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Posted: 13 years ago
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Kokila's upbringing was bad?? Really? I suppose both Ahem and Kinjal were brought up the same atleast with same values and morals! But Ahem the angry young man who never acknowledged his wife,never valued her,looked for ways to insult her,wanted to break all ties with her is now a completely changed man! The way he cares for Gopi is amazing! Not just Gopi his attitude towards everybody became softer! Imagine kinjal making the same wish year ago I think the house would have been on fire! 😛 He came a long way and yes he realized the value of his gem wife! But kinjal is nowhere changed and she is getting worser and worser! May be the effect of urmi!! God knows when she will realize the value of dhawal!

So Koki dear when both Ahem and Kinjal are your khoon,Ahem is a perfect man an kinjal 🤢 So dont doubt your upbringing! Life teaches us many things which Ahem has learnt and evolved himself but your dikri will never change!! 🤢

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Madhu , go back to your books😊

But a nice post⭐️
Parents usually blame themselves when something goes wrong in the child's life. I know it is so easy to say that one's upbringing was wrong and the fault is fully on the mother and father but the truth is, when one interacts with the outside environment, one gets to see the world. That is why we have been giving our own thinking capability. Blaming our parents is never the solution. They make mistakes just like us. After a particular age we decide what we need to do.
Kinjal is educated and was wise enough to fall in 'love' and choose her own lover. Her choice was incorrect but she is not ready to accept the fact. Blaming her parents and her brother and not seeing where she is responsible is not correct.

Same applies to Rashi. That is why I do not fall for the "Urmi is the main cause" excuse😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice post Madhu.. 😃
I agree with Harini... parents always want the best for their children and they give good sanskars to their children, but as you grow up you tend to mingle with outside environment and meet so many different people and then thinking that we can be this and that... so all the old sanskars will be layered with the new.. ..But I really dislike Kinjal for asking such a gift this only shows how cheap she is...She is thinking that she can become rich overnight... we r yet to see what happens ...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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If the parent's upbringing make or break a person,then Koki's upbringing must be crap!!! Both Ahem and Kinjal are the examples of that!!! Both were bad... Ahem changed coz of Gopi... Kinjal still bad... no one had influenced her at all... sadly dawal bhai failed to do what Gopi did to Ahem...

So in short Koki brought up 2 spoiled self centered kids... I really wonder why she is preaching about her parvarish?!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilike_tv

If the parent's upbringing make or break a person,then Koki's upbringing must be crap!!! Both Ahem and Kinjal are the examples of that!!! Both were bad... Ahem changed coz of Gopi... Kinjal still bad... no one had influenced her at all... sadly dawal bhai failed to do what Gopi did to Ahem...

So in short Koki brought up 2 spoiled self centered kids... I really wonder why she is preaching about her parvarish?!!!


The question is is upbringing the sole reason to make or break a person? I would say no. It has an effect but it is not the sole reason.

Ahem and Kinjal were/are spoiled no doubt but they also have their good points. Ahem atleast has been respectful of his elders. Apart from his actions towards Gopi, he has been pretty much a good man at heart.
As for Kinjal, well the less said the better. 😊

Her parvarrish I guess are the morals she believes she has given them. Unfortunately it does not seem to have had an effect on them anyway. The only good thing is that atleast Kinjal and Ahem do not steal, lie and harm others physically😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Im agree with Harini...

I accetp ponny Ahem n Kinjal both were spoiled... But atleast Ahem knows his families values n respect of his elders.. We never seen Ahem such batimees with his elders n youngers to... We never seen Ahem rude n dis respect jigar n kinjal... I accept to Ahem's changed is totally by gopi but his mom to if koki wasnt insistsed to Ahem to accept gopi as ur life patner n Ahem understand n respect his mom words thats y he accept gopi.. N also gopi innocens n honesty milited his heart... So this is the upbringing of koki.. Who made her son responsible n both way bussniess n life..

But as for kinjal so since starting we seen her as same as she is today... Big time batimees with each n every person in has life... But in kinjal cause im not going to balme koki upbringing... Kokila as mother was give equal parvarvish n saskar like every parent does... But its up to kids how the implement their parvarvish n saskar in their lifes...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I have slight disagreement here!!! I will not say Ahem good and Kinjal bad.. In my eyes both were bad... When he had values?!!! before marriage what was he?!! The so called familiy values and respect for others, where was it? He was a jerk... complete mamma's boy... ( sorry sherry!!😛 ) he had no respect for his dad..coz his mom never gave a damn about him.. he let down the girl he loved just coz his mom said no!!!😲 did ask her permission before falling in love with Anitha?!!!😡

I know all of you would say anita is very bad and Koki's decision is good... But I have totally no respect for such guys, who leave their love for money or mummy!!!

Then why Koki selected Gopi over Rashi for her lakhon mein ek Harvard educated son?!!! She did it coz, she knew that a gawar will always stay under her feet!!!! ( I still remember those first episodes!!!) But she changed.. Yet again I would say its Gopi's effect ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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u r absolutely right. wonderful post
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilike_tv

I have slight disagreement here!!! I will not say Ahem good and Kinjal bad.. In my eyes both were bad... When he had values?!!! before marriage what was he?!! The so called familiy values and respect for others, where was it? He was a jerk... complete mamma's boy... ( sorry sherry!!😛 ) he had no respect for his dad..coz his mom never gave a damn about him.. he let down the girl he loved just coz his mom said no!!!😲 did ask her permission before falling in love with Anitha?!!!😡

I know all of you would say anita is very bad and Koki's decision is good... But I have totally no respect for such guys, who leave their love for money or mummy!!!

Then why Koki selected Gopi over Rashi for her lakhon mein ek Harvard educated son?!!! She did it coz, she knew that a gawar will always stay under her feet!!!! ( I still remember those first episodes!!!) But she changed.. Yet again I would say its Gopi's effect ...



thats exactly what i was trying to say ahem was equally worse if not more but he changed and thats what matters! Be it gopi or anyone else Koki Ahem changed coz they had values in them! But Kinjal come what may she never changes! And I have no respect for guys who leave their parents for a girl!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i agree with watever Ponny said... both kinjal nd Ahem r spoilt brats... if Ahem changed its nly coz of Gopi and nt Koki... if it ws Koki's upbringing den he wuldnt hv treated the way he did to Gopi watever be the reason... Koki s responsible for making dem de way dey r/ were... Dey care/ cared only abt demselves nd deir Mom... nd abt kinjal behaving with Dhawal, koki hv set the example by the way she treat Parag... Kinjal hv seen dis allthrough her life so hw cn one blame her nd moreover dis was nt de life she expectd so cnt blame her fully even though she herslf ruined her life...

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