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ilike_tv

@ilike_tv

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Posted: 13 years ago

#31

Was I a bit curt and rude here?!!!😕 Sorry friends... But this BF leaving the girl for his mom issue is kinda close to my heart.. One of my friend commit suicide after such an incident!!! I will never validate her act.. But the guy break her heart with 2 words.. MOM DISAGREES!!!! 2 years back I saw him in my home town.. Happily married with 3 kids!!!!

Sorry again If I hurt your feelings!!!

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Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

#32

@Sherry -

Whatever the compulsory reason, the fact remains that Ahem did not even try. Ruchi put up the right words for it. Ahem did not try to even tell his mom about Anitha. Maybe she would have said no but also maybe she would have agreed. He assumed that Anitha was not what his mom wanted when he did not even know😕

That I cannot accept. If he had tried and Koki had said no then that is different. His Majboori was only in his head. He betrayed his heart for that.

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Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: ilike_tv
Was I a bit curt and rude here?!!!😕 Sorry friends... But this BF leaving the girl for his mom issue is kinda close to my heart.. One of my friend commit suicide after such an incident!!! I will never validate her act.. But the guy break her heart with 2 words.. MOM DISAGREES!!!! 2 years back I saw him in my home town.. Happily married with 3 kids!!!!

Sorry again If I hurt your feelings!!!

Ponny, you were not rude girl😊 What are you talking about and do not apologize..

Here we are having a great discussion and you go apologizing😆

I am sorry about your friend. It is unfair and the fault remains on both sides. The guy was wrong and so was your friend. A sad thing that she took her life for something that was just a passing phase for the other person

And Ponny, here is a 🤗 for you.

Edited by Justlikethat1 - 13 years ago

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yhm_craze

@yhm_craze

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Posted: 13 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: ilike_tv
Was I a bit curt and rude here?!!!😕 Sorry friends... But this BF leaving the girl for his mom issue is kinda close to my heart.. One of my friend commit suicide after such an incident!!! I will never validate her act.. But the guy break her heart with 2 words.. MOM DISAGREES!!!! 2 years back I saw him in my home town.. Happily married with 3 kids!!!!

Sorry again If I hurt your feelings!!!

no Ponny...you were absolutely right...and really sad to hear about your friend ..

Ahem was a real jerk with Anita and he knows that..he also knows that somewhere he is responsible that Kinjal is not happy with her life (though he is not as responsible as he believes)..thats why he went all weird when Anita came back and tried in his own stupid ways to make things better for her..thanks to Gopi they could bring a happy ending for Anita...however i am not sure if Ahem would have been happy in his life knowing that Anita did something drastic like ending her life for him!

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Sherry

@NazimKiDewani

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Posted: 13 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Ponny, you were not rude girl😊 What are you talking about and do not apologize..
Here we are having a great discussion and you go apologizing😆

I am sorry about your friend. It is unfair and the fault remains on both sides. The guy was wrong and so was your friend. A sad thing that she took her life for something that was just a passing phase for the other person

Come on Ponny deariee... Why u say sorry we just have duscession here.. So ne sorry chorry... 🤗

but for ur friend i feel real sorry @ blod im agree with harini...
I dont understand why we girls are so santemantel... Means our life are really so cheap who we going end so easily.. Sorry but forme these type a girl are big fools... For sake of one guy or love they commited suicide without thinking abt their parents... Unbelieveble!!

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Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: dipsy80

no Ponny...you were absolutely right...and really sad to hear about your friend ..
Ahem was a real jerk with Anita and he knows that..he also knows that somewhere he is responsible that Kinjal is not happy with her life (though he is not as responsible as he believes)..thats why he went all weird when Anita came back and tried in his own stupid ways to make things better for her..thanks to Gopi they could bring a happy ending for Anita...however i am not sure if Ahem would have been happy in his life knowing that Anita did something drastic like ending her life for him!

See that is the reason I believe Ahem is the closest to reality. He did mistakes, was cruel and heartless but as he realized it he changed. He may not have profusely apologized to everyone for his deeds but he did make up for it in whatever ways he could, be it stupid or not.

To err is human but to want to take responsibility and correct that error speaks a lot about you. I have always felt that Ahem would have actually been true to his marriage had UrShi, Kinjal and Koki given him a chance.

The illiteracy was so sudden and the UrShi and Kinjal KKs showed to him a girl who was greedy, a money hunter and added to it, plain stupid. That made him react badly.

He realized that slowly.. it took a while but today Ahem Modi has made up to his past and his present. It is his fortune that Anitha was not any worse than she was when he found her. He was lucky but he also worked to make up to her and to Gopi. It was a combined effort😛

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: -GiNa-

Come on Ponny deariee... Why u say sorry we just have duscession here.. So ne sorry chorry... 🤗

but for ur friend i feel real sorry @ blod im agree with harini...
I dont understand why we girls are so santemantel... Means our life are really so cheap who we going end so easily.. Sorry but forme these type a girl are big fools... For sake of one guy or love they commited suicide without thinking abt their parents... Unbelieveble!!

Sherry dear, sometimes emotions overflows and blinds you from the reality.

I do not agree about taking ones life for love but these people certainly deserve some help and sympathy.

You know a person who just thinks for a minute before committing suicide never commits suicide. The impulse to end ones life overpowers them so much that they are ready to die? It is their last cry for help and unfortunately they do not get it on time😭

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Sherry

@NazimKiDewani

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Posted: 13 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

See that is the reason I believe Ahem is the closest to reality. He did mistakes, was cruel and heartless but as he realized it he changed. He may not have profusely apologized to everyone for his deeds but he did make up for it in whatever ways he could, be it stupid or not.

To err is human but to want to take responsibility and correct that error speaks a lot about you. I have always felt that Ahem would have actually been true to his marriage had UrShi, Kinjal and Koki given him a chance.
The illiteracy was so sudden and the UrShi and Kinjal KKs showed to him a girl who was greedy, a money hunter and added to it, plain stupid. That made him react badly.

He realized that slowly.. it took a while but today Ahem Modi has made up to his past and his present. It is his fortune that Anitha was not any worse than she was when he found her. He was lucky but he also worked to make up to her and to Gopi. It was a combined effort😛

👏 thats my point Harini ... Love you dear u explain my ahem perfectly... A big tight hug form my side 🤗

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yhm_craze

@yhm_craze

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Posted: 13 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

See that is the reason I believe Ahem is the closest to reality. He did mistakes, was cruel and heartless but as he realized it he changed. He may not have profusely apologized to everyone for his deeds but he did make up for it in whatever ways he could, be it stupid or not.

To err is human but to want to take responsibility and correct that error speaks a lot about you. I have always felt that Ahem would have actually been true to his marriage had UrShi, Kinjal and Koki given him a chance.
The illiteracy was so sudden and the UrShi and Kinjal KKs showed to him a girl who was greedy, a money hunter and added to it, plain stupid. That made him react badly.

He realized that slowly.. it took a while but today Ahem Modi has made up to his past and his present. It is his fortune that Anitha was not any worse than she was when he found her. He was lucky but he also worked to make up to her and to Gopi. It was a combined effort😛

i agree with you Harini..even Ahem was cheated in the sense that he wasnt aware of Gopi's illiteracy and Koki deliberately didnt tell him..and he added to it by reacting the wrong way and removing his anger on the wrong person...even good people make mistakes but how you react once you realize you made a mistake is what defines you...even after falling in love with Gopi he did not force himself on her..he knew Gopi loved him and would obey him but he worked patiently towards being a friend to her, making her trust him and be comfortable with him...thats what i love about Ahem...the Ahem of today that is..the amount of respect and regard he has for Gopi..