Is ragini really wrong??? (WARNING pg11) - Page 3

LOL seeing Ragini like this is enough for once!But dekhna as soon as Ranvir comes out she will be happy again and doesn't even think abt the baby cos only Ranvir matters to her/At least I want the ct's to be consistent that way.That she still thinks that Sadhana is responsible for the miscarriage though Ranvir is with her!Getting Ranvir back doesn't bring back the baby unless it all proves to be false news

Coolkitty, i would call it a betrayal actually smwhat a betrayal cuz till the end sadhna gave ragini hopes abt ranvir's bail bt jst at d end moment she backed off. She had probs with telling lie since the beginning and if she discussed it with ragini, atleast she would have been mentally prepared for the final verdict. And as far as supporting thing is concerned, sadhna did nt give ragvir her support openly, she clearly said to ranvir that she wont go against vasu-kaushi regarding this matter (29th oct epi) whereas ragini went against her in laws and her husband just to support sadhna when they all were against shlok.

But dharaa sweetie those were small things lol which are conveniently forgotten or ignored.Even the devar was against his bhabhi's decision wasn't he which 'Ragini,his wife' had to explain!? 😉Please reverse the characteristics of these characters!

Hey Dharaa Hun, I understand where you are coming from. As I have said in other posts, I completely understand Ragini's behavior. The only sibling I have is an elder sister- so I try to analyze this sister duo. Yes, me and my sister have fought a lot. Misunderstood each other - said stuff to each which we did not mean and so on. I can understand Ragini's anger at Sadhna- it was almost as if we she was betrayed. Till the last minute-Sadhna kept telling her that everything will be fine, Ranvir will be set free soon etc but at the moment it mattered the most- in the court, Sadhna's very testimony changed the verdict. As I said, the problem was not that Sadhna sided with the truth- the problem was how this truth was executed. Instead of saying the truth at the very last minute- in front of the judge, she could have let the family know in advance that she can't go against her morals so that they could be better prepared.

Anyways, having said that, while I think it quite understandable for Ragini to be angry at Sadhna- what is NOT alright here is for Ragini to be mouthing all those bitter lines to Sadhna. It is ok for sisters to fight at times- its a part and parcel of every relationship-who are we kidding, fights are inevitable! But to generalize those fights into the entire length of the time period that you have been sisters is a little far fetched. Her anger would have been justified if she just stuck to the current scenario. But for her to think that Sadhna is jealous of her happiness etc is just plain wrong. If only she had not been mouthing these mahaan dialogues, it would have been a little better IMO. I would have liked the current story line better if Ragini was just reduced to a statue in her stillborn's gham and of course missing Ranvir. But she is channeling her pain in a sort of negative direction by taking it out in the kind of stuff she says to Sadhna . Woh thoda galat hai.

you cannot argue against an emotion, so if ragini feels very angry with sadhana right now, she obviously feels she is right.

^ i think the creatives wanted to create a situation that would justify a split between the sisters and between alekh and sadhana - unfortunately they did not do a good enough job. their efforts to create a justifiable split have resulted in ruining the characters of ragini and alekh.

did anyone ask Sad what she wanted to say in court??? no....everyone just emotionally blackmailed her on y they need her to say a lie in court. Vasu, alekh and ragni never gave her the opportunity to tell them before the hearing on what she REALLY wants to say. Yes it is Sad fault that she should have voiced it. But she then confused herself and thought maybe I can lie to save my sisters home.........and for reassurance she went to Mamji.......but he also said u do what ur inner self allows u to do.....Ragni intial reaction was justifible........but her attitude now is not..........what i don't understand is y there is so little communication between the people u love. If the person u trust more then anyone in the world broke your trust..............u need to have a serious convo....to sort those differences out................Ragni never did...........not with Ranvir nor Sad.........she cried and created illusions in her head causing her to fall and loose her child...............so what she is doing now is her fault. Sad has only indirectly put her husband in jail (rightfully if i may add)..............ragni has no other reasons to be mad but that one............which to me if looked at is very small if she went and talk to her husband...who would have told her that Sad did the right thing. Also, Ranvir is repeatingly asking for Sad and asking if she is taking care...........ding ding ding........if Ranvir was mad at Sad also y would he even as her haal jaal.......doesn't Ragni see that......"ooo...my husband is asking for his babhi...so he must be happy with her saying the truth in court....so y am i mad"???????

It makes sense that Ragini blames Sadi for Ranvir's jail term. But, to me, the only reason Ragini lost the baby was her own carelessness. Everyone asked her to look after herself for the sake of the baby. But she was so involved with her own feelings that she never once took care. She was selfish and that is why she lost the baby. She cannot blame Sadi for that.

The way Ragini has reacted..she proved that her 20 some year bond with her sister doesn't mean anything to her in front of her marital bond.
She is unable to understand how Sadhana is as person which is plain good..feelings like jealousy and hatred can never come close to her. The people we grow up with we know how they are what they are capable or incapable of and for Ragini to overlook all that Sadhana has done in the past for her and how she is as a person is unacceptable.

I completely disagree that a lie is a lie whether spoken in court or anywhere else. Its sad that in Indian law there is no offense for perjury (lying under oath). No wonder so many criminals are set free and there is no fear of wrong doing.

Coming back to the topic, I am disappointed with Ragini not only for uttering those bad words for Sadhna and illtreating her but also for hiding about her miscarriage from Ranvir. Ranvir has as much right to know about it as much as Ragini as it was his baby as well. Imagine if he comes to know from somewhere else, how hurt he will be. I see that Ragini thinks he is already in jail, why trouble him so much, but won;'t it hurt him more if he comes to know Ragini hid it from him. Since when is husband-wife relationship so formal that you cannot even share ups and downs in life thinking oh it might upset him or break him. Its not that he is never going to find out. How would Ragini feel if no one told her she has miscarried?