Originally posted by: --Anu--
I am not defending Alekh here. There is not even a need for that. Sadhana needs to set her priorities straight and decide what she really wants. She can't ride on two boats at the same time. She has to spend her life with Alekh and stand by him. As for Vasu, she will accept her sooner or later as Alekh's wife. If Sadhana can stay with Kaushi all her life who hated her so much then why not Vasu ? As long as Alekh is there for her then whats the problem? He can take good care of her. If a MIL is not good then the bahu should leave her husband just for that reason ? Why couldn't she live her own life with her husband away from Vasu ? She doesn't even want that. lol
We are talking about Sadhna here. For normal people like us, what you said is absolutely true. I am sure most of us would think like that and behave similarly. If my mother in law would hate me, obviously I will not leave my husband just cos she dosnt like me, infact I would then prefer to stay away from my MIL with my husband, if possible in another country all together 😆. Just cos she is my MIL y should I tolerate her hatred, or sacrifice my husband for her, esp when she is the one who is being unreasonable by hating me for wrong reasons?!
But here the victim is Sadhna and Sadhna has her own character. If Sadhna does what you mentioned here, will you be able to relate her to the old Sadhna's character. No. Infact viewers will criticise her real bad even though maybe what she did is absolutely right, as this is not what they are expecting from the character 'Sadhna'.
And Sadhna staying with Kaushi bearing her torture, and with Vasu are 2 different things. When Sadhna was small, did she have any other option to move out from KN? And not only that, Kaushi is her mom so she doesnt consider that as a torture. Even as far as Vasu is concerned, Sadhna doesnt have any ego and might b ready to stay in RH bearing Vasu's torture. But the reason y she doesnt want to go back is not cos of her 'ego' but ony because she thinks Vasu will be upset if she steps in RH (if you have noticed how she keeps herself away from Vasu each time, even when Ragini, Ranvir and Alekh is near Vasu, like the temple scene).
Edited by *dewdrop~pearl* - 15 years ago