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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: skanthan

Sara014,

I totally agree with what you are saying. If I was in Paridhis place and Kokila abused me like that, I would have punched her square in the face. Aree! Paridhi is a child, her intentions are good and well meaning.

Also, if I was married to some lady, I wouldn't want to live with her parents and likewise, she won't want to live with mine. I wish that someone would bruise Kokilas ego so bad that she will be ashamed to show her face to anyone.

Ahem is such a hypocrite. When Kokila was insulting Paridhis father, Ahem was silent. But when Paridhi and Gopi spoke against Kokila, Ahem got angry. Oh, so his mom can talk against others, but, no one can talk against her? Yeah, whatever. It is people like Kokila and Ahem who make all Indian people look bad.

In all actuality, no one should talk wantonly to others period and that applies also to Kokila and Ahem!



Very well said, but can the creatives stop Kokila from shouting the same can be said in a low tone.

She has been shouting for the past two weeks and why is it that she thinks that she is always right. This time she is totally wrong and acts like a low caste woman. This is not how a cultured woman acts. Ahem is another one a mama's boy no need to say more about this.

PLEASE STOP KOKILA FROM SHOUTING ANY FURTHER our ears are hurting from her loud voice.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..RamKiJanaki..

Well it was wrong of Paridhi because she was going to leave Jigar's children behind and only take Jigar. If she wants to marry a man who has children, she must be willing to take care of the children too. They just recently lost a mother and can't lose a father too. Also, Jigar doesn't want to leave. Paridhi forcefully married him and forced marriages are wrong. He is willing to give her a chance but that doesn't mean she should separate him from the family he loves and who loves him. In India, marriage is not just between two people for them to abandon everyone else. It's between two families. Jigar comes with Tolu and Molu and Paridhi clearly said she has no plans to be a mother to them or "allow" them into her household. She's a selfish girl!

Also, joint families are quite common in Indian society. It's a cultural thing and for you, it might seem strange, but in India it's not strange at all. Nowadays, most people do live in nuclear families but joint families also exist. Personally, I feel joint families are a very beautiful concept and I would love to live in a huge family with aunts, uncles and cousins supporting each other. However, if the joint family is like the Modi family, then I'd be the first one out. 😆


I have never lived in a joint family, but I would rather not have a family than have one like the Modis.

They just are so crazy.


Yes, forced marriages are definitely wrong, but Kokila should definitely stop the ego battle. Where does Gopi come into the picture with Pari? Why to punish her?


We definitely need a person like Pari to put some sense into Koki.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: skanthan

Sara014,

I totally agree with what you are saying. If I was in Paridhis place and Kokila abused me like that, I would have punched her square in the face. Aree! Paridhi is a child, her intentions are good and well meaning.

Also, if I was married to some lady, I wouldn't want to live with her parents and likewise, she won't want to live with mine. I wish that someone would bruise Kokilas ego so bad that she will be ashamed to show her face to anyone.

Ahem is such a hypocrite. When Kokila was insulting Paridhis father, Ahem was silent. But when Paridhi and Gopi spoke against Kokila, Ahem got angry. Oh, so his mom can talk against others, but, no one can talk against her? Yeah, whatever. It is people like Kokila and Ahem who make all Indian people look bad.

In all actuality, no one should talk wantonly to others period and that applies also to Kokila and Ahem!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: skanthan

Sara014,

I totally agree with what you are saying. If I was in Paridhis place and Kokila abused me like that, I would have punched her square in the face. Aree! Paridhi is a child, her intentions are good and well meaning.

Also, if I was married to some lady, I wouldn't want to live with her parents and likewise, she won't want to live with mine. I wish that someone would bruise Kokilas ego so bad that she will be ashamed to show her face to anyone.

Ahem is such a hypocrite. When Kokila was insulting Paridhis father, Ahem was silent. But when Paridhi and Gopi spoke against Kokila, Ahem got angry. Oh, so his mom can talk against others, but, no one can talk against her? Yeah, whatever. It is people like Kokila and Ahem who make all Indian people look bad.

In all actuality, no one should talk wantonly to others period and that applies also to Kokila and Ahem!

Kokila is the biggest hypocrite in the whole show. She is practising double standards. She is never respectful to her mother in law or her elder co-sister. But she expects her bahu's to give her utmost respect. She never allows her husband to utter a word but her DIL should respect her son and always follow him. She dictates whether the daughter in law of her co- sister should live in the house or not. But she will not allow her elder co sister to speak about her DIL.
She is always raising her voice and shouting at the top of her voice but she expects everyone else to be soft spoken and meek.
She said that she has always stood by her DIL till date and will sever that relationship now.
In all the earlier episodes after Meera's disappearance she never stood by her DIL. Even after her DIL returned to the family after many years she still went to the extent of getting her son married to her DIL's own sister. What values and vows is she speaking of
Initially when Gopi was trying to expose Paridhi and send her out it was only Kokila who stood in the way. Now she has totally turned against Paridhi and making a mountain out of her even small mistakes. Now she went to the extent of severing the relationship with her DIL just because she asked her brother in law to take his wife along.
Ahem is one of the most spineless character seen in recent times. He never uses his judgement and acts as per his mother's wishes whether she is right or wrong. He never respects his wife or his father.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I totally get what you are saying, MADHYAMAVATHI.

Kokila is a big time hypocrite and dictator. She expects her bahus to be respectful and she is being disrespectful herself. And Ahem is a spineless coward. When Kokila was yelling and screaming at Paridhi and Paridhis father, everyone, including Ahem was silent. But the minute anyone speaks against Kokila, Ahem gets angry. I feeling giving him such a tight slap. I do not like him.

When Kokila does not respect others, how can she expect others to be respectful?! I hope that towards the end of this serial, Kokila will get a good telling off by everyone.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: khushi_shankar

You completely wrote what I wanted to say. Agree with you 100%. I do not take any crap from men either.




Oh, please do not be so harsh on poor Gopi. She is exactly like my mom with Ahem being just like my dad.


Consequently, women like Kokila do definitely exist. One such woman is my Dadi. She is completely like Kokila in terms of how she treats my mom and how she wants her son to always serve her demands.


I would be the Vidya who tried to put sense into her mother but then just gave up this whole impossible task.


A show of Sathiya happens live in my house all the time.




P.S. This is all true, and I jsut thought I would share it since your post came so close to home for me.




I also know some women who are like Kokila. One lady from Fiji who I know is the worst! Oh my God! When she is yelling, her voice is so loud. One day when I was at her house, I was sitting on the upper level of the house and I could hear her clear as day yelling at someone in Hindi. I was trying not to laugh because I knew that if I do, she might hear me and I will be in big trouble!

Yeah, many such people exist in all places and basically they act like that because they know they can get away it and no one will stop them from doing so.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: k-kimya



Very well said, but can the creatives stop Kokila from shouting the same can be said in a low tone.

She has been shouting for the past two weeks and why is it that she thinks that she is always right. This time she is totally wrong and acts like a low caste woman. This is not how a cultured woman acts. Ahem is another one a mama's boy no need to say more about this.

PLEASE STOP KOKILA FROM SHOUTING ANY FURTHER our ears are hurting from her loud voice.



The last part about Kokilas loud voice is too funny! I have heard so many loud mouths who are like Kokila and when they start yapping, I want to duct tape their mouths shut. Though there were a few loud mouths who I found more amusing than annoying. 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: skanthan

Sara014,

I totally agree with what you are saying. If I was in Paridhis place and Kokila abused me like that, I would have punched her square in the face. Aree! Paridhi is a child, her intentions are good and well meaning.

Also, if I was married to some lady, I wouldn't want to live with her parents and likewise, she won't want to live with mine. I wish that someone would bruise Kokilas ego so bad that she will be ashamed to show her face to anyone.

Ahem is such a hypocrite. When Kokila was insulting Paridhis father, Ahem was silent. But when Paridhi and Gopi spoke against Kokila, Ahem got angry. Oh, so his mom can talk against others, but, no one can talk against her? Yeah, whatever. It is people like Kokila and Ahem who make all Indian people look bad.

In all actuality, no one should talk wantonly to others period and that applies also to Kokila and Ahem!


I agree with u



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Let's hope that soon, Kokila will get her ego bruised really badly. It is time to put a muzzle on Kokila. 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: skanthan



Let's hope that soon, Kokila will get her ego bruised really badly. It is time to put a muzzle on Kokila. 😆


yes kokila really needs a bahu like pari who can give correct answer..And skanthan if u really obser pari burst out her frustation to kokila and stood up just because she knew she is right this time else pari also have punishment like gopi...but gopi didnt do any mistake and she is facing rejection from her.

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