Gopi is wrong - Page 7

Originally posted by: Leki

Gopi was not wrong either when she walked away or when she hide the truth abt Vidya's existence... for the 1st time in her life she thought about herself..thought wat would happen if she lose vidya... we have seen Gopi thnkn she was sure Modis will accept Vidya bt she doubted whether dey vl accept her.. so she became little selfish coz she couldnt live without her daughter ..Vidya is all she have.. As a mother and human being she is right but as a wife she is wrong..he hide truth from husband...

Koki or Ahem might nt have told Gopi literal sense to leave but their actions nd accusing her was clear indication dat dey dnt have anything to do with her... Gopi was broken nd with no support wat do you expect her to stay there and hear all hurtful words since she s carrying Ahem's child.. one thing is for sure when she left it might nt hv crossed to her that she dnt inform Ahem or Modis abt her pregnancy whn she realised all she thought was they accused me of Meeras death they vl take vidya from me... Gopi was being human than Mahaan which she usually is

i agree she was being selfish for hersef gopi was being human for the first time in a long while. she has bowed bend backwards did somersaults for everyone else but her self she made the right decision.

yes gopi was wrong in not telling them about vidya.

but while blaming gopi and being angry at gopi , if ahem and kokila have the excuse of suffering from a huge loss, being in depression etc

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

but while blaming gopi and being angry at gopi , if ahem and kokila have the excuse of suffering from a huge loss, being in depression etc

A mistake like this which involved future of the child ? She could have done any mistake , they did unfair blame , she could have gone to maika or yelled back but THIS ?

Poorva , she took decision on her own in the Kinjal being a suspect thing and decided to go to jail for life leaving her daughter Meera . Ahem pleaded with her to at least think of Meera but she was stubborn , she neither thought of Ahem nor Meera

same way she neither thought of Ahem nor Vidya but only from her pov , she has this habit of taking decisions on her own and she is justified as being human for once when an unfair blame on Ahem's part in extreme grief is not regarded as human but so inhuman that he is flogged for eternity

i myself was of that opinion till i genuinely thought Modis threw her out . But fact is they did not . She left on her own . Now its being said that their talk was equal to throwing out and that her mistake is human . I don't agree with either . She will now start ranting Maa dialogues and brush her mistakes under the carpet .

i was also under the opinion that modis threw her out but if you look at the flash back actions are louder than words they stayed in the foyer area near the door they did not go inside they just started the blame game, i do agree with you that gopi should have told them. i feel there is more to this equation than meets the eye.

Can anyone correct a wrong by doing another wrong thing?

Isn't that what Ahem is doing by saying Vidya doesn't need her mother? Of all the people, Ahem - the same one who doesn't open his mouth in front his mother even when he is in his 30s? If after being all grown up and all that if he still needs 'his mom' how justified is he to decide Vidya doesn't need hers??

Nothing else to add abut who is right or who is wrong!!!

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

but while blaming gopi and being angry at gopi , if ahem and kokila have the excuse of suffering from a huge loss, being in depression etc

A mistake like this which involved future of the child ? She could have done any mistake , they did unfair blame , she could have gone to maika or yelled back but THIS ?

Poorva , she took decision on her own in the Kinjal being a suspect thing and decided to go to jail for life leaving her daughter Meera . Ahem pleaded with her to at least think of Meera but she was stubborn , she neither thought of Ahem nor Meera

same way she neither thought of Ahem nor Vidya but only from her pov , she has this habit of taking decisions on her own and she is justified as being human for once when an unfair blame on Ahem's part in extreme grief is not regarded as human but so inhuman that he is flogged for eternity

i myself was of that opinion till i genuinely thought Modis threw her out . But fact is they did not . She left on her own . Now its being said that their talk was equal to throwing out and that her mistake is human . I don't agree with either . She will now start ranting Maa dialogues and brush her mistakes under the carpet .

Originally posted by: kitty25

Just think about the scenario...if she stayed back in MM after the birth of the baby they wouldn't have let Gopi touch the baby saying all sorts of things and making her more guilty so it's better she went away in my POV

I totally agree with you ...That is why goi left ...and koki like to taunt people and she would have done this to gopi all her life...

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

It was Ahem's choice that Gopi means nothing as a wife even if she was not pregnant. He had the choice to go look for her. We do not know if he did.

Yes. Ahem would have taken action if Gopi had revealed to be pregnant like he took action today. Gopi would have been the surrogate of her own child. More abuse and more taunts when she gives birth.

Ahem had 8 years to come to terms with his grief and see it from another's side.. The loss, the urge to go away. He chose to stay angry instead.

He chose to give in to his mother's demand for another marriage even when he was so obviously angry and against the decision.

He chooses now to separate his child from the only parent she has known for 8 years. Can he guarantee that he would not have done this 8 years ago too?

gopi would hVE NO say in vidya care...koki would have kick gopi outafter the baby was born

Originally posted by: vikiliksfan

And i think she did right.
Ahem and koki does not deserve to enjoy having a kid. How dare can they think that gopi has killed meera. i just wanna slap both of them.
Mr ahem modi used to love her so it means he must have known her personally still he thinks that she would do something like that. They deserved to be punished Stupid people. I love nazim but i m not happy with his character

wonder what is going to happen when koi -ahem find out what really happened...

Originally posted by: ANJ4

gopi would hVE NO say in vidya care...koki would have kick gopi outafter the baby was born

You are right, this might have happened, BUT if it had, Gopi would have had valid evidence to file a custody case against the modis. No matter how rich one is, they cannot simply tell a mother to leave. Gopi could have filed a custody case and she would have WON it too, had this happened. Then she could have raised Vidya telling her who her father is, and why he is not in her life. She could have given the child facts instead of hiding them. The situation would have been different. She could have even gotten a restraining order against the Modis if they tried to kidnap Vidya.

Simply running away in her pregnancy and hiding the knowledge of the child is not legally right. It's considered kidnap and no court would accept Gopi's explanation.