Kokila's ego - Page 2

Originally posted by: ninag

What???? Paridhi deserves a second chance??? After she sexually assaulted Jigs?? After she conned him into marriage a matter of days after his wife died??? After she admitted she is only interested in him and wants to seperate him from his kids??? After she tried to break Gopis leg??? After all the other stuff she's done (too much to mention). At least Radha has an excuse - she is mentally ill. Paridhi has no right to be in the house she conned her way in and now they are trying to show her character all mahan and trying to be good...would you give someone who allowed your family member to be drugged then slept with them??? Absolutely sick.

In my opinion, Jigar deserves neither Radha nor Paridhi. Good grief people, his wife died just weeks ago! Any normal man would be grieving for a long time, realistically at least for a year if not more! Why can't Jigar just grieve in peace with his children? Why does he HAVE to be married to either Radha or Paridhi? Neither of them is appropriate to be his wife.

Originally posted by: ninag

Err I know perfectly well how western culture works thank you I'm born and bred in the uk. However this is not an episode of Eastenders or Hollyoaks. It is an indian serial made for india. Most indian families in the uk also remain joint families or at least the eldest son stays with and looks after his parents. Seems like your in the minority liking Paridha. Your not Lovey Sasan by any chance? 😆

Originally posted by: skanthan

There are also extended families in Western countries as well. They are rare, but, they do exist. 😊 In western culture, a marriage is between a man and a woman. When a person gets married, they get married to the other person, not to the persons family.

I don't think the person who opened this thread was insulting the Indian family system and neither was I. We were just saying in this part of the world, most married people in where we are from won't want to live with their in-laws. I sure wouldn't if I was married to some woman. I do like my privacy. 😉

Also, I missed the part of Pari chasing Jigs when Rashi was still alive. Yeah, that is weird. Sorry! 😳

But, I still think that deep down, Pari is good and well meaning. She is just immature and her wrong actions are merely a cry for help due to her not having a mother. 😳

Such a crap drama plzzz get rid of it!! This kokila makes this drama so crap!!!!

Originally posted by: Sara014

I'm from the UK too, but you don't sound like it, because everyone I know here, is for Paridi now and rooting against Radha, have you even seen her face? It's butters lol.

And what does 'Sasan' mean?😕You'll have to speak in pure English with me, otherwise I won't click on lol.

Now now, no need to become sensitive, I was just stating how frustrated I am with Kokila really, at the end of the day it is ONLY a show right? It's as important as a spec of dust in my life.

Ninag was insulting me. I think we should just stop responding to him. He just wants to prove his point that he is right about Paridhi and we are wrong. Lovey Sasan is the name of the actress who plays the role of Paridhi.

Originally posted by: skanthan

Ninag was insulting me. I think we should just stop responding to him. He just wants to prove his point that he is right about Paridhi and we are wrong. Lovey Sasan is the name of the actress who plays the role of Paridhi.

Yeah, let's just ignore him. I am a man myself and never talk down to women even if they talk down to me first. I will get angry, no doubt. But never to the point of insults.

Ninag does seem to be a mans name.

Originally posted by: skanthan

Yeah, let's just ignore him. I am a man myself and never talk down to women even if they talk down to me first. I will get angry, no doubt. But never to the point of insults.

Ninag does seem to be a mans name.

You completely wrote what I wanted to say. Agree with you 100%. I do not take any crap from men either.

Oh, please do not be so harsh on poor Gopi. She is exactly like my mom with Ahem being just like my dad.

Consequently, women like Kokila do definitely exist. One such woman is my Dadi. She is completely like Kokila in terms of how she treats my mom and how she wants her son to always serve her demands.

I would be the Vidya who tried to put sense into her mother but then just gave up this whole impossible task.

A show of Sathiya happens live in my house all the time.

P.S. This is all true, and I jsut thought I would share it since your post came so close to home for me.