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FlowerHater

@FlowerHater

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Posted: 13 years ago

😊O.K now I know that what I am going to say you all will kill 🤢me for that but I just dont want Ahemji to get Gopi so easily!!!!😊 I know that what he did to her was not entirely his mistake as he was betrayed by some of the people who were close to him and he considered her one of them and just took out his anger on her, as we can say he was not wrong but the circumstances were and he is not a saint!!😊 But the way he took out his anger like physically abusing her and emotionally too was not right!!!!😭 I just want him to win her over in the course of time,make her trust him and make her believe that there is no need to fear and that he is her true companion,a saathiya who will always be there to protect her,stand by her, believe and share things with her,joys and sorrows of both of them!!!!!!!!😳

No offence just my P.O.V!!!!!!😊😊

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

No offense taken 😃
I think Ahamji himself has the same PoV.. Today was just the beginning. He assured an soothed her terror today. He will continue doing that as days go by.
I think he has also slowly started accepting the fact that he may be in love. With that said, he has also tried to show her that he cares and has been attentive enough to her words on a number of occasions..
I do not think Gopi will ever cause any hurdle to Aham but being the sweet person he is (did I just type sweet 😳), he will realize her insecurities and fears and will slowly work towards making her feel better in the process giving her the love she deserves and making up for their horrible past..

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Ashwin Maharaj

@ShaunSA

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Posted: 13 years ago

Well said abbay and harini! 👍🏼

And I agree with you both. Aham does have some karma due to him for treating her like dirt in the first year of their marriage. And whilst UrShi and Kinjal bear some of responsibility for that at the end of the day he was quite a nasty guy.

And besides. It will be good for his humungous ego to be taken down a peg or two. By none other than our simple Gopiji. 😎

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FlowerHater

@FlowerHater

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Posted: 13 years ago

😊@ justlikethat: Very true👍🏼 and also he knows that she is really naive to understand his sudden change so he first have to make her heart free from all the fear which he has planted in her heart and make her comfortable around him!!!!! 😊

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ANJ4

@ANJ4

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hey I line your POV... But I just want gohem scene ... It make my whole body tingle and I have such a goodtime telling my hubby what is happening in my show ... you should see the look on his face ... it is priceless... If you guys don't hear from me ..know that he has commited me to a mental hospital LOL

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navyab

@navyab

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Posted: 13 years ago

Well Ahem was very rude & abused Gopi till sometime back...but the best part is that he has realised what he has done & he on a mission to correct it. He has started the process of getting his wife to open upto him & put her at ease where he is concerned...it is not a easy process & it will take double the time he has spent in abusing & hating her...& building her confidence in him !!!

Gopi on part will never accuse Ahem but the hard part for Ahem due to what he has done in the past will be in building her trust in him so that she becomes very comfortable to share all she goes thru & when he looks at himself in the mirror not to see the guy who had abused & hated his wife !!

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Munni

@munnihyderabad

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Posted: 13 years ago

well said guys

shaun... there is not an ounce of ego in him... gopi already took over his ego

and abay he will make up to her... eventually

but he is not mean and nasty,,,, it's the kalakaries and the stupidity of his wife which led to his behavior,...

in that situation, when the illiteracy thing, the necklace thing came up,,,that is when he slapped her... and any man with a heart and mind in the right place would do the same as what he did...

so he did not hit her out of evilness and hatred,... it was out of frustration and anger triggered by the kalakaries...

so i would say he was not wrong in that situation... it was a misunderstanding between them which he will eventually erase it with his love and trust

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: abbay
😊@ justlikethat: Very true👍🏼 and also he knows that she is really naive to understand his sudden change so he first have to make her heart free from all the fear which he has planted in her heart and make her comfortable around him!!!!! 😊

Ahamji is really good at heart Abhay.. Yes he was a jerk before but Gopi has changed it quite a bit. He now sees things in a different perspective and that will make him a better human being😛

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad
well said guys

shaun... there is not an ounce of ego in him... gopi already took over his ego

and abay he will make up to her... eventually

but he is not mean and nasty,,,, it's the kalakaries and the stupidity of his wife which led to his behavior,...
in that situation, when the illiteracy thing, the necklace thing came up,,,that is when he slapped her... and any man with a heart and mind in the right place would do the same as what he did...

so he did not hit her out of evilness and hatred,... it was out of frustration and anger triggered by the kalakaries...

so i would say he was not wrong in that situation... it was a misunderstanding between them which he will eventually erase it with his love and trust

I was waiting for your defense for Ahamji,,,😛

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Munni

@munnihyderabad

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Ahamji is really good at heart Abhay.. Yes he was a jerk before but Gopi has changed it quite a bit. He now sees things in a different perspective and that will make him a better human being😛

now gopism is ruling his heart..

guess what he talked to urmi... asked about her health ...walked around her slimming center

all these due to gopism ruling his heart