Precap..I am hurt:Warning on PG57 - Page 5

Originally posted by: --Anu--

I am not defending Alekh here. There is not even a need for that. Sadhana needs to set her priorities straight and decide what she really wants. She can't ride on two boats at the same time. She has to spend her life with Alekh and stand by him. As for Vasu, she will accept her sooner or later as Alekh's wife. If Sadhana can stay with Kaushi all her life who hated her so much then why not Vasu ? As long as Alekh is there for her then whats the problem? He can take good care of her. If a MIL is not good then the bahu should leave her husband just for that reason ? Why couldn't she live her own life with her husband away from Vasu ? She doesn't even want that. lol

Yaar Anu, Sadhana needs to get strong , and set her priorities big time!!!! No doubt about it.
But setting priorities not necessarily mean leave your self respect out like.She is not like Ekta's bahus or today's genre bahus.Right she bore Kaushi's torture, when your mom tortures you it not torture, cause she is a part of your system, base.Kaushi never showed her love or acceptance, true but she still cooked and let Sadhana be in her house and was a part of Sadhana's childhood and base.
Vasu has always done sauda's.In fact even the language Vasu used towards Raagini and words like "return my favor back, and "I have let Sadhana's Kali sister stay in our house" all shows her ill feeling and no love for her bahus.
It is hard to ignore that, esp., when someone hates you so much even after seeing you suffer and sacrifice. I do not want Sadhana to go back without an apology.This is my POV.
Alekh showed some maturity in between but now back to be original!!! it is like he is changing his suits !!!

Originally posted by: --Anu--

Sadhana needs to become a good wife first. She is still busy thinking about others except her own husband. Alekh left the house for her and if he ready to take her back with him then there must be a good reason. She just has to follow him and let him tackle his mother. Why is she so concerned for Vasu and how does she want to reunite mother and son? Its not making any sense.
Her choice of words was not correct. It would have been much better if she had just put forward her concern that Vasu wont like if she goes back and waited for Alekh's response. She shouldn't have told Alekh to go without her. They both need to work as a team to fix this problem.

1. It is nothing but natural for Ranvir and Aalekh to get carried away after that emotionally charged WHAT IFs and NEVER fears thrust into Alekh-Ranvir-Vasu...

The plan was a DUD...
2. @ red - Ditto
3. @ blue - Ditto. Then she has no faith in Aalekh. She doesn't appreciate Aalekh's sacrifice.
4. @ green - Ditto. Sadhana is used to making unilateral decisions concerning her and others around her... this clearly proves she can't trust/follow others judgment
5. @ pink - she's never a teamplayer. When did she include anyone in the scheme of her plans and charitable actions?

Precisely, these are the drawbacks in Sadhana that Vasu might not be liking. And I would say "You Go Vasu"

Originally posted by: Purehearts

Yaar Anu, Sadhana needs to get strong , and set her priorities big time!!!! No doubt about it.
But setting priorities not necessarily mean leave your self respect out like.She is not like Ekta's bahus or today's genre bahus.Right she bore Kaushi's torture, when your mom tortures you it not torture, cause she is a part of your system, base.Kaushi never showed her love or acceptance, true but she still cooked and let Sadhana be in her house and was a part of Sadhana's childhood and base.
Vasu has always done sauda's.In fact even the language Vasu used towards Raagini and words like "return my favor back, and "I have let Sadhana's Kali sister stay in our house" all shows her ill feeling and no love for her bahus.
It is hard to ignore that, esp., when someone hates you so much even after seeing you suffer and sacrifice. I do not want Sadhana to go back without an apology.This is my POV.
Alekh showed some maturity in between but now back to be original!!! it is like he is changing his suits !!!

I think we are missing the point here. I don't really care whats the equation between Vasu and Sadhana. What I don't like is that Sadhana is giving more importance to Vasu or anyone else than Alekh. She needs to work on her own marriage first. How can she tell Alekh to go without her ? That's not the right way to fix the problem.
Alekh left everything for her but she wanted him to understand the importance of his mother in his life. Now when he wants to reunite with his mother, she doesn't want to go back with him until Vasu is ready to accept her. If she can't live in Rajvansh house under the present circumstances then she can discuss this issue with Alekh. He will surely understand and support her.

Originally posted by: --Anu--

I am not defending Alekh here. There is not even a need for that. Sadhana needs to set her priorities straight and decide what she really wants. She can't ride on two boats at the same time. She has to spend her life with Alekh and stand by him. As for Vasu, she will accept her sooner or later as Alekh's wife. If Sadhana can stay with Kaushi all her life who hated her so much then why not Vasu ? As long as Alekh is there for her then whats the problem? He can take good care of her. If a MIL is not good then the bahu should leave her husband just for that reason ? Why couldn't she live her own life with her husband away from Vasu ? She doesn't even want that. lol

Thareef thareef thareef from me Anu... thaliyan thaliyan thaliyan!! 👏👏👏

Originally posted by: vishmewell

Thareef thareef thareef from me Anu... thaliyan thaliyan thaliyan!! 👏👏👏

Thank you. 🤗

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

Originally posted by: --Anu--

I think we are missing the point here. I don't really care whats the equation between Vasu and Sadhana. What I don't like is that Sadhana is giving more importance to Vasu or anyone else than Alekh. She needs to work on her own marriage first. How can she tell Alekh to go without her ? That's not the right way to fix the problem.
Alekh left everything for her but she wanted him to understand the importance of his mother in his life. Now when he wants to reunite with his mother, she doesn't want to go back with him until Vasu is ready to accept her. If she can't live in Rajvansh house under the present circumstances then she can discuss this issue with Alekh. He will surely understand and support her.

Wahi to,Bidaai I have not seen any personal /convo of any couple except for romance.It is more of a family problem, not couple oriented show.
Being the kind of character Sadhana is , it is highly unlikely she will ask Alekh to refrain from going back to his house , when he wants to.
And that's why Bidaai has a story today!

Originally posted by: vishmewell

Oh God... I became a ku ku head after Ragini's dialogues.. by the end of the episode I was feeling so dizzy and nauseous yet not a single word about actual issue "hatred towards Sadhana". I only felt the chalo chalo... bade ghar mein chalo... musebbat khatam kinda rush... blaaaah... 🤢

I lost interest in bIdaai... I am just trying to enjoy my new serial last couple of days...

@bold - 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: vishmewell

1. It is nothing but natural for Ranvir and Aalekh to get carried away after that emotionally charged WHAT IFs and NEVER fears thrust into Alekh-Ranvir-Vasu...

The plan was a DUD...
2. @ red - Ditto
3. @ blue - Ditto. Then she has no faith in Aalekh. She doesn't appreciate Aalekh's sacrifice.
4. @ green - Ditto. Sadhana is used to making unilateral decisions concerning her and others around her... this clearly proves she can't trust/follow others judgment
5. @ pink - she's never a teamplayer. When did she include anyone in the scheme of her plans and charitable actions?

Precisely, these are the drawbacks in Sadhana that Vasu might not be liking. And I would say "You Go Vasu"

"Hum saath saath hein....Janam ke saathi....hum saath saath hein" 😆😆😆😆

Originally posted by: vishmewell

Well said Bani. CTs Jaago..
They made seem Ragini desperate woman who is missing all the luxuries of RV house, hence making hasty attempts to patch up mother-sons and go back to RV house and let go of REAL ISSUE Sadhana is not wanted!