Is ragini really wrong??? (WARNING pg11) - Page 2

LOL Dharaa,one illogical and senseless track just to create the rift with no proper patching of the scenes or proper script.Would any PP with the main witness except in the court.But she did and gave a long lecture and that DS,what was the hype about anyway?What was he there for?Since Shlok track,Bidaai lost its reality,identity and TRP's too!

Ragini being angry with Sadhana for betraying her, is understandable, justifiable by her behavior, i would certainly disagree.I am sorry, but i feel, to be so blindsided by your love for your husband,that you dont know how your sister is by nature, is a little over board for me. Ragini spent 22 or so years of her life with Sadhana, if anyone, she knows her the best. So Ragini should have known before hand that sadhana wouldnt lie, and she should have spoken to the lawyer to choose other ways of proving Ranvir not guilty. I think that would have been the smarter way.
Also, They both are mamaji's children, sadhana is a lil bit more mahan in the sarcastical way than ragini is. I have to agree, ragini's character before had reality in it, but turing so rude, harsh and outright hating your sister and not caring atall for her, is definitely not in her character.
Tearing up the picture, telling alekh she doesnt care if she comes back, blaming her for the miscarriage(this is the ultimate) and saying sadhana is jealous of her? Where does all of this come from? Anger? partly yeah, but rest, she is not using her mind.
I can rest gaurantee that when ranvir comes out, I have a gut feeling, he is going to let everyone have it, including ragini, for not being able to see sadhana for who she is, and using her as a doormat! Honestly, Ranvir is the ONLY person other than Mamaji to have truly understood sadhana. When this happens, ragini et al will come to their senses, and i am waiting for that day. I hope Kaushi and Vasu, learn hard lessons the hard way. Ragini can still be forgiven for being misguided and being disgruntled in her thoughts..those two no, and a bigger no forgiveness for Alekh!

Seriously di. The ct's so desperately wanted to show this rift track that they went down to this level. They changed the basic personalities of the character and also forgot the main theme of the show. Now seriously dnt knw wat more we have in store for us. Its rly unb'lvble that this is the same old bidaai.

I have no hopes and in a way its better this way cos there is no chance to be disappointed once again!If she changes soon good for her character and us,if not Raam jaane!lol

As for the slapping incident,Sadhana thought of her husband and slapped Ranvir.Ragini reacted as a wife and not as a sister.Its balanced that time.

I keep on saying in many posts just cos Ranvir gives importance to his bahabhi doesn't make him a good human being.He has to excel at every relationship.SO if that holds for him IMO Ragini should also be able to see beyond Ranvir!

Originally posted by: coolkitty_23

Ragini being angry with Sadhana for betraying her, is understandable, justifiable by her behavior, i would certainly disagree.I am sorry, but i feel, to be so blindsided by your love for your husband,that you dont know how your sister is by nature, is a little over board for me. Ragini spent 22 or so years of her life with Sadhana, if anyone, she knows her the best. So Ragini should have known before hand that sadhana wouldnt lie, and she should have spoken to the lawyer to choose other ways of proving Ranvir not guilty. I think that would have been the smarter way.
Also, They both are mamaji's children, sadhana is a lil bit more mahan in the sarcastical way than ragini is. I have to agree, ragini's character before had reality in it, but turing so rude, harsh and outright hating your sister and not caring atall for her, is definitely not in her character.
Tearing up the picture, telling alekh she doesnt care if she comes back, blaming her for the miscarriage(this is the ultimate) and saying sadhana is jealous of her? Where does all of this come from? Anger? partly yeah, but rest, she is not using her mind.
I can rest gaurantee that when ranvir comes out, I have a gut feeling, he is going to let everyone have it, including ragini, for not being able to see sadhana for who she is, and using her as a doormat! Honestly, Ranvir is the ONLY person other than Mamaji to have truly understood sadhana. When this happens, ragini et al will come to their senses, and i am waiting for that day. I hope Kaushi and Vasu, learn hard lessons the hard way. Ragini can still be forgiven for being misguided and being disgruntled in her thoughts..those two no, and a bigger no forgiveness for Alekh!

Very sensible post really 👏👏👏

coolkitty_23,its human nature isn't it to look for an easy way out!At that time Ragini was blinded by her pain and all she could think was to be with Ranvir at any cost.WHy talk abt only Ragini here that she should have talked to Sadhana on this,Sadhana could have done it as well,explain to her that she couldn't lie.And they could have put their heads together with that idiotic lawyer DS and thought of something else.There were so many loopholes in that track!But of course all that lack of communication was for the sake of rift to happen.It did and end of story!

Its a known fact which had been said some infinite times,not everyone can be like Sadhana.This is the normal reaction of a lesser mortal!

Smitha di i srsly want to know from where did this maturity, this sudden change come in ranvir. Its really odd to see that the same ragini who actually brought the positive changes in ranvir now needs him to make her understand what is right and what is wrong.

Dharaa,Nice topic.Is ragini really wrong.My POV,She is not wrong.It is just situation. Ragini is a nice character. She loves her sister too thats why She wanted to sadhna's happyness and she send them out side to improvment alek and sadhna's relation with ranvir . .Ragini loves her husband a lot.During pragnancy all girl wants her huband should be with her.She never think this situation will come .In this situation most human being can not control themselves (lost baby and husband jail).It is normal to mad others and harsh voice because you do not know what r you doing .but slowly slowly you will feel ererything what is wrong and what is right. No one wants her husband will be jail.Sadhna slap ranveer and bblam ranveer because of the situation but later she realized that she was wrong.Same thing poor Ragini's condition that husband jail and lost baby.She will realize soon too. what was right . I have feeling coming episode we will see that ragini's realization.

Tell me as I am baffled myself lol.He who was ready to blame his mother and acted rudely with his father,behaved disgustingly with Ragini,ready to throw out Navin and Avni without even thinking about his kids all of a sudden became great,how?Cos he is respecting only one relation amidst all these?If that's the case Ragini is also respecting only one relation-that of her husband,but is wrong why?

As for the sach aur jhoot ka rastha,Ragini always followed it but her role is also like a specimen for various experiments.Sad indeed!

Originally posted by: smitha80

coolkitty_23,its human nature isn't it to look for an easy way out!At that time Ragini was blinded by her pain and all she could think was to be with Ranvir at any cost.WHy talk abt only Ragini here that she should have talked to Sadhana on this,Sadhana could have done it as well,explain to her that she couldn't lie.And they could have put their heads together with that idiotic lawyer DS and thought of something else.There were so many loopholes in that track!But of course all that lack of communication was for the sake of rift to happen.It did and end of story!

Its a known fact which had been said some infinite times,not everyone can be like Sadhana.This is the normal reaction of a lesser mortal!

yeah, definitetly , there were tons and tons of loopholes! Sadhana for one, would find herself tongue in cheek, every single moment someone asked her to do something out of her character. Ragini would almost be the same..seriously this isnt natural normal behavior! Its a serial, its a track I know..but manipulating characters in ways that go way beyond to a point that holds no relationship to reality was not Bidaai! It was a real serial, that hit close to home..and to have destroyed the characters this way is sad! I am only blaming Ragini, and yes I say blaming, for not knowing how her sister is or was. A woman becomes a husband's and her families after marriage, but bonds between sisters, that too that of ragini and sadhana as was shown, seemed to be that of true sisters..
One more thing..why is sadhana's speaking truth a betrayal? Really? I am trying to understand that? bcoz she didnt side with her family and tell a lie? or is it because she failed to live up to their unsatisfiable expectations? You know..when there was no one supporting ragini and ranvir..sadhana was there...not thinking twice about how vasu might feel or wht her husband's family might think..she was there for her sister, keeping her married life aside..i dont think its too much to ask, if ragini would quit hating sadhana and see her for what she is. Does this also mean, that come a weak moment in life, Ragini will turn so negative or out of character that she alienate the people most closest to her? Doesnt she see, how vicious Kaushi and Vasu are? anyways...Bidaai used to be so good..so realistic..i can go on pointing out the blatant loopholes and flaws this serial is now begining to have..and to have completely destroyed ragini's character, one episode at a time, one dialogue at a time, is even more painful...
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