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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hiding the truth is not a lie, but hiding the truth and saying something else inplace of it, is a lie........

Edited by farislove - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think this time it would be better if Sadhana sticks to the truth(Although it would look bit out of character since she always hides some bits not to make her loved ones unhappy.But as the characters seems to be changing why not Sadhana this time)And I do think telling the truth would work out.She can leave out the part where he hit the guy even though he was unconscious.No one knows about it so I hope she doesn't mention about it.
.The public prosecutor seems to be very intimidating and if she hides something in the first place then she has to fill the gaps with lies and PP will have a field day playing with Sadhana and twisting her words and actually making it worse for Ranvir.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: kamuralee



Well said 👏 👏 👏

Yes, very well said 👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
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ragvir 101 ,i am agree with you .please You should write is things in Rajan sir blog too.Then lazy creative will know.
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Originally posted by: lisasandra

ragvir 101 ,i am agree with you .please You should write is things in Rajan sir blog too.Then lazy creative will know.

I agree with u......
@ragvir101: Sorry I don't know ur name, plz post ur post u made here in Rajan Shahi's blog........
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hi zee ,i always agree with you .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: chocolover89

Hi friend,

So I just read the HA update where RS is explaining to the mob of women about why Sadhna cannot lie under oath. Since then, I've been wonderin about this.
Is hiding the truth really a lie? What exaclty is the difference between the two?
Obviously everyone has a different view of what can be termed as a lie and what is not. For some, hiding the truth is not, for others it is. I would love to read about your views on this!
PS. This is not in ANY way a Sadhna bashing or any other character bashing thread, so please do NOT turn it into one. I do not want this topic to closed like the numerous others lately. I just want a peaceful discussion on the difference between lieing and hiding the truth 😃




Lying is something when you intentionally lie for some reason. Hiding the truth is not a lie unless you twist the truth when someone asks for an explanation.

Yes, Sadi has probably lied on some occasions and hid the truth a number of times for a good reason. Sadi has always put her loved ones happiness first but she also has a conscience. On all those occasions she was making a sacrifice for the family and it was her own life at stake. But its very different situation this time.

First of all, its a criminal case. There is a guy who is almost dead just for eve-teasing and it was not for self-defense. No one has a right to take any ones life unless ones own life is in danger. That's why there is a law and order in place.

Secondly, some people can't lie under oath due to religious reasons(as they swear in the name of God) and they follow their conscience. Bhagavad-Gita is the holiest book of hindus. So it could be difficult for a person like Sadi(who has a conscience and also believes in God) to lie after taking the oath. Also it can be a spontaneous thing, like when in the witness-box and under the oath, the mind may not follow the heart and the person end-ups saying the truth.

Lets see how the entire sequence is executed in the show.


Edited by --Anu-- - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hey chocolover 89, Amazing post. That being said, I agree with most of the points being put across in this thread- especially the one put forward by ragvir101. Now, my point is, I agree that this goon was beaten up by Ranvir pretty brutally-since he has not recovered from his coma yet- but the point is, we should not forget its not an innocent guy who the PP is trying to defend- he is at the end of the day a goon who was found eve teasing and in my POV, eve teasing is no small crime- its as punishable an offense as any other and who knows what this eve teasing might have lead to had Ranvir not arrived on time.

Also, we must not forget that this eve teasing carried out by the goon was just a small crime in the grand scheme of things- he was planted in that resort by someone else and I am sure he had even bigger orders to carry out which might have threatened the very life of our dear trio (Aalekh/Sadhna/Ranvir).

So essentially, he is not an innocent guy. And Ranvir, like any other normal guy in the world couldn't see that goon laying his fingers on his bhabhi. The fact it became a serious matter is a different matter altogether.

So I just feel, that even if Sadhna does say the 'so-called truth' in the court , who is she essentially trying to save? And yes, I agree- a lie which is made to save someones life is not really a lie. Even though, if Sadhna does not point out the fact that Ranvir beat this guy even when he was already injured is not lying but just hiding the truth for the greater good. Lets say, that based on Sadhna's admittance of the naked truth, Ranvir does go to jail. How will that make things better? We all know the Rajvansh family will be in mourning. As for the goons family ( if he has one) - how will it help them and the goon himself? He is a crooked guy at the end of the day and it would be just ironic that he doesn't get to pay for the wrong deeds that he himself may be carrying out in his life. (Even though I am no one to comment on whats the right way to pay for ones sins).

Note: I am not bashing any character- this is just my POV, on the current storyline. Thanks! 😃


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Posted: 15 years ago
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it wud b gud n logical if sadna hidez the truth as she iz an exprt in doin it considrin de fact tat she haz done it several timez b4 4 de sake of her luvd onez..😆 n it wud only wrsen the situation if she blurtz out the exact thing...ranvir iz only partialy guilty n here n wat goon did waz rong 2..if she hidez de truth...thn they can save ranvir 4m thiz mudle n can alzo help gonnz famly 4m monitary point of view...gr8 if they wudnt drag thiz thing it wud get ultra boring thn ...😆

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: chocolover89

Hi friend,

So I just read the HA update where RS is explaining to the mob of women about why Sadhna cannot lie under oath. Since then, I've been wonderin about this.
Is hiding the truth really a lie? What exaclty is the difference between the two?
Obviously everyone has a different view of what can be termed as a lie and what is not. For some, hiding the truth is not, for others it is. I would love to read about your views on this!
PS. This is not in ANY way a Sadhna bashing or any other character bashing thread, so please do NOT turn it into one. I do not want this topic to closed like the numerous others lately. I just want a peaceful discussion on the difference between lieing and hiding the truth 😃

Yes dear Choco....for anything successful, the concept of peace plays the core part.

I understand your sentiments. But for me, Sadhna shouldnt say lies. Hiding the truth is sometimes worse than lies, specially after taking an Oath. Tell me, how can you hide a truth when you are asked an specific question, and infront of you is placed a copy of Quran (or your Holy Book, e.g Gita) and you are asked to say everything in your knowledge, with God and His auspicious Holy Book as the witness.

Which truth can you hide? Take this example:

Questioner: Did you drink water today?
Answerer: .... (what can she/her hide here?....she is asked a straight definite question, and must therefore give a definite answer. The court is not a fool that it will take something indefinite). There is either a 'YES' or 'NO' for this. And the stage is not home...its court. And the listener is not any person...the HOLY BOOK, God is brought infront by The Establishment Of Justice (Court) for the people.

Saadhna will try with all her heart to protect her devar.... but .... she is a devoted and darling human being. She is a dew drop of heavenly grace from the realms of sanctity.

Try and understand the situation and circumstances =) ...this will be my 2cents in this issue. =)

Edited by LoneStranger - 15 years ago

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