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Posted: 10 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: Xarina


Unfortunately I have to disagree with you both. Sorry. Probably the way that I am seeing it and have experienced for myself. Emotional blackmail can be full on in your face or so subtle that you don't notice until much later on. Compulsion was there otherwise why not get engaged and wait to get married instead of jumping right in. Someone of 19 has not seen the world yet, nor had time to mature. She was without her mother for so many years and that bond was never given the chance to flourish.

Meera is a brat but she is the product of Ahem's ego and inability to tell her the complete truth of why Gopi was absent for so many years. He lied to both girls and to this date has not sat down with Meera to dispel her misconceptions about Gopi.


Because in indian TV soaps marriages take place straight away, there's no waiting around. Need to move on to new generation kitchen politics you see. 😆

I understand what you're saying and I do agree to some extent. But the point I'm trying to make is Vidya does love Shravan. From her conversations and actions, she's very happy she met Shravan and wants to marry him. If the CVs wanted to show she was agreeing to the marriage due to compulsion, they would have clearly shown it this way. But they're not, because they want to present Vidya and Shravan as a couple in love. With Meera entering as her saas, Vidya knows she will be targetted by her and she expects Shravan to support her (according to SBS
/SBB segment). She has that much trust and faith in him. If she had only married due to compulsion, then she wouldn't expect anything from Shravan, would she?

Completely agree with the rest of your post Xarina.

And btw, can I just say, it's so nice to see discussions happening on the forum after so long. 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: xPalkix


Her and Gopi's relationship is irrelevant at the moment. Yes she's at fault but her family also have a hand in it. That's why I said it's not entirely her fault.
She was isolated because everyone was turning against her. They didn't listen to her when she tried to warn them, they locked her away etc Although, Gopi was supporting her sometimes, Meera didn't see it. She always heard and saw things which made her feel left out and not part of the family.


Well, we can't say Gopi's & Meera's relationship is irrelevant. She requested Gopi to stop the wedding. Even Gopi had doubts about Gaura. Meera could have teamed up with Gopi & exposed Gaura in front of all. But it was her hatred & ego which stopped her from doing that. So it is very much related to Vidya-Shravan wedding.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: sharoon3210


Well, we can't say Gopi's & Meera's relationship is irrelevant. She requested Gopi to stop the wedding. Even Gopi had doubts about Gaura. Meera could have teamed up with Gopi & exposed Gaura in front of all. But it was her hatred & ego which stopped her from doing that. So it is very much related to Vidya-Shravan wedding.

But if you look at the relationships, gopi as a 'mother' was concerned for vidya but vidya had told her that she was happy with shravan so she buried her fears, Meera on the other hand is claiming to love vidya yet if reports are believed is going to give her a hard time. For vidyas sake she could have swallowed her pride and team up with gopi but decided to go it alone and make things worse for herself.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: touch_of_pink


Because in indian TV soaps marriages take place straight away, there's no waiting around. Need to move on to new generation kitchen politics you see. 😆

I understand what you're saying and I do agree to some extent. But the point I'm trying to make is Vidya does love Shravan. From her conversations and actions, she's very happy she met Shravan and wants to marry him. If the CVs wanted to show she was agreeing to the marriage due to compulsion, they would have clearly shown it this way. But they're not, because they want to present Vidya and Shravan as a couple in love. With Meera entering as her saas, Vidya knows she will be targetted by her and she expects Shravan to support her (according to SBS
/SBB segment). She has that much trust and faith in him. If she had only married due to compulsion, then she wouldn't expect anything from Shravan, would she?

Completely agree with the rest of your post Xarina.

And btw, can I just say, it's so nice to see discussions happening on the forum after so long. 😊

Like I said if Meera claims to love vidya then why would she target vidya? I don't get it?😕

@ bold. Even I am enjoying seeing the discussions. Makes it worthwhile logging on. I do hope it continues. Perhaps we ought to put more stuff up for debate, serious as well as silly.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sharoon3210



Well, we can't say Gopi's & Meera's relationship is irrelevant. She requested Gopi to stop the wedding. Even Gopi had doubts about Gaura. Meera could have teamed up with Gopi & exposed Gaura in front of all. But it was her hatred & ego which stopped her from doing that. So it is very much related to Vidya-Shravan wedding.


It is relevant but I don't think it's relevant right now because what Meera is doing is not to go against Gopi or target her in anyway. It's to target all the members of the Modi house.
I don't know what's gonna happen with their relationship but I feel Gopi will blame Kokila the most this time. I think she'll go crazy this time and not care about Kokila's feelings. Now that'll be worth watching. Will have to make popcorn on Monday 😆
Edited by xPalkix - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: xPalkix


It is relevant but I don't think it's relevant right now because what Meera is doing is not to go against Gopi or target her in anyway. It's to target all the members of the Modi house.
I don't know what's gonna happen with their relationship but I feel Gopi will blame Kokila the most this time. I think she'll go crazy this time and not care about Kokila's feelings. Now that'll be worth watching. Will have to make popcorn on Monday😆



Do you think Gopi will finally rebel against Maaji? Lol I don't know if that would happen ever in the history of time! I think Gopi will tell koki she hasn't done anything wrong. But who knows! I hope kokila will get her comeuppance. Even better is if Parag and Ahem speak up against Koki. But it won't happen. Koki is Modi house boss.
I can't wait to see how they find out what Meera has done! Who will phone them to tell them I wonder?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: xPalkix


It is relevant but I don't think it's relevant right now because what Meera is doing is not to go against Gopi or target her in anyway. It's to target all the members of the Modi house.
I don't know what's gonna happen with their relationship but I feel Gopi will blame Kokila the most this time. I think she'll go crazy this time and not care about Kokila's feelings. Now that'll be worth watching. Will have to make popcorn on Monday 😆



@bold: My dear, if Meera had teamed up with Gopi to expose Gaura, in what way she is going against Gopi? She did not want Vidya's marriage to take place with Shravan. She didn't join Gopi because of her pride & hatred towards her. So in no way it is irrelevant. Even Gopi didn't want to give Vidya to Gaura. But it is only for Vidya's happiness, she agreed.

Gopi might blame Kokila if Vidya is not happy in her married life & even Ahem will support Gopi. As for Shravan, even if we take him as a nice guy, he does not have guts to stand for the right as he is a granny's boy. He won't be able to defend Vidya or stand for her that much against Gaura.

Even Dharam is a mamma's boy.

Awaiting for Monday's episode.😆

Edited by sharoon3210 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Xarina

Like I said if Meera claims to love vidya then why would she target vidya? I don't get it?😕

@ bold. Even I am enjoying seeing the discussions. Makes it worthwhile logging on. I do hope it continues. Perhaps we ought to put more stuff up for debate, serious as well as silly.


I think Meera is pretending to have joined hands with Gaura and Dharam and her real intention for entering that house is to protect Vidya from Gaura. Now if Meera was not there, then Gaura would probably go at any lengths to torture Vidya.
Let's see how this unfolds, but I don't think Meera will physically harm Vidya in anyway.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ninag


Do you think Gopi will finally rebel against Maaji? Lol I don't know if that would happen ever in the history of time! I think Gopi will tell koki she hasn't done anything wrong. But who knows! I hope kokila will get her comeuppance. Even better is if Parag and Ahem speak up against Koki. But it won't happen. Koki is Modi house boss.
I can't wait to see how they find out what Meera has done! Who will phone them to tell them I wonder?


Yes I do. She has to man! It's all Kokila's fault for being overly blind. I think it's time Gopi stands up for her family cus Ahem is not going to do much. I think Kokila herself will apologise.

That's going to be super fun to watch. I think they'll search Meera's room and get worried or they'll probably not even bother cus no one seemed to miss Meera until Vidya asked to see her. Either Vidya will tell them and they'll go to Vidya's house and see Meera as the new bahu or Meera and Dharam will surprise them themselves. Whatever happens, it's very exciting!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sharoon3210



@bold: My dear, if Meera had teamed up with Gopi to expose Gaura, in what way she is going against Gopi? She did not want Vidya's marriage to take place with Shravan. She didn't join Gopi because of her pride & hatred towards her. So in no way it is irrelevant. Even Gopi didn't want to give Vidya to Gaura. But it is only for Vidya's happiness, she agreed.

Gopi might blame Kokila if Vidya is not happy in her married life & even Ahem will support Gopi. As for Shravan, even if we take him as a nice guy, he does not have guts to stand for the right as he is a granny's boy. He won't be able to defend Vidya or stand for her that much against Gaura.

Even Dharam is a mamma's boy.

Awaiting for Monday's episode.😆


I never said she's going against Gopi. She's going against the whole Modi Bhawan. I'm saying it's not relevant right now (IMO) because she's not trying to target Gopi specifically as her motive is to take revenge from all of them. And more importantly, to save Vidya I think. If Meera was doing this just for the soul purpose of putting Gopi down then yes, you'd be right. But she's not. She even tried to coax Gopi to stop the marriage but that didn't work. That's why I'm saying their relationship is not relevant at the moment because it's not Meera vs Gopi, it's Meera vs Modi family.
They'll probably focus on Meera and Gopi's relationship soon though.

As for Shravan, I think he's a dark horse. He truly seems to love Vidya and I don't think he'll tolerate injustice with her. He even says he doesn't want to stay in the house when they see Meera plus, he's always stood up for Gopi despite knowing Guara won't like it. He's growing bones.

Dharam is ma ka ladla but he has guts. I'm relieved that his character is not the one to keep quiet and wait for approval to talk. He's a firecracker 😃
Edited by xPalkix - 10 years ago

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