1. Kokila. Her son and daughter in law brought two little girls into this world. As parents they have the right to determine their future. As a grandmother kokila should only be there to offer guidance to her children and grandchildren not run roughshod over their emotions and bully all to her will. Kokila is now atoning for her sins by laying her grand daughters hopes and dreams on the sacrificial altar. Modis form of panchayat where the sins of one family member are dealt out to another, mostly female member of the family. Vidya has not done any wrong except for being carried away by the situation yet she is most likely to suffer. Whereas Kokila will only see the relation with her friend and ignore Vidya's plight.
Gopi is seeing that something is not right but Kokila is not ready to listen despite the remarks made by Gaura. Gopi alone can't stand up to Kokila. Ahem should stop hiding behind Gopi's sari and become the man who stood up to his mother ten years ago. They are his daughters too and the dreams he had for them are his promise to them, instead he has handed guardianship over to his mother without a squeak. Time has now come to stop airing your concerns in private. Evidence is how Dharam and Gaura man handle Meera. A father would not just stand by and let it happen.
Ok, enough essay from me. I should be working. If there are any replies I shall tend to them this evening.
As for the Dharam and Meera thing, if the situation was different then I might have thought otherwise. The cat and mouse scenario is good but knowing Dharam's intentions I'm not going to ship them.