Originally posted by: starplusfan777
*Queenme* I totally agree with you. I mean I was just thinking, this girl Ragini is dancing with joy (literally) while everyone around her is in shambles.
And what I found funny was that the doctor telling Ranveer that she needs to be happy etc etc. Why? Did she go through what Alekh went through (trauma to brain etc)? Nahin na? She can still have kids, I am very very sorry for parents who lost their child to a miscarriage, don't get me wrong at all....but itna zyaada drama is too much yaar.
Also, I find it so funny ki Sadhna is the one who has supported the Sharma house whenever possible. While Ragini has really had a true Bidaai from her maayka. Aaj tak she hasn't even bothered to check ki is her family okay or not. Kaushi has really spoilt her daughter.
And while she was dancing away, I couldn't help secretly thinking, Vasu where are you when we need you? I am sure she is going to put a stop to this dance drama straight away. But ofcourse, tab bhi Sadhna will only get a bad name as she will support Ragini silently for her dancing against mummyji. Is sadhna ka main kya karoon.
altho i cant and sont want to change your opnion...i do wish to ask....do you even know how it feels when sum1 jus had a miscarriage...when sum1 jus lost a baby that they have been plaaning so much for....when sum1 lost the cause of her living wen her hubby is in jail?? do you??
well i do...frm experience....no no its not me of corse...m barely 18 i cant get married so early but my aunt did....n it was her second baby...nt even the first 1...she had been planning for the baby which was only natural....but she ahd been plannin for the baby for this whole time but she got a miscarriage....of corse her hubby was there to suuport her.....its true that Ragini's whole family was dere but it doesnt even take a genius to figure out that she needed Ranvir n not jus da family but Ranvir was in jail n thts y she told whole parivaar to keep quiet abt dis so he wont b worried...but inside she was suffocating....she was goin under severe depression...you know wht my aunt say wen she talks of those days....if it werent for my husband, i wudnt hv been able to get through tht phase of life...lets alll be serius n think...arent first born the most ladla of the family...ofcorse later, its the younger getting the most attention but the first baby get the mst attention n i no it.
n abt Sadna goin through hard phase...i agree but she dint have a shock like this....let me give you an example....my oldest sis went into depression wen it was least expected...wen the whole family was supportive...wen she was pampered n gettin all attention but she went through it jus because my grandpa was mad at her...nt even for too long...but this caused her to go in deep depression...it was reallly bad while I on the otherhand can wid confident say tht i have acheived a lot in my life wid hardships while othas were busy taking care of her n pamperin her n so she neva really "got out of the house". I became a daughter n a sister tht ppl wud b proud of but still I got yelled at by my otha relatives if I jus for once dint feel like doin sumthin.....I used to get mad but I cudnt do anythin cuz I knew tht da only ppl i need understanding n approval frm are my parents n siblings....
jus think if my sis cud go through depression for such a small reason then why cant ragini go through depression because of this...n dont get me wrong but me n my middle sis went through a lot but we r still nt given as much attention as her n we understand y so sum ppl jus need attention especially lookin tht ranvir hasnt been there for her wen she needed him the most so thts why he's trying to make it up to her...n one more thing....if ranvir wants to do sumthin for her den let him, he's her husband besides she neva asked him n btw ragini was v/ supportive to sadhna wen Alek was goin through 'the phase'.
m nt defending anyone cuz i personally think tht honest is the best policy....n i support sadhna....but i don think tht it has anythin to do wid Ragini cuz actually we shud b thankful tht Alek showed his colors n mama's boy attitude b4 hand weh he cud have simply supported Sadhna like any sensible person or like wen Ranvir fully supported Ragini....its infuriating.... Sadhna doesnt deserve dis...she deserves way better n I hate him....n plzz supporters don say tht he is jus confused between who to choose since they are both closer for him but it is also true tht Sadhna went to great extents to take care of him and his family den why cant he do the same for her serisly....I hate him rite now so i don really agree wid any of this except for the part dat Ragini needs care n Sadhna deserves better but since creatives promised to show happines...hopfully they keep it!!
