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poorva

@poorvab

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#81

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
but while blaming gopi and being angry at gopi , if ahem and kokila have the excuse of suffering from a huge loss, being in depression etc

A mistake like this which involved future of the child ? She could have done any mistake , they did unfair blame , she could have gone to maika or yelled back but THIS ?

Poorva , she took decision on her own in the Kinjal being a suspect thing and decided to go to jail for life leaving her daughter Meera . Ahem pleaded with her to at least think of Meera but she was stubborn , she neither thought of Ahem nor Meera

same way she neither thought of Ahem nor Vidya but only from her pov , she has this habit of taking decisions on her own and she is justified as being human for once when an unfair blame on Ahem's part in extreme grief is not regarded as human but so inhuman that he is flogged for eternity

i myself was of that opinion till i genuinely thought Modis threw her out . But fact is they did not . She left on her own . Now its being said that their talk was equal to throwing out and that her mistake is human . I don't agree with either . She will now start ranting Maa dialogues and brush her mistakes under the carpet .

well yes i hate that habit of hers that she takes such decisions which involve others' lives as well. thats true.

and no i dont think ahem too needs to be flogged for eternity.

its just i feel that the situation was such that the grief and pain made both parties take decisions they would not normally take , so if ahem and kokila have that as an excuse so why not gopi.

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 11 years ago

#82

Poorva i would have agreed with u but this concerned a child's life . Its not a return unfair blame or a sari .

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poorva

@poorvab

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#83

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Poorva i would have agreed with u but this concerned a child's life . Its not a return unfair blame or a sari .

i know i know. i completely agree its not a small thing, and ahem had full right to know about his daughter.

but i'm trying to see from gopi's point of view, she was all alone, noone had even a percent of care for her feelings, n she made the decision whatver came to her mind. i'm not saying it is right but i dont feel it right to blame her so much , thats just what i think.

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Janaki

@RamKiSeeta

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Posted: 11 years ago

#84

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Gopi can get back all she wants in SNS but she needs to apologize . The apology should not be for accepting something like Meera's accident which was not her fault but for something that was actually her fault . It will not be enough if Koki and Ahem are the only ones to apologise for their unfair blame , unfair actions too need an apology .

CVs will definitely not make Gopi apologize. 🥱 She is the mahaan lady of the show who can never do wrong. Ideally, both sides should repent for their mistake and beg for apology from the other, but no, it'll only be Ahem and Kokila's redemption, because Gopi is perfect and always will be perfect.

Gopi's arguments today made no sense. She could have had HER immediate family too, but her mom and dad meant nothing to her. She left them also, though they never refused to give her shelter, so Gopi has no right to say she had no one, when she never even went to her parents for support.

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pancakes527

@pancakes527

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#85

Gopi is wrong in a lot of ways. By the way why would be leave the city and go somewhere else when her mom and dad were there to support her. They were never mad at her. It would have a lot of since if gopi parents werent alive and she left the city. But why leave it when they are alive. I think leaving everybody bad the situations worst.

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Zinnia

@Mogwai

Sparkler

Posted: 11 years ago

#86

The only mistake from Gopi's part is the fact that she hid her pregnancy. I can understand the resentment felt by Kokila and Ahem. But my sympathy for the Modis stops there.

What Gopi said about 'bharpayi,' I think that was understandable. Also, agreed that Kokila didn't throw her out of the house but did she really have any other choice? We all know what Kokila is like...she would've made Gopi's life hell. I really don't blame her for leaving!

Anyways, I want to see Gopi taking a stand for herself now. No more getting bullied into a corner.

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 11 years ago

#87

Every one has choices.

What RJ has said is correct , her self pity had no meaning , no one told her not to keep any relation even with her parents . So what is she complaining about that Ahemji had his full parivaar and she had nobody , who TOLD her to not keep contact with her parivaar . That was purely her choice . So much guts she has that she walked out on a marraige herself and hid for years succesfully from the father that he sired a baby and on the top she is doing egoistic talks like 'you never tried to find where i was for 8 years' arre koi mazaak hai kya . His kid died and YOU left instead of braving out the tough times and on the top ur telling him u did not try to find me ...each time u leave he will run behind u trying to find u is it , is it some hide n seek game . And another egoistic talk was telling Kokila tat u guys can some times come and see the kid ...i agree Koki is not perfect but did not this statement reek of ego . U first hide the kid from them then u tell them yeah sometimes u can peep in , how the hell will they feel and react . And telling Madhuben in the car , how CAN they do this , why , exactly the way YOU did it , acting as if Vidya needed no sperm to come in the world but was conceived immaculately .

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Janaki

@RamKiSeeta

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Posted: 11 years ago

#88

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Every one has choices.

What RJ has said is correct , her self pity had no meaning , no one told her not to keep any relation even with her parents . So what is she complaining about that Ahemji had his full parivaar and she had nobody , who TOLD her to not keep contact with her parivaar . That was purely her choice . So much guts she has that she walked out on a marraige herself and hid for years succesfully from the father that he sired a baby and on the top she is doing egoistic talks like 'you never tried to find where i was for 8 years' arre koi mazaak hai kya . His kid died and YOU left instead of braving out the tough times and on the top ur telling him u did not try to find me ...each time u leave he will run behind u trying to find u is it , is it some hide n seek game . And another egoistic talk was telling Kokila tat u guys can some times come and see the kid ...i agree Koki is not perfect but did not this statement reek of ego . U first hide the kid from them then u tell them yeah sometimes u can peep in , how the hell will they feel and react . And telling Madhuben in the car , how CAN they do this , why , exactly the way YOU did it , acting as if Vidya needed no sperm to come in the world but was conceived immaculately .

Totally agree with these statements! In today's episode, Ahem and Gopi displayed how much ego they both had. First Gopi saying "You guys can sometimes come to see the kid" as if Vidya belongs ONLY to her, and then asking her mom how could a father separate a kid from its mother, made me cringe! 😵 It makes me so angry when a father or mother acts as if they had the kid themselves! It takes BOTH and egg and sperm to create a baby, so NO parent has the right to demand sole ownership of their kid! If Ahem and Gopi cannot compromise for Vidya's happiness, then she is honestly better off living with her grandmother Madhu. Right now, neither of them deserves her if they want to keep her to themselves. 👎🏼 Poor Vidya is suffering sandwiched between her two childish parents. 🤔

Despite all her crying and weeping, I lost some sympathy for Gopi after seeing today's episode. Don't take me wrong. I am not applauding Ahem and Kokila either, but I lost some of the appreciation I had for Gopi's character. No one told her to leave her parents. Her parents loved her and always felt her absence keenly. Gopi knew they were suffering from her loss for so many years. How could she abandon them when she finally had parents after so long? A normal woman in her situation and condition would have left the Modis and gone to her parents. No girl would want to live alone in her pregnancy. People who have suffered such trauma naturally reach out to their loved ones, and after being rejected by the Modis, a girl would go to her parents for love and shelter.

This whole track makes no sense in so many ways! CVs have ruined so many characters after introducing Radha in the story. Ahem, Gopi, Kokila...all of them have been ruined. 🥱

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 11 years ago

#89

RJ its the same with me , i am not a fan of any character or actor . I simply see the story as it goes . Last time i was bugged with her when she decided to leave Meera motherless and take blame of Kinjal on head . Dhaval and Kokila were there to bother about Kinjal , how about thinking of the responsibility of bringing up the child that YOU brought u in the world .

I hate absconding parents in seperation cases . So many flyers i see as i go to various stores , about mothers and fathers who have flown with their child as divorce case is still pending in court , the other parent beating his /her head on the wall trying to find the child . 8 years u r not informing the man torn with grief about his first child that he has a baby and u had no intention either , ur making up some cock n bull story that i was gonna tell when the kid grew up ...pray when was this going to be , and what would exactly change then ? The sasural people would be even more furious that for so long they were not informed . Gopi needs a realtiy check instead of all pampering her as the victim . She has been very cunning about the kid and is now saying its MY daughter and so what , he had his full family , i had her we r equals . Let them apologize for their unfair blame but what about HER actions ? What about apology for them ? What Maa ka dil , what about baap ? Baap is needed or no to sire a kid and Baap has dil or no ?

Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 11 years ago

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risha8

@risha8

Inactive

Posted: 11 years ago

#90

whatever gopi did was absulotely correct coz when everyone blames for nothing what will she do?? she has left coz no one couldn't support her although her parents were there but fact is that gopi cant go to their parents after her in-laws blamed her for meera's loss so she left the city and her what matters is her dignity of woman and she did it and whatever koki did was wrong coz gopi even risked her life to save ahem so how can koki forget it?? its just koki is too much possessive towards meera and couldn't bear her loss.till today being a single parent she raised vidya by her own and also taught about sanskar.

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