why is ragini being pampered?? - Page 2

I can't believe that she cares a damn about her own father, no respect at all. I would never ever do that to my father no matter what, I dont think any daughter can. Does she even know that her father had to work as a peon or does she even bother to find out whats happening in her Maayka ? No...her only focus is me...my husband...my bachcha...my happiness....

There is a saying that a daughter is always a daughter but a son is a son until he is married.

About this miscarriage part, its just over the top. She is not in shock anymore....she knows whats happening around her. She is upset with her father for supporting Sadhana, she is stopping Ranveer from meeting Sadhana.

Originally posted by: Crimson_Sky

"Ragini is not in her senses" ... although I would love to agree to this ... but the episode where her Zameer (conscience) came out and accused her of being filled with poison so clearly ... and explained her how everything she has was due to Sadhna ... so clearly and precisely.... I fail to fully accept that Ragini is completely unaware of what she is doing.

^^ but as for being pampered. Its her life. Its what she has ... I have no isssues there.

Anu, may i know when she was shown nt respecting her father? If u are talking abt the recent accident thing then let me remind u Ragini till nw dsnt knw that her father met with an accident. And even during d whole jail n miscarriage time there was never a moment when she spoke rudely or said anything wrong to him or did anything that would be called disrespecting her father. Infact when she needed her father the most, her father was not there to give her moral support. During this whole thing he just was there as a support to Sadhna n her decisions bt did he ever bother to go and sit with Ragini and share her sorrows or give her the mental strength?

Originally posted by: dharaa

She is pampered by Ranvir cuz she deserves it n he loves her a lot n cant see her in pain n if by doing all these he can get back the normal Ragini why wont he do it??? Ur post clearly shows ur hatred towards Ragini. She didnt force Vasu or Aalekh to throw her out, nor did she tell Ranvir to do all these for her why blame her for everything?? Is it really hard to understand dat having a miscarriage is not a small thing? She needs time, love n support from Ranvir now and Ranvir being a good pati is helping her get out of this trauma. And any good husband will do this much for their wife after knowing what all she went through in his absence. There is not only one relationship in Ranvir's life, so far he has proved to be good as a beta, bhai, damad, devar, n nw its the time to be a good pati n whatever he is dng is cmpltly right and Ragini deserves this.

Sadhna never pushed her from stairs so why she is blaming. now u will say she is having shock. this is ur hatred toward sadhna coz u compelty forget that what she has sacrifized for ragini. she got married with an abnormal person. she knew she can never lead a married life . she can never had kids. dear, this is not a small thing .

Originally posted by: dharaa

Anu, may i know when she was shown nt respecting her father? If u are talking abt the recent accident thing then let me remind u Ragini till nw dsnt knw that her father met with an accident. And even during d whole jail n miscarriage time there was never a moment when she spoke rudely or said anything wrong to him or did anything that would be called disrespecting her father. Infact when she needed her father the most, her father was not there to give her moral support. During this whole thing he just was there as a support to Sadhna n her decisions bt did he ever bother to go and sit with Ragini and share her sorrows or give her the mental strength?

Her father came to Rajvansh house with Kaushi and Nani to meet Ranveer when he came back from the prison. She didn't even greet him or talk to him at all. Only Ranveer went to him to take his ashirwad.

Originally posted by: dharaa

Anu, may i know when she was shown nt respecting her father? If u are talking abt the recent accident thing then let me remind u Ragini till nw dsnt knw that her father met with an accident. And even during d whole jail n miscarriage time there was never a moment when she spoke rudely or said anything wrong to him or did anything that would be called disrespecting her father. Infact when she needed her father the most, her father was not there to give her moral support. During this whole thing he just was there as a support to Sadhna n her decisions bt did he ever bother to go and sit with Ragini and share her sorrows or give her the mental strength?

so sweet of you. you have blamed sharma g as well

Originally posted by: meghna

I have been reading siliently for all theswe days and I agree that to a certain extent when you loose a child you are depressed, but never go to the extent that Ragini has been showing. I know from experirnce I have lost 6 kids , 4 in the 6th month of pregnancy where I have held my babies in my hands, but you have to be strong, you cannot keep balming another persn and behave irrationally. I have done so without any support , infact I have been blamed for my miscarraiges by my family, but hey, you have to face these things in reality and move forward. I have been blessed with a son and I look at him abd move forward as he is the hope anf light of my life.

Meghna, so sorry to hear that.
My POV was the same, relating to real life experiences.
I just feel the CTs are not doing a good job by exaggerating this particular thing.
I have also seen in real life girls in sort of Ragini's situation and taking undue advantage and exaggerating things.It is like a encouragement for these kind of people.
So I am not happy with this entire situation in total!
Last time some one shared their real life situation the Moderator of Bidaai closed the thread! Hope it does not happen now!!!!

Originally posted by: --Anu--

<br><br>Her father came to Rajvansh house with Kaushi and Nani to meet Ranveer when he came back from the prison. She didn't even greet him or talk to him at all. Only Ranveer went to him to take his ashirwad.<br>

aur jab ragini nay apna hath hata dia tha when sharma g came ????

Originally posted by: uzmaaltaf1

aur jab ragini nay apna hath hata dia tha when sharma g came ????

Exactly....that happened 2 times actually.

Altaf... infact Mamaji did go to Ragini to give her insight and moral support. But Ragini brushed her hand away.