Precap..I am hurt:Warning on PG57 - Page 4

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

I always write what I feel is true...and I write what Creatives show us..whoever has seen Bidaai from day one, can never speak bad about Sadhna's character, it is sketched so beautifully...

I am pretty sure that the three never ever thought of the problem from Sadhna and Vasu's issue, rather it was given a name of "ego" between mother and son. The CTs through Ragini;s dialogues have actually messed up the whole problem.

Ragini;s intentions were no doubt good, but did it solve the basic issue? If they go to Rajvansh house, Vasu with open arms will accept all three, but did Vasu give any assurance that Sadhna is welcome...the problem still stands there...if Vasu gives an assurance, I'll still think that she will play something to separate Alekh and Sadhna...

I feel its high time, Sadhna moves out of the life of Ranveer-Ragini and Alekh...she should not stand in the way of their happiness...they are all eager to go back to the RH, knowing pretty well that the problem between Vasu and Sadhna is not solved...Sdahna should give them their happiness and move away quietly...this will be the best decision for her.

Originally posted by: Purehearts

Bravo Bani,Bravo!!!!
You have won it today, standing for Sadhana's character.
I am not complaining here but I feel this is the right time for to express my opinion .When audiences were feeling hurt when Sadhana was insulted or ignored and expressed it, we were called Sadhana's biased fans because we felt for her.
Today you are really feeling for Sadhana and talking like her own sister and you naturally you have every right to do so.....,I am now curious to see what the others esp., those ones who are anti-Sadhana will comments.
I too feel though Ragini was superb in her dialogues today, the moral she tried to give beat the very purpose of their exile.
Somehow the CT's are overworking it up again!

@ red - Purehearts, I take objection to your undesirable comment. If someone did not feel for her or felt relatively less for her, doesn't mean they are anti-Sadhana campers. That might be your perception. But you cannot brand/label anyone. If that's how you feel, you should keep it to yourself or you are at liberty to bash anti-Sadhana campers using personal PMs.

Sorry, I don't mean to be rude, I want to be frank.

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

Sadhna wants mother and son to reunite,if she starts thinking of her espect as a bahu, then she is selfish in separating all three from Vasu...if she does not support Ragini, then she would be very soon targettted as being selfish, separating mother from son and not allowing the family to reunite. So, now when noone has problem with Vasu and Vasu as much nothing against the three, and the three want to go back, its better that they leave Sadhna...

Alekh should have told Ranveer-Ragini to return and he himself should have said instead of Sdahna saying..thats what was needed

Sadhana needs to become a good wife first. She is still busy thinking about others except her own husband. Alekh left the house for her and if he ready to take her back with him then there must be a good reason. She just has to follow him and let him tackle his mother. Why is she so concerned for Vasu and how does she want to reunite mother and son? Its not making any sense.
Her choice of words was not correct. It would have been much better if she had just put forward her concern that Vasu wont like if she goes back and waited for Alekh's response. She shouldn't have told Alekh to go without her. They both need to work as a team to fix this problem.

Originally posted by: reguser

I dont know whether CTs are intentionally making Ragini's character like this or it is a mistake in the direction, but, I have noticed that Ragini sees everything but ultimately doesnt do anything to solve the actual problem. I am not talking about yesterday. I am seeing this since the time bidai has started. There are very few incidents where she really looked into the actual problem and spoke about it. I didnt want to highlight this because, I dont want to hurt Parul' fans. But, somehow I cant digest this at all.

Yesterday's was one such situation where actual problem was something else, and Ragini tried to rectify something else. I dont understand what ego Ranvir and Alekh had? Alekh has to be with his wife, he can not leave his wife because his mom will feel bad. They both are ready to go back to her when Vasu accepts Sadhna.

Though Ragini's character is evovling and and Parul's acting is superb, I am still not convinced.

Let CTs give more screen space to Ragini. But along with quantity, they should give quality too.

One might ask whether Sadhna has looked into the actual problem? Actually, Sadhna hasn't spoken anything about the problem but she has taken some actions (though at times drastic against her) to solve the problem. Yes, she too doesnt speak up and starts crying all the time.

I too liked Alekh in the temple scene. Hope he will say something that makes us happy. Lets see.

Very well said reguser!
@Bold Red, exactly my point.Lettiing Ranveer and Ragini go will justify not Alekh!
Didn't we applaud very recently for Alekh realiseing his responsibility.I understnad Ragini's plan on the engagment days was to expose Vasu not send Alekh out.If Vasu is stubborn , then how is Alekh egoistic here? Ranveer maybe was not sensible enough and impulsive by leaving Rajvansh house.
@Bold purple, this track has no basis and I too miss the quality here.Parul/Ragini deserves better!
@Green, Sadhana's helplessness annoys me,she needs to realise that she is not that helpless it seems.

Originally posted by: --Anu--

Sadhana needs to become a good wife first. She is still busy thinking about others except her own husband. Alekh left the house for her and he if ready to take her back with him then there must be a good reason. She just has to follow him and let him tackle his mother. Why is she so concerned for Vasu and how does she want to reunite mother and son? Its not making any sense.

Anu, I understand you are defending Alekh.But do you really want Sadhana to go back to Rajvansh house without an apology from Vasu???😭.It will be big insult to being a daughter-in-law and a woman!

Originally posted by: vishmewell

@ red - Purehearts, I take objection to your undesirable comment. If someone did not feel for her or felt relatively less for her, doesn't mean they are anti-Sadhana campers. That might be your perception. But you cannot brand/label anyone. If that's how you feel, you should keep it to yourself or you are at liberty to bash anti-Sadhana campers using personal PMs.

Sorry, I don't mean to be rude, I want to be frank.

Vishmewell, why do you think I was relating this to you? Lol...Looks like you are speaking for yourself now.
@Blue Don't I have the freedom to express my opinion like you do?How did these words feel like bashing? "I am now curious to see what the others esp., those ones who are anti-Sadhana will comments."
I am sorry you are rude, even if you tried to be frank here.

Originally posted by: reguser

He He....I too felt the same (though i just read the updates).

Where is the solution to root problem? And the sad part is all three started without thinking about the root problem at all.

Infact, these three didnt think from the begining to end about the main cause.

Crazy CTs.

Oh God... I became a ku ku head after Ragini's dialogues.. by the end of the episode I was feeling so dizzy and nauseous yet not a single word about actual issue "hatred towards Sadhana". I only felt the chalo chalo... bade ghar mein chalo... musebbat khatam kinda rush... blaaaah... 🤢

I lost interest in bIdaai... I am just trying to enjoy my new serial last couple of days...

Originally posted by: Purehearts

Anu, I understand you are defending Alekh.But do you really want Sadhana to go back to Rajvansh house without an apology from Vasu???😭.It will be big insult to being a daughter-in-law and a woman!

I am not defending Alekh here. There is not even a need for that. Sadhana needs to set her priorities straight and decide what she really wants. She can't ride on two boats at the same time. She has to spend her life with Alekh and stand by him. As for Vasu, she will accept her sooner or later as Alekh's wife. If Sadhana can stay with Kaushi all her life who hated her so much then why not Vasu ? As long as Alekh is there for her then whats the problem? He can take good care of her. If a MIL is not good then the bahu should leave her husband just for that reason ? Why couldn't she live her own life with her husband away from Vasu ? She doesn't even want that. lol

ok CTs better have good stuff next week for me to watch bidaai ... I am just reading updates lately and from what I am reading.. its good I am piling up the episodes. IN few weeks time I will just watch all of it... FF button, Pause at Saalekh Scenes, Slow, rewind, play, rewind play , then FF button blah blah lblah blah then Slow, Play , Ragvir Scenes, rewing play rewind play....

IF vasu falls at the FEET of sadhana, I will rewind play , replay , replay replay it oVER and OVEr and OVER again eheh...

---- One week people
ONNEEEE WEEEEEEEK wiht out Bidaai...!!!!! WOHOOO

Originally posted by: Purehearts

Vishmewell, why do you think I was relating this to you? Lol...Looks like you are speaking for yourself now.
@Blue Don't I have the freedom to express my opinion like you do?How did these words feel like bashing? "I am now curious to see what the others esp., those ones who are anti-Sadhana will comments."
I am sorry you are rude, even if you tried to be frank here.

I honestly felt if you are ONLY interested in seeing people's reaction, all you have to do is read every post 😊😳 There is no need to express it. The very fact you expressed it comes across as anger/frustration/dislike towards certain group of people just because they are not on your side of the field 😊. They don't feel what you feel. YES, you have every right to say what you feel about a certain character, argue to eternity, but not the people who support or don't support your character. 😳😳

My sincere apologies if your feelings are hurt, 🤗 but honestly I am being frank. 😳😳