why is ragini being pampered??

Seriously guys... i dont understand why ranvir is pampering ragini by singing songs for her.. decorating there bedrooom, taking her to places like this dance academy.. seriously i understand that she has gone through a miscarriage and her husband went to jail... but i dont feel that she deserves to be pampered like this... shes done absolutely nothin to deserve all this attention... ranvir is the one who deserves to be pampered... why is no one doing anythng for him??? does anyone else realise how much tension ragini has created??? hmm so the doctor told ranvir that she needs love and care to become normal.... understood.... but what about all the ppl who r suffering because of ragini.... look at sadhna.. she hasnt smiled in months.. shes gone through so much emotional trauma that i think anyone else would have just died.. and alekh... she just recovered from a mental state and once again he is suffering mentally as he doesnt kno who to trust... and ranvir.. wah kya gift diya usse.... jail se nikalte hi usko yeh gift mila ke mera pura family alag hai... wow.... great ragini...

1. she seperated sadhna and alekh
2. she got sadhna thown out of the rajvansh house because of her over drama
3. she wont let ranvir meet sadhna \
4. she is putting 3 ppl into emotional trauma...

wow maybe everyone should do bad things to people so that good things happen to them.....

this post is not meant as a hate post.. but its something that i noticed....

She is depressed, may be this will help her come out of this mode. I so want to see what she does when she is out of this gloomy mood.

yea i agree she is depressed.. but i dont agree that she is not in her senses.... she knows everything.. shes reactin to everything... she is very smart.. howcome she cant see the diff between right and wrong...?? when ranvir went to see sadhna it clicked in her mind... so why not now??? why cant she realise that shes wrong???

I just feel that she is reacting like a very average and weak person. I mean...even in RL when someone is hurt and blames someone else for his/her miseries, deep down inside the person also wishes that if I am not happy then why is he/she happy and they feel at ease when the other person is also suffering....its a very average human mentality.

*Queenme* I totally agree with you. I mean I was just thinking, this girl Ragini is dancing with joy (literally) while everyone around her is in shambles.

queenme totally agreed with you.. you just spoke what is in my hear. Ragini is doing so much drama. i personally know a girl who has 2 consecutive miscarriages and never behave abnormally. i really hate her, she is the most mean and selfish character in the histroy of bidaai.

She is pampered by Ranvir cuz she deserves it n he loves her a lot n cant see her in pain n if by doing all these he can get back the normal Ragini why wont he do it??? Ur post clearly shows ur hatred towards Ragini. She didnt force Vasu or Aalekh to throw her out, nor did she tell Ranvir to do all these for her why blame her for everything?? Is it really hard to understand dat having a miscarriage is not a small thing? She needs time, love n support from Ranvir now and Ranvir being a good pati is helping her get out of this trauma. And any good husband will do this much for their wife after knowing what all she went through in his absence. There is not only one relationship in Ranvir's life, so far he has proved to be good as a beta, bhai, damad, devar, n nw its the time to be a good pati n whatever he is dng is cmpltly right and Ragini deserves this.

I have been reading siliently for all theswe days and I agree that to a certain extent when you loose a child you are depressed, but never go to the extent that Ragini has been showing. I know from experirnce I have lost 6 kids , 4 in the 6th month of pregnancy where I have held my babies in my hands, but you have to be strong, you cannot keep balming another persn and behave irrationally. I have done so without any support , infact I have been blamed for my miscarraiges by my family, but hey, you have to face these things in reality and move forward. I have been blessed with a son and I look at him abd move forward as he is the hope anf light of my life.