Alekh's aggreeing to marry Mallika not justified.. - Page 2

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

I am extremely pissed off at Alekh, what happened to all his love and his dialogues that "will Sadhna forgive me"...why he could not take it as a challenge, that even if Sdahna did it, he would do everything to win her back. He should have stated clearly that Sdahna's decision of signing the papers is solely due to Alekh's ignorance and his continuous denial...

Alekh holding Mallika's hands...disgusting...

As for Rgaini, I'll be definitely happy to see her teaching Vasu a lesson, but will that in any way reverse all her actions to Sadhna? She needs to repent first and that too deeply....

As for Sadi, I feel how much a person can bear and that too smilingly and without any complaint Iwont be surprised if she goes to a state of shock....

Alekh was not holding Mallika's hand for fun.....Vasu forcibly made him do that. Alekh quickly realized this and left from there. When he went back to his room, he realized his mistake and came back to his senses. He said to himself, oh what have I done, Sadhana is my wife and all. One thing I noticed that Alekh didn't say to Vasu that he will marry Mallika...he only said do whatever you wish. This makes a big difference.

@Omshanti - I totally agree that Aalekh agreeing to get married to Mallika seems distasteful. Like I wrote in my other posts, people do make such rash decisions in life when the emotions are sky high. And Vasu knew that better. So she thoroughly capitalized on it.

We must also understand that Aalekh's anger is completely justified. When Vasu tossed the divorce papers at him, he handled the situation better than Sadhana. What was her rationale to make Ragini win the competition on purpose knowing divorce is the only other option left for her? Was she wise and nice when she made that decision? Did she even consider Aalekh? Since when Ragini became more important than her husband Aalekh? Did he not show her time and again how much he cares for her and loves her that he balsted everyone at work and site over Sadhana's security? What more does she need as proof that divorce WAS NOT AN OPTION. That too without discussing with Aalekh? That is inexcusable inspite of all the virtues Sadhana has. If she can't learn to put Aalekh before others, then all her virtues are worth nothing.

She cares for mamiji who only hated her all her life and insults her.
She cares for Ragini who only misbehaves with her.
She cares for Vinu who is naa layak and brings distruction to the family every now and then.
And Aalekh is on the back seat over all these people who don't deserve even her attention? I don't think all of Sharma family put together, loves Sadhana as much as Aalekh does. She needs to be with Aalekh to help him understand the complexity of husband-wife relationship. From a 7 yr old all of a sudden, he is 25 yr old, and there are several gaps in his practicality, rationale and approach to life. We cannot compare business and personal life issues. Mother-son, brother-brother, father-son relation ships are rather simple relationships. But husband - wife relationship is the most complex relationship in life.

I love Sadhana, but this time I am not with Sadhana, I stand by Aalekh.

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

I am extremely pissed off at Alekh, what happened to all his love and his dialogues that "will Sadhna forgive me"...why he could not take it as a challenge, that even if Sdahna did it, he would do everything to win her back. He should have stated clearly that Sdahna's decision of signing the papers is solely due to Alekh's ignorance and his continuous denial...

Alekh holding Mallika's hands...disgusting...

As for Rgaini, I'll be definitely happy to see her teaching Vasu a lesson, but will that in any way reverse all her actions to Sadhna? She needs to repent first and that too deeply....

As for Sadi, I feel how much a person can bear and that too smilingly and without any complaint Iwont be surprised if she goes to a state of shock....

OMG again I second you.. !! U see, he was saying that what all he did to Sadi was bad, cheap etc etc, and as soon as Sadi did a single mistake ( what he considers that as ) he started shouting creating fuss, crying, agreeing to remarry etc etc😲 What is this? 😲 Why does he think that whatever he does to Sadi, she HAS to tolerate them without hitting it back to him??😲 Ek taraf woh sochta hai agar woh maaf karegi ki nahi, and dusre taraf when she does not ( again that is what aalekh thinks ), he becomes mad?😲Sadi shouldn't be taken as granted

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

OMG again I second you.. !! U see, he was saying that what all he did to Sadi was bad, cheap etc etc, and as soon as Sadi did a single mistake ( what he considers that as ) he started shouting creating fuss, crying, agreeing to remarry etc etc😲 What is this? 😲 Why does he think that whatever he does to Sadi, she HAS to tolerate them without hitting it back to him??😲 Ek taraf woh sochta hai agar woh maaf karegi ki nahi, and dusre taraf when she does not ( again that is what aalekh thinks ), he becomes mad?😲Sadi shouldn't be taken as granted

I am upset why he didn;t rationalise and start putting 2+2, that there must be something behind all these...

Originally posted by: vishmewell

@Omshanti - I totally agree that Aalekh agreeing to get married to Mallika seems distasteful. Like I wrote in my other posts, people do make such rash decisions in life when the emotions are sky high. And Vasu knew that better. So she thoroughly capitalized on it.

We must also understand that Aalekh's anger is completely justified. When Vasu tossed the divorce papers at him, he handled the situation better than Sadhana. What was her rationale to make Ragini win the competition on purpose knowing divorce is the only other option left for her? Was she wise and nice when she made that decision? Did she even consider Aalekh? Since when Ragini became more important than her husband Aalekh? Did he not show her time and again how much he cares for her and loves her that he balsted everyone at work and site over Sadhana's security? What more does she need as proof that divorce WAS NOT AN OPTION. That too without discussing with Aalekh? That is inexcusable inspite of all the virtues Sadhana has. If she can't learn to put Aalekh before others, then all her virtues are worth nothing.

She cares for mamiji who only hated her all her life and insults her.
She cares for Ragini who only misbehaves with her.
She cares for Vinu who is naa layak and brings distruction to the family every now and then.
And Aalekh is on the back seat over all these people who don't deserve even her attention? I don't think all of Sharma family put together, loves Sadhana as much as Aalekh does. She needs to be with Aalekh to help him understand the complexity of husband-wife relationship. From a 7 yr old all of a sudden, he is 25 yr old, and there are several gaps in his practicality, rationale and approach to life. We cannot compare business and personal life issues. Mother-son, brother-brother, father-son relation ships are rather simple relationships. But husband - wife relationship is the most complex relationship in life.

I love Sadhana, but this time I am not with Sadhana, I stand by Aalekh.

I cannot deny what you are saying... but Alekh can do anything,but not accept to marry Mallika or any other person, thats not the right thing to do..he can go and punish Sadhna, but not agree to marry once more....

Originally posted by: --Anu--

This is the first time Alekh has faced a rejection. All this is a new experience for him. He hasn't even realized yet what blunder he has made by agreeing to marry Mallika. Ranveer or anyone else can help him in whatever way they can but the feelings for Sadhnaa and the realization will be his own. He has made so many mistakes but the fact remains that Sadhana is his "life". Alekh has to learn the understanding and trust part of marriage. His love for Sadhana will eventually overcome all hurdles and make him more responsible and mature with time.

In my opinion, Alekh is the best life partner for Sadhana. He is strong, dominating, caring and sweet. The only thing lacking in this new Alekh is ability to differentiate between wrong and right...something that old Alekh used to have. Sadhana is a very selfless and sacrificing character...she needs a strong, dominating and loving partner who can compliment her and support her. Alekh is the only one she listens to and who can shut her up in a good way.

And after that ... hug and give a kiss! 😳 ... its very important (scientifically proven ... the scientist asked me to keep his name a secret).

He must never let anyone insult or harm or demean Sadhna ...

But right now ... its not good... I dont like it Alekh

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

exactly, behind the anger, if there is no love, it is called torture..thats why even Ragini was criticised. Ragini could have got upset with Sdahna, but she should still have some dilemma or soft corner for Sadhna in between. But she was all set to make Sadhna shelterless....

Seems like you missed the episode where Ragini lashes out on Mamaji with Mamiji laying on bed.

Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker

Seems like you missed the episode where Ragini lashes out on Mamaji with Mamiji laying on bed.

Mamaji was fragile and searching for warmth .. he came to console his daughter... he came to sit beside her.

However Ragini lashed out on him ... threw his hand away ... and complained that Mamaji has always loved Sadhna alot more than Ragini or Kaushaliya or Veenu. She complained that since childhood she observed that Mamaji divided his love into two. One part - COMPLETELY FOR SADHNA ... another part - RAGINI, VEENU and KAUSHI.

She declared that Mamaji have been partial and accused him of neglegence. At that instant Ranvir came and she rushed to Ranvir's arms...

Mamiji was in ICU then ... in critical danger.

I saw that...i wanted to say that Ragini;s anger also never had any love behind, so its a torture for Sadhna...

This is a TV show, they have to dramatize everything for TRPs. Alekh saying "YES" to Vasu doesn't mean anything at all because he loves Sadhana so much and its not like he will really get engaged to Mallika or he is in love with her. This is a very filmy twist where hero/heroine makes a rash decision in anger and hurt...then later on they go into panic mode when they come back to senses.

Ranveer almost got engaged to Sonia and her true colors were revealed at the very last minute. Ragini's got engaged several times in the show (even during AA track with Shishir) and one time her marriage was stopped right before taking pheras.

Bidaai always has dramatic endings to each track.