Bidaai gives us a clear message

I have to celebrate that Bidaai gives us a clear message that inner beauty is more meaning full than outer beauty.

I know what Ragini has been through, due to her rang roop. I had the same experience. My parents were looking for me and every boy I went to see rejected me because of my looks rather than my personality. It hurt so much.

All the boys I has seen wanted a Trophy wife and the mother-in Laws wanted a Trophy daughter-in Law.

I was told by many of friends that I was wonderful person and the right guy would come along. He did he took me what I am and I am very happy.

So Ragini deserves someone like Ranvir after what she has been through humiliation and rejection like me and other girls and boys.

What I am saying the saying is true never judge a book by its cover.

ur right... i hope every gurl understands that.. not only color wise.. but size wise too.. i no many gurls who are so afraid of marriage cuz of that.. i mean in my own family too..

yup...true said....hey brainychild92...i think u meant to say don't just look outer beauty instead look for inner beauty b'coz that wat matters is" inner beaty"

agree .... i agree to it 100%

Well said guys,
The fact is even today there r couples who are together not on the basis of looks but the fact of being with each other.... something really unique seriously... Ragini deserves Ranvir and Ranvir also deserves Ragini who loves him so much... And the way relationship's are potrayed is so beautiful!!

Luv,

Shagun

Originally posted by: dolly_07

yup...true said....hey brainychild92...i think u meant to say don't just look outer beauty instead look for inner beauty b'coz that wat matters is" inner beaty"

outer beauty u can get from cosmetic surgery...but wat about inner beauty...no body can get it in market....

I know, that is why I like this drama...

I have been shunned for my shortcomings one too many times. It hurts so much when someone doesn't want you or makes you feel like you don't add up to someone's expectations. I am getting old but no guy wants to be with me because of my looks. I do wish that I could find my Ranveer...

I hate society for persecuting women for everything under the sun...

Originally posted by: shobha1975

I have to celebrate that Bidaai gives us a clear message that inner beauty is more meaning full than outer beauty.

I know what Ragini has been through, due toher rang roop. I had the same experience. My parents were looking for me and every boyI went to see rejected mebecause ofmy looks rather than my personality. It hurt so much.

All the boys I has seen wanted a Trophy wife and the mother-in Laws wanted a Trophy daughter-in Law.

I was told by many of friends that I was wonderful person and the right guy would come along. He did he took me what I am and I am veryhappy.

So Ragini deserves someone like Ranvir after what she has been through humiliation and rejection like me and other girls and boys.

What I am saying the saying is true never judge a book by its cover.

first of all thnk u very very much for such a wonder ful post!!!!i agree wth u at every word u said

i also hv a dusky skin b'cos of our climate..as we r living in bangladesh....though my mom.dad ang big b r fairer thn me!!!so thre is alwayz a comparision..specially the bujurgz r too much!!..i felt sorry for thm b'cos thy r brainless totally!!..in this 21st century thy r still fighitng for a fair bahuz......duh..shame shame....

my fellowz ,my freindz my relatives all say tht i m a black diamond and queen ....but i know itz mare word for me.....even thy compare me wth kajol !😳

but wht to those ppl who r still in the 10 th century..whrez thy need cliopetraz for their sonz!!!

so through bidaai i wanna say to all auntyz and bhaiaz tht if u r stii looking for a beautyquuuen ..u r going in the wrong path!!..see bidaai and thn change your veiwz like vasu

Hi Folks!

I have been wondering about this since quite sometime now. I am glad that someone did bring this topic up. Though I have been lucky enough to have not gone through this rang roop issue when I was getting married. I did have quite a bit of an experience when my second daughter was born. As a matter of fact my hubby and me were praying for a second girl and one who is dusky. So we were very happy that our prays were answered. Apparently my husband is on the darker side and my second girl had taken up on her. People made me sick by talking how my li'l one would get a complex when she grows up since my elder one is very fair and that she will have low self esteem etc etc. I mean how could people think something like this about a baby. Since then my li'l one who is 19 months now has changed her colour and has become much fairer than my older one. What I am pointing out here is that this problem is so deeply rooted in our society. Though I am living abroad and people look to be quite modern and in time but certain perceptions do not change no matter whatever. When it comes to looking for a girl for their sons, the colour becomes the prime deciding factor. At every instance I end up in arguments with people around but to no avail. It is just difficult to make people look at things in the correct perspective. 😡😡😡