Ok they did not tell Gopi to go but did anyone tell her to stay? That what happened was a tragic accident? Nope. Instead it was you lost your daughter. You were careless. You are responsible. Even without a malevolent sister in the equation has anyone tried to look after a toddler? You need eyes in the back of your head.
Xarina , its HER life with HER family , why should she base her reactions on the sympathy , blames , support or indifference of others in the house ?
Who is her real marital family ?
Ahem's parents and Ahem .
The reaction of Ahem's father is not known . Kokila was upset and so was Ahem coz both witnessed the horror .
Fair unfair on one side , lets agree on one thing , they DID witness a horror ?
Ahem DID go crazy with grief ?
From the horror scene they went to the house and in ONE blame game session she told i am ready to accept the blame , turned her heel and left without informing them of the second pregnancy and is today saying u guys would have said it was a compensation of sorts and anyways i was gonna bring her when she became slightly big ?
After a DEATH of a CHILD , that too in THIS way surely every house has its share of squabbles and blame games ?
Who knows , with the birth of Vidya all may have cooled down and come out of the grief that was wrecking them and making them angry and unfair but were they given the chance ?
They remained frozen in that point for 8 long years like zombies , till the mother in Kokila stirred a little for her son and she decided to re settle him before she died .
Kokila died long back . But a mother does not die , the spirit lives . I know today all hate her but i am talking of her not as a mother in law but a mother .
And her love for Ahem and his kids cannot be doubted .
One unfair blame made in grief is eqivalent to 8 years of missing out on the childhood of a baby ...this is the karmic punishment for Ahem for getting angry with Gopi ?
This is the karmic punishment for Koki who would have not become a zombie if she saw another grand child in front of her ?
And did she really give it time ? She left after one blame ! Did she stay and endure for days or something ? The family had just come from witnessing the horror and nobody was in the right frame of mind !
Her going away solidified their anger . Her staying on and sharing the news would be a balm on their torn hearts is what i feel .
Anupamaa
Kabhi Neem Neem Kabhi Shahad Shahad
