Alekh's aggreeing to marry Mallika not justified..

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Immensely hurt to see goodness suffering and whatever reasons one might give, but there is no denial that Sadhna's intentions can be questioned. Never did she cross any level of decency, by any word or action....she is an epitome of paience and perseverence...

I feel every action of Alekh is justified, but his accepting Mallika as his future wife can never be justified, just as Ragini's words about jealousy for Sadhna. I feel what Alekh is more concerned, is his rejection by Sadhna. He is not able to take his rejection. He needed to learn this lesson, because to get a wife like Sadhna, one has to do some good "Karma". Iswar never gives anyone such good so easily. If one wants something good to happen, one can to work for it....Alekh felt whenever he wants, he can agree to his mom's decision to throw Sdahna out, and suddenly he feels under the influence of his brother that he loves Sadhna, and thus he become romantic and wants Sadahna back,..is this justified...

I'ld prefer a man who can evaluate every situation, and not just look at immediate consequences and short-term goals...I 'ld have loved to see Alekh trying to find out the truth, but I feel its not within his means, he is neither Sadhna nor Ranveer...I can accept even hios hatred for Sadhna, but not his acceptance to marry Mallika....

if now Alekh and Mallika's engagement get cancelled, it will be all Ranveer's effort and not any action taken by Alekh, does a girl like Sadhna deserve a husband like Alekh??????????


PS: Although this is a post about Alekh, it is obvious, Ragini, Ranveer etc will come to discussion. We'll keep it healthy by analysing the characters as per the track...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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This is the first time Alekh has faced a rejection. All this is a new experience for him. He hasn't even realized yet what blunder he has made by agreeing to marry Mallika. Ranveer or anyone else can help him in whatever way they can but the feelings for Sadhnaa and the realization will be his own. He has made so many mistakes but the fact remains that Sadhana is his "life". Alekh has to learn the understanding and trust part of marriage. His love for Sadhana will eventually overcome all hurdles and make him more responsible and mature with time.

In my opinion, Alekh is the best life partner for Sadhana. He is strong, dominating, caring and sweet. The only thing lacking in this new Alekh is ability to differentiate between wrong and right...something that old Alekh used to have. Sadhana is a very selfless and sacrificing character...she needs a strong, dominating and loving partner who can compliment her and support her. Alekh is the only one she listens to and who can shut her up in a good way.

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Originally posted by: --Anu--

This is the first time Alekh has faced a rejection. All this is a new experience for him. He hasn't even realized yet what blunder he has made by agreeing to marry Mallika. Ranveer or anyone else can help him in whatever way they can but the feelings for Sadhnaa and the realization will be his own. He has made so many mistakes but the fact remains that Sadhana is his "life". Alekh has to learn the understanding and trust part of marriage. His love for Sadhana will eventually overcome all hurdles and make him more responsible and mature with time.

In my opinion, Alekh is the best life partner for Sadhana. He is strong, dominating, caring and sweet. The only thing lacking in this new Alekh is ability to differentiate between wrong and right...something that old Alekh used to have. Sadhana is a very selfless and sacrificing character...she needs a strong, dominating and loving partner who can compliment her and support her. Alekh is the only one she listens to and who can shut her up in a good way.



I agree,,, lets see what he does..his and Rgaini 's conversation on Thursday's episode about how Sadhna betrayed both was very heart-bearking for me....
I'ld love to see Alekh accpeting Sdahna back in his life because of his love and trust on Sadhna, and not by the evidence provided by Ranveer... Same goes for Ragini....A love blossoming due to evidence will not survive for long....

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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111



I agree,,, lets see what he does..his and Rgaini 's conversation on Thursday's episode about how Sadhna betrayed both was very heart-bearking for me....
I'ld love to see Alekh accpeting Sdahna back in his life because of his love and trust on Sadhna, and not by the evidence provided by Ranveer... Same goes for Ragini....A love blossoming due to evidence will not survive for long....

Alekh needs to rise to the occasion. But his character has some limitations due to his past. It will some take time for him to overcome that loss.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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^^ I see it more as Sadhna accepting Alekh back instead of Alekh accepting Sadhna back
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Exactly my thoughts bani! Agree with each & every word you said.
Alekh's any action can be justified but at no cost him agreeing to marry mallika is justified. I just couldn't digest the fact that alekh said yes to another woman's marriage proposal. He failed as a husband, specially as sadhna's husband, right away for me.

First I thought he is agreeing to marry mallika cuz he wanted to make sadhna jealous or something. But no, he wanted to marry mallika cuz he wanted to forget his past & cuz sadhna doesn't like him back. His love is not unconditional in any way anymore. Probably i am disappointed cuz i expected way better from alekh & the way he was changing & dreaming about sadhna. His character is as hard as ragini to get redeemed.

Now it doesn't even matter anymore to me if alekh & mallika get married or not. Alekh's statement just ruined it all for me. There's no point of alekh & sadhna reuniting anymore cuz they are not salekh anymore, they are two different people who don't belong with each other. They clearly have an extremely weak relationship proved. No trust, no patience, i can't find a single strong factor that would make their marriage successful. And if they are going to reunite, which for sure they will (& i dont care anymore), then it's going to be due to ranvir/ragini's help or he will be scared what if sadhna marries somebody else.🥱

And alekh DEFINITELY doesn't deserve a wife like sadhna. It's all good from her side, her trust, her care, her patience, her unconditional for alekh but there's nothing from alekh's side. Sadhna deserves way better than alekh for sure ( can't believe i m saying this, but it's just true).

Salekh as a couple is officially dead for me.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Alekh is not in his senses. He told Mallika after he crashed his car into the tree that there nothing more left in his life now as there is no love in his life. He is a lost soul. By saying that he wants to forget his past or agreeing to marry Mallika, he is just fooling himself and everyone else around him. All the relationships have ups and downs...but if the love is strong then it survives the test of time otherwise it just falls apart.
Edited by --Anu-- - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Alekh has to work towards winning Sadhna back. Its sad that through all this not once has Alekh or Ragini put themselves in Sadhna's shoes. I dont understand - Alekh strong ? Never! He may be physically strong but mentally? He no match for Sadhna. He NEVER made an attempt to get her back. But now suddenly feels rejected ? What a sissy.
Ragini - my dear its not Sadhna who is responsible for your inferiority complex. Its your mother who was responsible. I still cannot believe that you are still not able to accept Sadhna's telling the truth in court. What kind of a sister are you? You cannot even begin to think why she took part in the dance competetion. You dont deserve Ranvir.
How complex!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

Immensely hurt to see goodness suffering and whatever reasons one might give, but there is no denial that Sadhna's intentions can be questioned. Never did she cross any level of decency, by any word or action....she is an epitome of paience and perseverence...

I feel every action of Alekh is justified, but his accepting Mallika as his future wife can never be justified, just as Ragini's words about jealousy for Sadhna. I feel what Alekh is more concerned, is his rejection by Sadhna. He is not able to take his rejection. He needed to learn this lesson, because to get a wife like Sadhna, one has to do some good "Karma". Iswar never gives anyone such good so easily. If one wants something good to happen, one can to work for it....Alekh felt whenever he wants, he can agree to his mom's decision to throw Sdahna out, and suddenly he feels under the influence of his brother that he loves Sadhna, and thus he become romantic and wants Sadahna back,..is this justified...

I'ld prefer a man who can evaluate every situation, and not just look at immediate consequences and short-term goals...I 'ld have loved to see Alekh trying to find out the truth, but I feel its not within his means, he is neither Sadhna nor Ranveer...I can accept even hios hatred for Sadhna, but not his acceptance to marry Mallika....

if now Alekh and Mallika's engagement get cancelled, it will be all Ranveer's effort and not any action taken by Alekh, does a girl like Sadhna deserve a husband like Alekh??????????


PS: Although this is a post about Alekh, it is obvious, Ragini, Ranveer etc will come to discussion. We'll keep it healthy by analysing the characters as per the track...



Excellent post Omshanti😳😳😳😳 I agree to each and every word of the post...👏👏👏👏So far I have only watched a single daily show that is KZK... And the fact that how a third person takes initiative to sort out a problem of a married couple just pisses me off😡😡😡😡 Nothing can be more disgusting than that... Becoz marriage is SO sacred an institution in India, becoz it holds the basic values like trust, understanding and love, the first two factor sometimes playing bigger role than the last one.. And Aalekh successfully failed to show those two things in their married life..

On Ragini's part, knowing the truth and getting Saalekh back is absolutely fine, anyone at her place would do so... 👏👏👏👏Finally she's back on track.. I like that... But my ques is, Ragini is not married to Sadi.. Ragini is not supposed to be better half of Sadi... she is not the one who has to be with Sadi in next 7 janams ( as per Hindu marriage ).. It's Aalekh.. And what's the point if someone else unites them???? What's the difference btwn a wimp and a man if the man lets other find the solutions of his own problems, and do nothing n just cry over his own fate..

From my POV, it's teh same story, where the girl comes with dahej I mean dowry ( sadi's getting a paagal husband ), and then when in-laws get the whole dowry ( aalekh being normal ), they go for a divorce so that they can get their son married to some other girl... 🤢 And the boy, groom, jz follow his parents' decision..👎🏼we call those characters villain right?

I am highly disappointed with Aalekh.. Agreeing to marry another girl, under whatever circumstances, is cheap.... he is become a sissy by doing ths🤢..

Sorry I know that was Aalekh bashing, but when that comes from an Aalekh fan, it should be valued becoz then it's called criticism😭
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am extremely pissed off at Alekh, what happened to all his love and his dialogues that "will Sadhna forgive me"...why he could not take it as a challenge, that even if Sdahna did it, he would do everything to win her back. He should have stated clearly that Sdahna's decision of signing the papers is solely due to Alekh's ignorance and his continuous denial...

Alekh holding Mallika's hands...disgusting...

As for Rgaini, I'll be definitely happy to see her teaching Vasu a lesson, but will that in any way reverse all her actions to Sadhna? She needs to repent first and that too deeply....

As for Sadi, I feel how much a person can bear and that too smilingly and without any complaint Iwont be surprised if she goes to a state of shock....

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