Kokila's upbringing! - Page 2

Originally posted by: ilike_tv

I have slight disagreement here!!! I will not say Ahem good and Kinjal bad.. In my eyes both were bad... When he had values?!!! before marriage what was he?!! The so called familiy values and respect for others, where was it? He was a jerk... complete mamma's boy... ( sorry sherry!!😛 ) he had no respect for his dad..coz his mom never gave a damn about him.. he let down the girl he loved just coz his mom said no!!!😲 did ask her permission before falling in love with Anitha?!!!😡

I know all of you would say anita is very bad and Koki's decision is good... But I have totally no respect for such guys, who leave their love for money or mummy!!!

Then why Koki selected Gopi over Rashi for her lakhon mein ek Harvard educated son?!!! She did it coz, she knew that a gawar will always stay under her feet!!!! ( I still remember those first episodes!!!) But she changed.. Yet again I would say its Gopi's effect ...

Sorry Ponny... If was really that bad as u ppl said so he never ever got married with gopi not coz hes mama's boys coz he respect his mom decision.. Coz he loves her to the core n today whtever Ahem is coz of Kokilai ab tum isko koi bhi naam doon.. Mamas boy ya respectable son... He leave his love coz of his mom.. In this world so many guyz are doing the same as ahem did... Coz sometime parent's or their decision are more important than anything of our lifes... So i dont think any thing ahem did worng...
As for parag or his relationship so since childhood he observes how his mom all lone upbring ahem n kinjal or parag is equal resposible for Ahem behaviour towards him... Parag isnt the idol dad for his son.. Till that today wht parag do for him nothing... Being a kid if u saw ur dad are so careless or irresposible so u should be excatually like ahem... 😳

Originally posted by: -GiNa-

Sorry Ponny... If was really that bad as u ppl said so he never ever got married with gopi not coz hes mama's boys coz he respect his mom decision.. Coz he loves her to the core n today whtever Ahem is coz of Kokilai ab tum isko koi bhi naam doon.. Mamas boy ya respectable son... He leave his love coz of his mom.. In this world so many gum are doing the same as ahem did... Coz sometime parent's are more important than anything of our lifes... So i dont think any thing ahem did worng...
As for parag or his relationship so since childhood he observes how his mom all lone upbring ahem n kinjal or parag is equal pesposible for Ahem behaviou towards him... Parag isnt the idol dad for his son.. Till that today wht parag do for him nothing... Being a kid if u saw ur dad are so caress or irresposible so u must be excatually like ahem... 😳

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Originally posted by: -GiNa-

Sorry Ponny... If was really that bad as u ppl said so he never ever got married with gopi not coz hes mama's boys coz he respect his mom decision.. Coz he loves her to the core n today whtever Ahem is coz of Kokilai ab tum isko koi bhi naam doon.. Mamas boy ya respectable son... He leave his love coz of his mom.. In this world so many guyz are doing the same as ahem did... Coz sometime parent's or their decision are more important than anything of our lifes... So i dont think any thing ahem did worng...
As for parag or his relationship so since childhood he observes how his mom all lone upbring ahem n kinjal or parag is equal pesposible for Ahem behaviour towards him... Parag isnt the idol dad for his son.. Till that today wht parag do for him nothing... Being a kid if u saw ur dad are so careless or irresposible so u should be excatually like ahem... 😳

sorry sherry to disagree with watever u said abt Parag... Parag s nt careless or irresponsible... yeah he s nt into business like Chirag dat doesnt give a reason to ignore one's own father its wrong... Parag dnt take active role n his kids upbringing coz koki never allowed... dere r many instances we hv seen koki telling Parag nt to interfer n Ahem's nd kinjal's matters...

Originally posted by: Leki

sorry sherry to disagree with watever u said abt Parag... Parag s nt careless or irresponsible... yeah he s nt into business like Chirag dat doesnt give a reason to ignore one's own father its wrong... Parag dnt take active role n his kids upbringing coz koki never allowed... dere r many instances we hv seen koki telling Parag nt to interfer n Ahem's nd kinjal's matters...

if Ahem had so much respect nd love for his mom y didnt he tuk permission frm his mom before falling in love with Anita????? y did he treat gopi so badly even aftr knowing his mom choose her???

Originally posted by: -GiNa-

Sorry Ponny... If was really that bad as u ppl said so he never ever got married with gopi not coz hes mama's boys coz he respect his mom decision.. Coz he loves her to the core n today whtever Ahem is coz of Kokilai ab tum isko koi bhi naam doon.. Mamas boy ya respectable son... He leave his love coz of his mom.. In this world so many guyz are doing the same as ahem did... Coz sometime parent's or their decision are more important than anything of our lifes... So i dont think any thing ahem did worng...
As for parag or his relationship so since childhood he observes how his mom all lone upbring ahem n kinjal or parag is equal resposible for Ahem behaviour towards him... Parag isnt the idol dad for his son.. Till that today wht parag do for him nothing... Being a kid if u saw ur dad are so careless or irresposible so u should be excatually like ahem... 😳

I dont know why many guys do so, sherry?!!! They fall in love with a girl and suddenly for their parents they say bye to them.. and happily marry another one for their parents!!! He had the same parents when he fall in love with the girl... he did not ask anyoneone's permission before falling in love with her... then on a fine morning he remembered he had parents a family etc etc and They did not approve the relationship so love turned into no love!!!! If he could not convince his parents , he should not have fallen in love in the first place!!!

About parag, Koki did not like him from the first day.. Not coz he is valueless or characterless .. she did not like him coz he is a poet... he is not a businessman like his brother.. Not earning big money.. It's coz of his cultured behavior, the house was not a war zone!!! Ahem had no respect for his father coz of the picture Koki given to him... she portrayed him as a nikamma!!! I strongly believe that he goes to all the kavi sammelan , just to escape from Koki and her shrp eyes!!!

It is natural that kids are more attached to mom.. afterall, she is the one carried them inside her body as a part of it!!! Father is the reality that kids know from mom... The way she show that will stick to their mind.. Koki showed parag in a bad light ... Until recent days he was in the shades for Ahem...

Originally posted by: Leki

sorry sherry to disagree with watever u said abt Parag... Parag s nt careless or irresponsible... yeah he s nt into business like Chirag dat doesnt give a reason to ignore one's own father its wrong... Parag dnt take active role n his kids upbringing coz koki never allowed... dere r many instances we hv seen koki telling Parag nt to interfer n Ahem's nd kinjal's matters...

if Ahem had so much respect nd love for his mom y didnt he tuk permission frm his mom before falling in love with Anita????? y did he treat gopi so badly even aftr knowing his mom choose her???

Here we go in the same stream!!! are you also from kottayam?!!!😉

@ Leki... Im so sorry ... But any mother or wife would never stop has husband n has kids father to take a part in upbringing in their own kids.. U take it worng koki here... Koki also want that parag as father showing his interest n love towards his kids or taking part in their upbringing. parag itself isnt interested as i feel coz he's so much busy in his life he have no worry abt his kids n wife.. So in my heart have no soft coner for parag as husband or as father...

I agree Ahem didnt took permission from his mom before falling in love with Anita... How many of us took permission from our mom n dad before falling in love... No one?? When u falling in love so ur heart n ur emotions wont wait for any permision.. Love is just happend... So u wont say why he not took permission.. Come on... !! He is human or like any human he falling love... So wht permission n all yaar

Originally posted by: -GiNa-

@ Leki... Im so sorry ... But any mother or wife would never stop has husband n has kids father to take a part in upbringing in thi own kids.. U take it worng koki here... Koki also want that parag as father showing his interest n love towards his kids or taking part in thi upbringing not parag itself isnt interested as i feel coz so much busy in his life he have no worry abt his kids n wife.. So in my heart have no soft cone for parag as husband or as father...

I agree Ahem didnt took permission from his mom before falling in love with Anita... How many of us took permission from our mom n dad before falling in love... No one?? When u falling in love so ur heart n ur emotions wont wait for any permision.. Love is just happend... So u wont say why he not took permission.. Come on... !! He is human or like any human he falling love... So wht permission n all yaar

Yes, love happens... but when mom interferes Love goes outta window!!! That's so unfair!!!

@Ponny, Leki and Sherry - The fact that Ahem never stood up for Anitha or his love shows that he just did not value that relationship as he should have. Anitha was his dream. He thought he wanted just that particular dream and as any person whose dream was snatched away he poured his disappointment into the person he could put it on which was Gopi unfortunately.

Originally posted by: ilike_tv

Yes, love happens... but when mom interferes Love goes outta window!!! That's so unfair!!!