Precap..I am hurt:Warning on PG57 - Page 7

Originally posted by: yanks28

I found yesterday's episode to be total garbage. I didn't even bother commenting on it until now. Parul was great and some of the things she said clicked but the rest sounded like she was totally missing the point, or trying her best not to push Vasu's buttons. EGO? WHAT EGO, Ragini? Ranvir and Alekh didn't leave that house because of their egos. They left as a way of standing up for what's RIGHT. I was totally not agreeing with her on that.

Then she started spewing some stuff about how she's wronged her sister and blah blah...the biggest culprit in Sadhna's life is VASU. Again, the entire point is missed.

Yesterday's episode was a total failure because:

1- The issue here is not the love between mother/sons... a mother will always always ALWAYS love her son. We don't need that proven here...in my religion it says that a mother's love is so strong that...baap ki baddua se bachho...lag jaigi and you will be screwed BIG TIME...magar maa, kitni bhi badduan de, kabhi nahin lagen gi...Maa ke kadmon ke tale jannat hai...etc etc etc...

2- The scene where AlVir walk out of the place like hell has frozen over made no sense to me.

3- Vasu didn't look at Sadhna even once, even when her name was mentioned. When Vasu was in the car, she was thinking of her SONS. she wasn't thinking of the wrong doing she has done in Sadhna's life...and the fact that Sadhna was standing a few steps from her wearing a sindhoor and mangal suter in the name of her son Alekh...

4- The pre-cap was rubbish. Agar Alekh ke akkal pe pathar par gaye hai, to at least I would expect Ranvir to speak up in a situation like that ke Mom bhabbi ko accept nahi karenge...

5- There hasn't been any face to face talk or encounter between Vasu/Sadhna for months now...she still doesn't understand Sadhna or realize her mistakes...she still doesn't know that Sadhna is completely in love with Alekh, and she doesn't care.

These creatives are really on the wrong track here. And Anand, is there more to his character or were all these episodes just for yesterday's dud?

Originally posted by: --Anu--

This is not how a normal couple would behave in real life. They discuss the problem and try to find a solution. This is a TV show, so anything can happen. Sadhana's first priority should be her marriage and husband. Its okay if she doesn't want to hurt Vasu by not going back to Rajvansh house. But she can't ask Alekh to go back without her. She should have let him know her concerns and wait for his decision first. He would have surely understood her point. In my opinion, she is not fulfilling her duties as a wife. She seems to be more concerned for everyone except her own husband.

Originally posted by: yanks28

I found yesterday's episode to be total garbage. I didn't even bother commenting on it until now. Parul was great and some of the things she said clicked but the rest sounded like she was totally missing the point, or trying her best not to push Vasu's buttons. EGO? WHAT EGO, Ragini? Ranvir and Alekh didn't leave that house because of their egos. They left as a way of standing up for what's RIGHT. I was totally not agreeing with her on that.

Then she started spewing some stuff about how she's wronged her sister and blah blah...the biggest culprit in Sadhna's life is VASU. Again, the entire point is missed.

Yesterday's episode was a total failure because:

1- The issue here is not the love between mother/sons... a mother will always always ALWAYS love her son. We don't need that proven here...in my religion it says that a mother's love is so strong that...baap ki baddua se bachho...lag jaigi and you will be screwed BIG TIME...magar maa, kitni bhi badduan de, kabhi nahin lagen gi...Maa ke kadmon ke tale jannat hai...etc etc etc...

2- The scene where AlVir walk out of the place like hell has frozen over made no sense to me.

3- Vasu didn't look at Sadhna even once, even when her name was mentioned. When Vasu was in the car, she was thinking of her SONS. she wasn't thinking of the wrong doing she has done in Sadhna's life...and the fact that Sadhna was standing a few steps from her wearing a sindhoor and mangal suter in the name of her son Alekh...

4- The pre-cap was rubbish. Agar Alekh ke akkal pe pathar par gaye hai, to at least I would expect Ranvir to speak up in a situation like that ke Mom bhabbi ko accept nahi karenge...

5- There hasn't been any face to face talk or encounter between Vasu/Sadhna for months now...she still doesn't understand Sadhna or realize her mistakes...she still doesn't know that Sadhna is completely in love with Alekh, and she doesn't care.

These creatives are really on the wrong track here. And Anand, is there more to his character or were all these episodes just for yesterday's dud?

Very nicely analyzed!I 👏👏

Originally posted by: *dewdrop~pearl*

Thats what I said, this is not the way anyone would behave in real life. But here we are talking about the character called 'Sadhna', whose main characteristic trait is selflessness. So from such a character's point of view, such a sacrifice is just normal. But I do agree with the point that Sadhna is still concerned for everyone else (like Vinu, Vasu, etc.), even more than her husband Alekh.

In my POV, this is not a sacrifice or selfless act. What is she sacrificing here ? Her own happiness as a wife, but what about Alekh ? Does she care about what he wants or his happiness ? There is nothing special about Sadhana's character in this situation. Most of the female TV leads are like her who are just great bahus.

There are always two sides of a coin and two sides of a story. I must agree that Sadhna needs to become more possessive of Alekh. They belong to each other now. Wherever he goes, she must follow...and wherever she goes, he must follow too. While I'm angry that Alekh became so sentimental about his mother that he forgot that his mother kicked his wife out of the house, I'm also angry that Sadhna continues to not stand up for her rights. I don't want Sadhna to go back to that house, EVER...even if Vasu makes her go back...because many people can change, but I don't believe Vasu can.

However- Sadhna has been a selfless character from the beginning and if her husband wants to go home out of love for his mother, she won't be one to stop her...however he must step up and take her WITH HIM and at that house, make sure that she gets respect and she is accepted by Vasu...he has to confront Vasu and stand up for Sadhna this time...

Originally posted by: yanks28

There are always two sides of a coin and two sides of a story. I must agree that Sadhna needs to become more possessive of Alekh. They belong to each other now. Wherever he goes, she must follow...and wherever she goes, he must follow too. While I'm angry that Alekh became so sentimental about his mother that he forgot that his mother kicked his wife out of the house, I'm also angry that Sadhna continues to not stand up for her rights. I don't want Sadhna to go back to that house, EVER...even if Vasu makes her go back...because many people can change, but I don't believe Vasu can.

However- Sadhna has been a selfless character from the beginning and if her husband wants to go home out of love for his mother, she won't be one to stop her...however he must step up and take her WITH HIM and at that house, make sure that she gets respect and she is accepted by Vasu...he has to confront Vasu and stand up for Sadhna this time...

Its not like he was leaving her behind. lol She was the one who didn't want to go back with him for Vasu's sake.

I think Sadhana being selfless is so over rated. She is an emotional character who can go to any extent to make her loved ones happy. Marriage is a two way street and she can't make unilateral decisions without consulting Alekh.

I think I'm missing something here...I thought Ragini said that Vasu uses the power if her money to get what she wants, and Ranvir/Alekh use emotions. Where did she say Ranvir/Alekh left because of their egos?

Originally posted by: --Anu--

In my POV, this is not a sacrifice or selfless act. What is she sacrificing here ? Her own happiness as a wife, but what about Alekh ? Does she care about what he wants or his happiness ? There is nothing special about Sadhana's character in this situation. Most of the female TV leads are like her who are just great bahus.

Originally posted by: vishmewell

I honestly felt if you are ONLY interested in seeing people's reaction, all you have to do is read every post 😊😳 There is no need to express it. The very fact you expressed it comes across as anger/frustration/dislike towards certain group of people just because they are not on your side of the field 😊. They don't feel what you feel. YES, you have every right to say what you feel about a certain character, argue to eternity, but not the people who support or don't support your character. 😳😳

My sincere apologies if your feelings are hurt, 🤗 but honestly I am being frank. 😳😳

Vishmewell, I am not a regular visitor of this forum.But whenever I am here I am surprised to see how some of us cannot see the obvious and always want to read in between the lines.And for the sake of defending their favorite characters how they go to demean others.Well I am neutral here.The day I have something good about Vasu I will mention it or the day I have something bad about Sadhana or Ragini I will mention it too...But I don't understand the character wars here as all the characters are made by the same CTs.Sometimes I feel this forum is more of a who can defend whom better contest then healthy discussion.
And yes today I am curious to see how Sadhana's actions will be condemned again as I feel she has not done anything wrong as far today's episode.
Now if you want you can call it bashing!!!
Nice to sort this out with you Vishmewell🤗

Originally posted by: yanks28

There are always two sides of a coin and two sides of a story. I must agree that Sadhna needs to become more possessive of Alekh. They belong to each other now. Wherever he goes, she must follow...and wherever she goes, he must follow too. While I'm angry that Alekh became so sentimental about his mother that he forgot that his mother kicked his wife out of the house, I'm also angry that Sadhna continues to not stand up for her rights. I don't want Sadhna to go back to that house, EVER...even if Vasu makes her go back...because many people can change, but I don't believe Vasu can.

However- Sadhna has been a selfless character from the beginning and if her husband wants to go home out of love for his mother, she won't be one to stop her...however he must step up and take her WITH HIM and at that house, make sure that she gets respect and she is accepted by Vasu...he has to confront Vasu and stand up for Sadhna this time...

But he wasn't leaving her behind! She herself stopped and said Vasu wouldn't like me being there so you guys should all go...And at RV house, he definately would've made sure Sadhna would get respect from Vasu. Every time he's met Vasu after he left home, he's made sure Sadhna gets the erspect or he leaves.