Is ragini really wrong??? (WARNING pg11)

Ohk guys tell me one thing, is Ragini really in this situation? Once just once try and keep urself on her position and see the situation according to her POV. What will u see first? life of ur husband, future of ur husband, sufferings of ur husband or the truth which can destroy everything? And if the one whom u trust the most betrays u at the end, what would u do? Will u still welcome that person with open arms? Wont u be hurt? Wont u feel betrayed? Wont ur behavior towards that person change? And is it really easy to see ur loved one in pain everyday? How would u behave if u know that after all this more sufferings are coming up. Ur future will be at stake, will u still be same towards that person? And one more thing, i have read this numerous times out here that Sadi couldn't lie after taking oath on geeta, tell me one thing didn't we always hear that god exists everywhere, so is it ok to lie anywhere other than holy places? We should only speak truth when there is a holy book is infront of us.

Ragini always supported Sadhna, no matter what others said she was always there for her. When almost everyone was against her for supporting sadhna she was still there with her without bothering about others. So was it really wrong on her part to expect the same in return from sadhna this time? Is it really wrong on her part to think abt her husband's sufferings and his pain before other things?

Dharaa,as I have been saying Ragini being angry and upset with Sadhana is justifiable.I have been seeing so many posts here saying that its only 'one year' and its not as if he is dead and over-acting and reacting all that. and It might be one year for me,for you or for anyone saying that but for the person in love its ETERNITY.That's not so hard to understand,is it?SO as any other human being she relied on SAdhana to bail her husband out!But by saying that I don't want to come across as thinking that what she is doing or saying or behaving is justifiable.Be angry with your sister,go on a moun-vrath and not speak to her but don't belittle her and don't doubt her now of her intentions!BY saying 'you are jealous of my happiness' was taking it too far.I think that dialogue alone destroyed her like anything.And its not getting better either by the looks of it!

Originally posted by: smitha80

Dharaa,as I have been saying Ragini being angry and upset with Sadhana is justifiable.I have been seeing so many posts here saying that its only 'one year' and its not as if he is dead and over-acting and reacting all that. and It might be one year for me,for you or for anyone saying that but for the person in love its ETERNITY.That's not so hard to understand,is it?SO as any other human being she relied on SAdhana to bail her husband out!But by saying that I don't want to come across as what she is doing or saying or behaving is justifiable.Be angry with your sister,go on a moun-vrath and not speak to her but don't belittle her and don't doubt her now of her intentions!BY saying 'you are jealous of my happiness' was taking it too far.I think that dialogue alone destroyed her like anything.And its not getting better either by the looks of it!

Thankx Dharra for starting the topic coz I've been saying the same thing in each and every topic and Smitha sweetie Sadhana slapped Ragini's husband in anger so I think ragini action rite now r justified. People do tend to go a little bit overboard in their anger. I'm not saying that its right but I am a wife and a mother and I can c where Ragini is coming from. Just like I want my husband to be there when my family needs him I want my family to be there as well when he needs them. And Sadhana wasnt there when ranveer or ragini needed her the most.

Di, did she actually say that sadhna is jealous of her happiness and all??? I am nt watching bidaai properly so might have missed it. But di, it happens that whenever a person is angry he/she usually say something which they dont really mean to say but they say all those out of anger and frustration and even in real life it happens. and on top of that ragini is always surrounded with negative people with negative energy and many times the surrounding plays an important role in making one behave in a different manner. Ragini is having a mental block right now. All she can c is ranvir's sufferings and sadi's betrayal right nw. Bt i m sure with time she'll def emerge out to be the best character.

Originally posted by: dharaa

Di, did she actually say that sadhna is jealous of her happiness and all??? I am nt watching bidaai properly so might have missed it. But di, it happens that whenever a person is angry he/she usually say something which they dont really mean to say but they say all those out of anger and frustration and even in real life it happens. and on top of that ragini is always surrounded with negative people with negative energy and many times the surrounding plays an important role in making one behave in a different manner. Ragini is having a mental block right now. All she can c is ranvir's sufferings and sadi's betrayal right nw. Bt i m sure with time she'll def emerge out to be the best character.

How great would that be if all she said was in anger?But its already been few days since she uttered those dialogues and it looks like its taking turn for worse.If anything she realized as soon as she said those dialogues that what she said was wrong(which was a good thing) but didn't act on it (Yes Vasu stopped but if she would have insisted then that would have been 'strong' IMO)and I thought meeting Ranvir would give her some perspective but it enraged her even more and then we get to see 'she was responsible for my miscarrigae' dialogue!

Zarmeen di, u r most welcome di. I really think ragini's actions are justified. She has the right to be angry and we knw wat ragini is and i really dont think one or two dialogs like this would really make me b'lve that she is turning negative.

I am waiting for that day eagerly when she realizes that without Ranvir's help but we beggars can't be choosers(Pardon me for saying this)so we just have to accept Ranvir solving all this again!

Smitha di, in a way sadhna is responsible for the miscarriage. In this whole miscarriage thing ragini is the one who is most at fault but why did these situations arise? It was cuz of sadhna only, it wud have been really good if sadhna discussed the whole thing with ragini but she didnt rather she kept on raising her hopes by saying she'll bring back ranvir and stuff and at the end moment she backed off. Anyone would be shocked. And before ragini could think anything, vasu-kaushi poisoned her mind. Till now she didnt get proper time and chance to think what is right and whats not. I am still hopefull abt ragini.