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Posted: 15 years ago
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Chocolicious(ur name?)lets hope she doesn't utter any more of these dialogues in future.Be angry,but don't bad mouth cos its def not her unless the ct's are planning to change her into another Kaushi!(hope not!)She has already lost my sympathy for saying 'u are jealous of my happiness'dialogue(that astounds me most.Shows she never understood her sister).Let's hope she changes for the better by herself not cos Ranvir wanted her to and def not cos since Ranvir is there with her it doesn't matter any more!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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No comparisons between the sisters in terms of suffering.Ragini miscarried a child.May be one who is a mother or would-be-mother can relate to that sort of sorrow.On the other hand Sadhana lost her mother and father and Ragini can't relate to that either since her parents are alive.Both their sufferings are different!We can't predict who will react in which way unless we are faced with that!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i agree ragini is bit wavering. But she is normal like anyother girl . sadi is truely an angel created by rajan sir i hope ragi comes back to her old self soon cause this recent development is a bit annoying
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ChocoLicious

Ragini is the most unique lead I have ever come across because she is the 'REAL' character with whom almost everyone can connect with very easily.I have already said this in some other post and will say it again,nobody can handle every situation with maturiy.Humans,like us will falter at one point or the other.This incident is a perfect example for that.Every human is born with flaws.It is not correct on one's part to expect someone to do the most favourable thing always because we ourselves cannot do that.Ragini is wrong but how she corrects her mistake is something to look out for.Everbody commits sins,whether it is a Ragini or a Sadhna,Aalekh or Ranvir but how they repent for their sins determines their character.We always learn from our mistakes and the lessons we learn always help us to move forward in life.Ragini should not be doing what she is doing because it is wrong but when have we done the right thing always?I have seen many people's posts in this forum which said,Ragini should have been mature or should have handled herself like Sadhna.How can we say how Sadhna would have reacted if she would have been in a similar situation?We cannot speak for her by saying she would have done this or that because human nature is one of the most unpredictable things in the nature and sometimes situations can also get the better of the person and I have also seen many posts which said,she would have lied in the court had it been Aalekh in the place of Ranvir and once again we cannot speak for her.

Lastly I would say,Ragini is wrong and she should rectify her mistakes,grow as a character.If she doubts Sadhna again(When Sadhna is clearly not at fault)when&if such a situation arises then she would lose my love altogether.

I agree with you...everyone in real life commits mistakes no one is perfect . To err is human .
the important thing is to learn from your mistakes
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ChocoLicious

Ragini is the most unique lead I have ever come across because she is the 'REAL' character with whom almost everyone can connect with very easily.I have already said this in some other post and will say it again,nobody can handle every situation with maturiy.Humans,like us will falter at one point or the other.This incident is a perfect example for that.Every human is born with flaws.It is not correct on one's part to expect someone to do the most favourable thing always because we ourselves cannot do that.Ragini is wrong but how she corrects her mistake is something to look out for.Everbody commits sins,whether it is a Ragini or a Sadhna,Aalekh or Ranvir but how they repent for their sins determines their character.We always learn from our mistakes and the lessons we learn always help us to move forward in life.Ragini should not be doing what she is doing because it is wrong but when have we done the right thing always?I have seen many people's posts in this forum which said,Ragini should have been mature or should have handled herself like Sadhna.How can we say how Sadhna would have reacted if she would have been in a similar situation?We cannot speak for her by saying she would have done this or that because human nature is one of the most unpredictable things in the nature and sometimes situations can also get the better of the person and I have also seen many posts which said,she would have lied in the court had it been Aalekh in the place of Ranvir and once again we cannot speak for her.

Lastly I would say,Ragini is wrong and she should rectify her mistakes,grow as a character.If she doubts Sadhna again(When Sadhna is clearly not at fault)when&if such a situation arises then she would lose my love altogether



Wonderful analysis...👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sadhna's character is unique ..thats what I have written in the post...but she is like a gold standard...Ragini is more like any normal girl, who is sometime very good, sometime a bit waivering, always trying to strike balance, but has more good qualities in her...People like Ragini always need constant guidance in life...Human nature cannot be predicted...even about Sadhna, were we 100% sure that she would speak the truth, but she gathered the courage and spoke what the truth was...by speaking the truth, it never proves that Sadhna is against Ragini...

Ragini is wrong now, just like Vasu... but both of them are not able to digest the pain...If Ragini can be supported and be sympathetic for the fact that she lost her one-month unborn child, the same applies for Vasu, she also is separated from her son and that is whats bringing out the worst side of her character....

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Bad times brings out the best or worst in people. It would be interesting to see how Ragini rectifies her mistakes. Lets see what happens, we can only predict.

Anyways Mamaji wont let Sadi come back to Rajvansh house so easily. Lets see how Alekh will convince his Sasurji.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ChocoLicious

Thank you very much Omshanti1111.😊

If you ask me,even Ragini has set certain standards for each and every one of us which many cannot reach and I think because of the recent times with Sadhna emerging out as a great character,her standards went unnoticed so,I don't think calling her normal when compared to Sadhna would be right.
I am sorry if your intention wasn't comparing the two characters.😔

my intention is not to compare them...no two individuals are same... in terms of suffering, as smitha said, both have gone through them... but one emerged strong and the other one emerged selfish...
Ragini's pain is understood...but we want her to be angry with Sdahna in a way how an elder sister should be, not be a replica of Kaushi or Vasu...
by the way, Ragini's character is more realistic and can be related to girls, this is my word...people are just plagiarising my words and not giving me credit.... not good😛

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