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Posted: 10 years ago
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i normally find a majority of SNS storylines tedious in the past but I am not comfortable with the current storyline and the 'message' it is sending. I'm not too keen on the Dharam - Meera marriage so sorry to all you shippers out there and I will give you my reasons in due course but let me get to my first issue on this storyline:
1. Kokila. Her son and daughter in law brought two little girls into this world. As parents they have the right to determine their future. As a grandmother kokila should only be there to offer guidance to her children and grandchildren not run roughshod over their emotions and bully all to her will. Kokila is now atoning for her sins by laying her grand daughters hopes and dreams on the sacrificial altar. Modis form of panchayat where the sins of one family member are dealt out to another, mostly female member of the family. Vidya has not done any wrong except for being carried away by the situation yet she is most likely to suffer. Whereas Kokila will only see the relation with her friend and ignore Vidya's plight.

Gopi is seeing that something is not right but Kokila is not ready to listen despite the remarks made by Gaura. Gopi alone can't stand up to Kokila. Ahem should stop hiding behind Gopi's sari and become the man who stood up to his mother ten years ago. They are his daughters too and the dreams he had for them are his promise to them, instead he has handed guardianship over to his mother without a squeak. Time has now come to stop airing your concerns in private. Evidence is how Dharam and Gaura man handle Meera. A father would not just stand by and let it happen.
Ok, enough essay from me. I should be working. If there are any replies I shall tend to them this evening.

As for the Dharam and Meera thing, if the situation was different then I might have thought otherwise. The cat and mouse scenario is good but knowing Dharam's intentions I'm not going to ship them.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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😃 Hey Xari 😃 😃
😃 😃 😃 😳 😳 😃 😃 I Concur With You On All Points 😉 😃 Not My Cuppa, Story Line 😳 😆 😉 😳 Well Said On Meera Very Poor Foresight And Whatever The Logic ;' Me Not Comfortable Nor Happy 😔 😳 😳 😳 😃 😃 😃 😉 😆 😆 😉 😆 😆 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree this vidhya marriage is happening to quickly. As a parent I would have wanted her to be educated first and then maybe think about marriage. She is very innocent and childlike and not worldly at all. I am uncomfortable with the speed of the engagement/marriage. I would not wish the same for my daughters. As for Meera/Dharam situation - Meera is only marrying for revenge (from whom is not clear at the moment). It will be fun to see the situations that arise from this marriage as both Meera and Dharam are crazy. I'm totally comfortable with this marriage as Meera wasn't forced into it, she is doing it for her own gains and she is more than capable of fighting her own battles. It seems she might have met her match! Again she should have focused on her studies/career but of course Meera is not the type to care about this things. I am totally looking forward to their marriage.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes, more than Kokila, it should be her son & DIL who should be guiding their children. Ahem's POV is to make them independent before getting them married. Even Gopi wishes the same. However, Ahem gave into Gaura's demands only for the sake of Kokila's friendship with Gaura.

He was not happy when Koki & Gopi considered Gaura's proposal for Meera. He said that Meera should complete her studies & be independent to which Gopi said they won't proceed without Meera's consent.

Ahem did the same in Vidya's case. Both Ahem & Gopi are sacrificing their dreams for their daughters for Kokila's friendship.

Though Vidya is intelligent, she needs to know the world more. Her parents should guide her. Kokila should stop being after everybody's life.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree! All this is kokilas fault for putting her friendship with Gaura above all else.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I do think that Vidya and Meera both shouldn't rush into marriage and first complete education. BUT this is Saathiya we are talking about, it's a show which has never made any sense frankly speaking 😆. They're not going to follow that route cus they want to show drama for trps.
As for Meera and Dharam, I don't think there's anything wrong with it cus Meera has agreed to marry him herself. No one is being forced. Unlike in Gopi and Ahems time where Ahem was actually pressurised to marry Gopi. That was wrong IMO but it's a drama, they had to do that.

Maybe I don't see it as very wrong cus I don't actually take this show seriously like you guys. I just can't take a show seriously where the parents of 20 years olds look like their siblings 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Evidence is how Dharam and Gaura man handle Meera. A father would not just stand by and let it happen.


+1

The way Dharam and Gaura manhandled Meera to spit out the ring and Ahem just stood there watching was disgusting. Ahem and Gopi should have got her to spit out the ring.

Regarding the Meera and Dharam shipping, frankly speaking I don't think there's going to be much of a romantic angle to their relationship. SNS is a saas-bahu show and the romance has always been poorly shown and developed. From what I've seen so far, I think more focus is going to be giving on the saas-bahu pairs: Meera-Vidya and Gaura-Meera.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: touch_of_pink

Evidence is how Dharam and Gaura man handle Meera. A father would not just stand by and let it happen.



+1

The way Dharam and Gaura manhandled Meera to spit out the ring and Ahem just stood there watching was disgusting. Ahem and Gopi should have got her to spit out the ring.

Regarding the Meera and Dharam shipping, frankly speaking I don't think there's going to be much of a romantic angle to their relationship. SNS is a saas-bahu show and the romance has always been poorly shown and developed. From what I've seen so far, I think more focus is going to be giving on the saas-bahu pairs: Meera-Vidya and Gaura-Meera.


Ahem is just a flowerpot, no joke! But if Guara and Dharam hadn't done that then the show wouldn't have that dramatic "action" scene 😆
@Bold Shubh Shubh bolo yaar, I'm only watching it for that 😆

I don't mind the saas bahu part but I'm sure they'll also add in some romance. They did that with Gopi and Ahem I remember. I'm easily pleased anyway. I was satisfied with the secretive stares shared by Meera and Dharam today (even though it wasn't supposed to be romantic) 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: xPalkix


Ahem is just a flowerpot, no joke! But if Guara and Dharam hadn't done that then the show wouldn't have that dramatic "action" scene 😆
@Bold Shubh Shubh bolo yaar, I'm only watching it for that 😆

I don't mind the saas bahu part but I'm sure they'll also add in some romance. They did that with Gopi and Ahem I remember. I'm easily pleased anyway. I was satisfied with the secretive stares shared by Meera and Dharam today (even though it wasn't supposed to be romantic) 😆


I'm sorry. 😳😆

It's just that now I'm very cynical when it comes SNS and romance. I've all but forgotten what Gohem romantic scenes were like. *sigh* Woh be kya din the... ...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: touch_of_pink


I'm sorry. 😳😆

It's just that now I'm very cynical when it comes SNS and romance. I've all but forgotten what Gohem romantic scenes were like. *sigh* Woh be kya din the... ...


Gopi and Ahem had a romantic ish scene today. Persoanlly, I didn't get the same chemistry from Ahem and Gopi after Gia left

I don't think the Saathiya team care much for romance as well but they will at least shower us shippers with little cute bits and bobs. Hopefully...

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