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Rucha Mulay

@RuchaMulay

Voyager

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Posted: 11 years ago

#71

OMG! Try to put yourselves in Gopi's shoes for a while TM!

If someone blames you of being responsible for your own child's death, knowing you to be the most diligent and careful person at home, knowing how shattered you must be feeling after losing your child, knowing you have always danced to their tunes all your married life, would you want to stay with them? Would you want to share your rest of life with them?

What do you mean there were just hard words? What do you mean they did not ask her to leave? Tell me would you WANT to live with them any more, had you been Gopi?

OK the reasons Gopi gave sound lame, I agree. The CVs should have given a bit more spine to Gopi here and made her say - "First I was so sad that Meera was lost to us. And on top of that I was angry with you all for blaming me for Meera's death. I was shattered to the core by the allegations you made. Thus I was in no mood to share anything on that day and I was disgusted to stay here any longer. So I left you all without a word! you guys deserved it!"

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risha8

@risha8

Inactive

Posted: 11 years ago

#72

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
The blame of the Modis that she is responsible for Meera's death is wrong

but

whatever Gopi did in matter of Vidya is SUPER WRONG

The Modis did NOT throw her out , revealed today

Kolila did NOT ask her to leave

there were angry words thats all

all were upset over a child's death and shaken

they may be unfair but no one asked her to leave

leaving husband was HER decision

not telling him of pregnancy was HER decision

not telling even own maika was HER decision

she gave rubbish reasons for not telling about a crucial fact like pregnancy

it seems i did not want u guys to think i was compensating

is this a bloody reason

how ridiculous

what do her stupid assumptions have to do with telling important facts

and it seems i was gonna tell her and bring her to u when she became a bit big

huh ????????

one episode

one episode and how the tables have turned

Whatever Ahem said to her except the blame of killing Meera was right

i am taking child away just as you took her away from me

she knows only u as mother coz of YOU

did u think of my feeings that i would like to hold her or love her

to top it Gopi was playing victim and joining hands and making Ahem out to be a monster

please don't remove my gussa on child , treat her well etc

when did he ever treat kids bad

and why should everything be about u

i lost all sympathy for Gopi today

and she is telling Ahem i will take my daughter back

Gopi needs a reality check

Vidya should be shared by both parents , she has been unfair to Ahem and Vidya both all due to foolish bullpucky assumptions

death of a child often causes rifts between spouses but she should have stayed there and not deprived the child of her father and him of his daughter , so what if father was cold to her

or taken a divorce and shared custody

but what was this rubbish

never felt i would feel sorry for Ahem .😆

i think it a mistake by cv's coz b4 leap koki made her to go out its koki's fault and gopi tried to tell it by she could'nt coz everytime it was ruined by radha who wanted to kill meera so gopi couldnt tell it

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 11 years ago

#73

Thats what i am saying ...the Modis coild not kick her out of the child's life whatever the case .

Since the child was an infant that time and needed a mother , she would get sole custody for 5 years with Ahem having rights to visit off and on .

After 5 years there would be another hearing where court would see the best interests of the child , the parent who earned most , the willingness of the father to take responsibility . If Ahem insisted on sole custody , there would be a court battle in which 70% of the time court would decide on shared custody .

Come what may , the Modis cannot deny Gopi's participation as a mother in Vidya's life .

But what she did amounts to legal kidnap , yes . Keeping quiet about the pregnancy , quietly staying with baby elsewhere , never mentioning the father is viewed strictly by courts , if they show anything else in SNS its false .

SNS won't go to court level . SNS will show Vidya running away and Gopi getting an entry in Modi house and the thawing of Koki Ahem by daily interaction and ultimately them hearing Radha's truth and Koki redeemed some way and My Gopi Vahu again .

But

Ahem has missed out for 8 years on holding his little one , nothing can give it back .

Even where children fall sick there r blames in the house , parents often blame the other saying , how could u give him an ice cream , his common cold is all bcoz of u , how could u let him go to the picnic without a cap what if he had a sun stroke , how could u be that negligient

here child died , the father witnessed it and froze , blamed and for that he got 8 years of missing out on his second child

Gopi can get back all she wants in SNS but she needs to apologize . The apology should not be for accepting something like Meera's accident which was not her fault but for something that was actually her fault . It will not be enough if Koki and Ahem are the only ones to apologise for their unfair blame , unfair actions too need an apology .

Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 11 years ago

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risha8

@risha8

Inactive

Posted: 11 years ago

#74

i dont agree with you coz when koki clearly told her to leave and never meet her and family what will she do??? she is not completely at fault but being a single mother how did she spent her life is still unknown and how did she reached there?? who supported her during that tough time??

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 11 years ago

#75

Koki did not tell her to leave . Neither did Ahem . They blamed her for Meera's death , leaving was her decision , clearly shown . Being a hidden single parent was her choice , father was not unwilling to take responsibilty . Rest i have said in all my posts .

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risha8

@risha8

Inactive

Posted: 11 years ago

#76

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Koki did not tell her to leave . Neither did Ahem . They blamed her for Meera's death , leaving was her decision , clearly shown . Being a hidden single parent was her choice , father was not unwilling to take responsibilty . Rest i have said in all my posts .

but b4 leap koki has thrown her out of the house when rashi and all were crying

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 11 years ago

#77

No , they showed a blame and not the actual leaving action

in yesterday's episode they showed the whole thing . Koki specifically mentioned i never told u to get out , leaving was ur decision .

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ashfaqmiyaann

@Anees.

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#78

Order Order ye case ki karwahi hum ...

aage ke episodes dekh ne ke baad karenge 😆

case dismissed for 1 hr

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Suresh

@suresh555

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#79

Gopi was 100 % wrong at everything mentioned by the OP. However now even Ahem and Koki are acting illogical. They both overlooked one fact, what Vidya said. Vidya wanted both her parents together like all other kids. Why are they not thinking of Vidya? They could keep Gopi in the house as Vidya's mom and not Ahem's wife until Ahem and Gopi solve their issues

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 11 years ago

#80

🤣

Urmila was dancing around Radha and Jigar was zapped to see latest antic of saas🤣

Gopi's latest wise [ ?????????] assumption

You had full parivaaar so i had MY child [ and that justifies me in not telling of the child .]

Wives of the world have a full right not to tell fathers of pregnancies coz it seems they have their families .

She hedged all answers by bringing up Meera . When Ahem said he was without child for 8 years she said even i have been without Meera for 8 years .

What does being without Vidya for 8 years have to do with being without Meera for 8 years .

And Gopi needs a reality check when she says MERI BACHI . Was a sperm required or no ?

so in a nutshell let me sum up the wow assumptions

you guys would have thought Vidya was replacement for Meera so i didn't tell

anyways i was gonna introduce her parivaar to her when she grew up more [ what is this age only the wise Gopi knows]

Ahemji had his full immediate family so it is only right he lives without his child while i hog it quietly all to myself

Wow .

Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 11 years ago