where society is concerned it is a sin. "Men are cursed with seeking pleasure, women are given the duty to uphold morality" - I am with you Arshi, SLB take a bow. However the times change, however forward we have come a girl has always been brought up with these moral values and she is cursing herself for crossing the border. It is not because she doesn't trust him but because as per her she has sinned. I have read many people asking how can she react to him like that, I felt seeing him makes her remember the moment and realise what they have done. She is actually cursing herself not him for what happened. A very sad state indeed.

Originally posted by: arshicritic

Mardon ko moh ka shrap hai

Aurat ko maryada ka vardan

We live in conflicting times

There are some issues and dilemmas we face when

The lines between right and wrong are sometimes blurred

What feels right to our heart is right,

and if we cannot look at ourselves in the mirror , then what we did is not right

For some the purity of intention is how they judge their actions

Others, judge themselves by the righteousness of their actions

This was exactly what happened with our Saras and Kumud

What happened between them

IMO, was not a sin,

A transgression of rules set by society, yes,

but a sin? No.

Saras loves Kumud

What happened between them

Was a natural consequence of this love

These moments were precious and beautiful

And he will always treasure them

Spiritually they are married

And for him that made it right!

Kumud loves Saras

But she has a strong sense of moral duty

Of social right and wrong

Her upbringing has taught her that crossing the lakshman rekha is a sin

She gave in to her feelings last night

Now she is consumed with guilt

I loved the episode

The conflict, the pain of Saras, the shame of Kumud

The distance created because they came so close

Today I felt immense respect for Mr Saraswatichnadra, the man

If the joy of shared moments was his

Then he will take the pain of its consequence also

If Kumud was with him in pleasure

Then he will be with her in penance too👏

Smrth the key is in the line - men are cursed with seeking pleasure, women are given the duty to uphold morality

It is so deeply ingrained in a girl's psyche that pre marital sex is a sin, that it is hard to come to terms with it

She is pushing away the very feeling that caused her to lose control, she should have known better she feels

Now if we connect some more dots, social approval has always been high on her list - the whole proposal was a part of the same.

She is ashamed, because that is what is taught to girls , that it is shameful

Yes, if Guman keeps Saras away, cuts off contact, then rift created by guilt could become huge

One nasty fear since last night - could pregnancy become the reason for marriage to Pramad, don't kill me, just voicing my fears

Arshiji - aapke charan kahan hai??? What a beautiful post. You have justified the episode really well. I would not rate it as high you did today.

I am not judging the morality of the act but I did think Kumud was being way too harsh on Saras. She is not blaming Saras though, she blames herself for loosing control. Scares me to think what penance they are talking about..

I understand that PMS is a taboo esp in rural settings and with her kind of upbringing and set of values. Completion of rituals, Gandharva vivah style without witnesses and her family giving her away is not sanction enough for Kumud to do the deed. So it is a sin for her. I just wish I had not heard her call it a sin though. I felt so bad for Saras. Uff, these raging haarrmonesss 😆

I wonder if there was there pressure from SP who likes to play it safe and pride themselves on their shows promoting values and morals to make some changes, to tone it down after the media went crazy with reports of bold scenes!! If PMS was such an issue, don't approve the script from PH.

I also wonder if this is it or are they going to show some scenes in flashbacks? If this is it, I hope the various writers of the articles, interviewers who ceaselessly hyped the PMS watched the 'bold and steamy' scene today. 🤣 Honestly, I was not expecting much but this was even less than I was expecting. It did not even come across very sensual IMHO.

I did not like the pati parmeshwar ka charan washing either. Dear Lord.

The Desais seem to forget completely that Guman will be Kumud's mother-in-law. They think she will be happy with Saras, in LN's house!!

Dukhba pay attention to your daughter.

Bechara Gautam really sounded and looked unwell. Loved the way Saras paused before he said '''.. mistake of coming close to you. He is deeply hurt by her attitude.

Pregnancy being the possibility of marriage would be so cliched- I sincerely hope not, just the social stigma of PMS info getting out in public is cause enough for a rushed marriage to Pramad.

Arshiji, aapka post toh bahut popular ho gaya hai. I see so many new members and newbies posting here. Welcome to CB everyone.

Edit - she admits she does not want him to come close to her as she does not want to repeat the same mistake again. She is taking responsibility of loosing control, not blaming Saras.

Edit 2 - Nice parallels between Sejal and her amrud wala's wedding and Samud scenes.

Originally posted by: Adiani

Arshiji,

Today, even the episode writers would not have been able to defend the episode as well as you did convincingly today.

My sympathies with them! First for disjointed sequence of events .(did anyone make out when was the wedding? Day or night?) secondly for second time this week precap was wrongly shown.

Originally posted by: Jammy-

I couldn't have said it better myself.

I am mad at the way she reacted too... doesn't make sense to me whatsoever!

Her reaction killed me today...I understand if this reaction is her mom's...I get that...but Kumud..aren't you in love with Saras. I can go on and on and write entrie book...I am so mad.